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Kids and Cell Phones

The debate over if kids should be permitted to have cell phones and at what age is it most appropriate to give kids cell phones continues to rage on throughout the world. Believe it or not, this debate has been in existence for just over a decade now. Despite the pros and cons associated with kids and cell phones, it has been established that most children receive their first phone prior to entering high school. Cell phones are becoming so popular among kids that certain carriers, such as Sprint, are actually marketing their mobile products to kids as young as five! If you are struggling with the decision to provide your kids with cell phones and/or the complication of determining what age is considered old enough for kids to have cell phones, you should bookmark this page and follow this series as we walk through the debate from our point of view.

Why is there a Debate over Giving Kids Cell Phones?

We all know and understand that cell phones are a highly beneficial method to keep in touch with others. These devices may be used at any time, in any location. Why, then, is there such a debate about giving kids cell phones? Is it simply a matter of age, or, is it more? As parents, we must consider all that is involved when a child receives a cell phone. This includes the phone and the overall well-being of your child. Before choosing to allow your kids to have cell phones, you must know and understand the potential consequences of this decision. For the purpose and intent of evaluating the decision, as a whole, we will outline in this series the benefits, as well as the disadvantages that come with a kid having their own cell phone.

The Benefits

In this particular installment of this series, we will start with the benefits associated with cell phones and kids. First and foremost, a cell phone offers a high level of convenience. These mobile devices will allow you to either call or text your kid at any time, in any location to check in with them and to relay important messages. Furthermore, if an emergency arises on your end or in the life of your child, the device may be utilized as a point of contact. For many parents, the decision to give their child a cell phone is based on these advantages, alone. Today, twice as many kids have these devices as they did in the year of 2004. In fact, 85% of all teenagers have a cell phone, according to a survey conducted by the organization known as the “Kaiser Family Foundation”. This survey also concluded that 31% of kids from 8 to 10 and 69% of kids from 11 to 14 have their own cell phones.

A teenager that has a cell phone has a unique sense of security in knowing that a parent, guardian, or other loved one is just a text or a call away. Throughout the history of cell phone usage among kids, many dire situations have been dealt with and/or prevented as a result of possessing a cell phone. For example, many kids have been able to prevent or report serious crimes such as attempted abductions, bullying, rape, school shooting, and other issues because they had a cell phone. Lives have been saved as a result of cell phone usage among kids and many worries have been eliminated because parents are able to check on their children quickly and easily through their cell phones.

Disadvantages

Next lets look at some of the disadvantages associated with kids being permitted to have their own cell phone.

A Cell Phone is No Longer Just a Phone

One of the main disadvantages of kids having cell phones is considered to be a huge advantage to kids; however, parents simply do not think so. That is the fact that a cell phone is no longer just a cell phone. These mobile devices have the ability to connect to the internet. As a result of this technology, children that have their own phones may now access social media platforms, video games, video platforms, movies, music, television, and basic search engines. While this level of technology is highly innovative, it could result in the following complications:

  • Children who are permitted to have full range to the internet may end up on websites and be exposed to content that is not age-appropriate.
  • Children that use social media platforms through their cell phones may become the victim of cyberbullying or may come in contact with predators and other individuals that intend to do them harm.
  • If the cell phone is equipped with GPS technology, unfavorable individuals may be able to track a child’s exact location. This, in turn, could put the child at risk for becoming a victim of a crime.
  • Children who are preoccupied with the internet on their cell phones may become inattentive to their surroundings. This could result in an accident, injury, and other complications that could lead to death (i.e. texting and driving).
  • It has been established that kids that are constantly “connected” have lower levels of concentration in other areas of their lives.
  • Many children develop unhealthy “virtual” addictions as a result of constant connectivity to the World Wide Web.

Potential Health Complications

In recent years, many studies and evaluations have been performed that analyze the potential health complications that may be experienced by kids that consistently use cell phones. Many of these have resulted in numerous surprising conclusions. The following outlines many of the concerns that medical professionals have as it relates to cell phone exposure and use among children:

  • Many doctors have stated that cell phones emit low levels of microwave radiation. Based on previous studies concerning this type of radiation, it has been established that exposure results in numerous detrimental biological complications. Examples include changes in the metabolism of the brain, the activation of the heat-shock proteins within the body, as well as damage to the DNA.
  • Medical professionals believe that kids that use cell phones are up to five times more likely to develop glioma, a type of brain cancer, if they use the devices prior to the age of 20.
  • Many countries have banned the use of cell phones among youngsters because of the fact that they could develop brain tumors from use.
  • Many doctors have stated that cell phones have the ability to cause hearing loss and that the nerve cells responsible for auditory functioning could experience death.
  • Many studies have indicated that when young children that use cell phones become victims of electropollution. A child’s brain contains high levels of fluids and a massive amount of ions. A study concluded that one phone call taken by a child that lasts only two minutes could result in an hours’ worth of hyperactivity within the brain.
  • The next potential health complication that may occur when a child is in possession of a cell phone is that it could detrimentally impact the amount of sleep that they get. Pediatricians are starting to discover that cell phone usage actually disrupts the sleep patterns of children. Most kids will either not sleep or wake up frequently when a cell phone is near due to texts, calls, and social media notifications and other types of alerts. When a lack of sleep is experienced, the health may suffer in many other ways, too!

When, Then, Should a Child Be Permitted to Have a Cell Phone?

Now that you understand the potential disadvantages of cell phone use and the benefits associated with a child possessing their own cell phone, it is time to make a decision. Will you allow your child to have their own phone, eventually? If the answer is “no”, you are not alone. Millions of parents agree that kids should not have their own cell phones. If the answer is “yes”, when do you provide your kid with their own phone? According to specialists, there is no one certain age that is best. Each child is unique. You should consider your child’s level of maturity and their responsibility level more than their numeric age.

Many parents provide a kid with a cell phone because that is what they want. This should be completely avoided. You should only provide a cell phone to a kid that deserves and actually needs the mobile device. If your kid travels a lot, is active in school, engages in a lot of extracurricular activities, and spends a lot of time away from your home, they need an effective means of communicating with you. However, remember, despite their age, limitations will need to be set in order to ensure that the kid is using the mobile device safely and responsibly.

As a parent, you must weigh the pros and cons of providing YOUR child with a cell of their own. Do not gauge your child against other kids. YOUR child is unique and has their own needs. As a parent, you will know when the time is right for a cell phone to be provided to your kids. Only you can make that decision and no one else.

If you have any stories you would like to share with us about kids and cell phones, please, feel free to write them up and send them into us or comment below!

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