Teen Parenting – Some Ideas To Get Your Teenager To Open Up

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For many parents, their teen is a closed book, with a padlock, and poison spikes, and maybe a big dog in front of it. At times it seems impossible to get them to open up and talk about their lives. But talking to your teen and knowing about their lives is one of the best ways to protect them from danger. Spying and snooping around isn’t the best way to get that information either, it will only upset matters if your teen finds out. Communication at this stage of your childs life can definitely be a parenting challenge.

Here are a few ideas and tips that may help get your teen to open up:

If you are a parent of a young child than now is the time to start. Start out young. Keeping a relationship going with your child is easier than starting one when you haven’t had one before. You may find them trying to pull away once they hit a certain age; just keep at it. Communicate, and communicate, share your feelings and be genuinely interested in what your child is saying. Lay the grounds for a trusting and loving relationship at a young age.

Find common ground. Search for things that you and your teen are both interested in. It’s easier to talk about something that you both have in common. That way, you can ask your child about a band’s new album rather than the same old “how was school?”

Be open to what they say. When you get your teenagers talking, don’t be surprised if they say some things you don’t like. Just be open to what they’re telling you instead of being judgmental. You can tell them you don’t approve of something without attacking them. If they feel comfortable talking about serious things, they’ll be more likely to come to you if they have a problem.

Spend more together. A recent study showed that many teenagers rate not having enough time with their parents as one of their top concerns. Many teens feel they can’t talk to their parents because they’re always at work or busy doing something else. We often forget to take time out from our hectic lives to pay enough attention to our kids. Some suggestions for spending extra time with your are:

  • Set up a specific time every week to spend time with your teen
  • Have dinner at the table with the whole family as often as possible
  • Work out or engage in a sport with your kids
  • Drive your teen to school instead of sending them on the bus

While your teen may be reluctant to talk to you at first, keep trying. Hopefully, you’ll eventually break them down and they’ll look forward to talking with you and spending time together.

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