Christmas is all about…
Cookies! Presents! Santa Claus! These are the answers you might hear if you ask a child what Christmas is all about. Of course, we adults are more sophisticated. Our answers are more likely to be “spending time with friends and family” or “giving to those less fortunate” or “peace on earth.”
Now, these are all good answers – I love presents and cookies, and peace on earth would be just grand. But all these things are no more than a tiny part of what Christmas is all about – the tissue paper, so to speak, in our gift bag of Christmas.
So what is Christmas all about then? If we tear aside the tissue paper and tinsel, what do we find as the real, sustaining, comforting substance of Christmas? You know the answer, of course. Christmas is all about celebrating a tiny baby born in a manger – the Christ Jesus.
It’s no wonder we lose sight of the true meaning of [tag-self]Christmas[/tag-self] amidst all the to-do lists and must-have presents of the season. One of my less-than-stellar parenting moments occurred in a Wal-Mart a few weeks before Christmas when my oldest son was about nine months old. My husband and I strapped Kegan into the baby seat of the shopping cart and plunged separately into the toy aisle. Ten minutes later, we met up again—but neither of us had Kegan. Each of us thought the other had taken him, while he sat quietly at the end of the toy aisle waiting for his distracted parents. We retrieved our child, none the worse for being temporarily abandoned. (And please tell me I’m not the only mother who has done something like this!)
Just as we lost track of our flesh-and-blood baby in the toy store aisles at Christmas, so do we all sometimes lose track of the baby [tag-tec]Jesus[/tag-tec]. Our focus shifts from the everlasting gift God gave us to the Elmo TMX or Nintendo Wii we want to get our kids. Slow down—savor the season—celebrate our Messiah. How to do this? Try—
• Celebrating Advent. Advent is traditionally the four Sundays before Christmas when we anticipate Jesus’ birth. Make or buy an Advent wreath, light a new candle each Sunday, and read a family devotion. Any Christian bookstore should have Advent wreaths and family devotions books.
• Celebrating the 12 Days of Christmas. The 12 Days of Christmas is more than a song – it is the time period from Christmas day to Epiphany (January 6, when the Wise Men traditionally came). Christmas is a season, not a day, and it begins December 25. Let everyone else take their trees the day after Christmas, while your [tag-ice]family[/tag-ice] continues quietly celebrating. I have even thought of spreading out our gifts over the course of the 12 days instead of opening them all Christmas morning, but I’ve never been able to convince the rest of the family.
• Giving to others. Instead of breaking your budget buying things people don’t need just to have a gift for them, “adopt” a family or child who needs gifts and share with them. Most churches and stores have “Angel Trees” with names of needy children.
Whatever you do, remember that Jesus is quietly waiting at the end of the toy aisle for us to notice we’ve forgotten him again.
How do I keep Christ at the center of Christmas for my family?
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Start with Advent. The four Sundays before Christmas are a traditional time to anticipate Jesus’ birth—make or buy an Advent wreath, light a new candle each Sunday, and read a brief family devotion together. Any Christian bookstore carries Advent wreaths and family devotion books to guide the season.
What are the 12 Days of Christmas and how can families observe them?
The 12 Days of Christmas is the period from Christmas Day to Epiphany on January 6, when the Wise Men traditionally arrived. Rather than treating Christmas as a single day that ends when gifts are opened, your family can continue the celebration quietly through the full season—leaving the tree up, sharing meals together, and continuing daily devotions.
How can we teach kids that giving is part of Christmas?
Instead of buying gifts people don’t need just to have something to unwrap, consider adopting a family or child through your church or a local store’s Angel Tree. This shifts the focus from receiving to giving and helps children feel the real warmth of the season by making a direct difference in another child’s life.
How do we slow down and enjoy the real meaning of Christmas?
The busyness of the season—the to-do lists, the shopping, the school events—can crowd out the very thing Christmas is about. Intentional, simple practices like lighting Advent candles, reading a family devotion, and choosing one act of generosity together help anchor the season in its true meaning and give children something lasting to carry forward.
Stacey Schifferdecker is the happy but harried mother of three school-aged children—two boys and a girl. She is also a freelance writer, a Children’s Minister, a PTA volunteer, and a Scout leader. Stacey has a Bachelor’s degree in Communications and French and a Master’s degree in English. She has written extensively about parenting and education as well as business, technology, travel, and hobbies.
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