Confidence is a crucial part of our lives; as children and adults. Without it, we are left with a low self-esteem; feelings of unworthiness; and vulnerable to the pitfalls life sometimes doles out. Confident moms and dads = confident children and this, above all else, is the very foundation which will determine the future success or failure of your children. As parents you have an enormous impact on your child’s emotional developoment. Here are some tips on how you can increase your child’s confidence and self-esteem.
It is important for you to be role models for your child. Whether you realize it or not, your children learn and model their behavior from their moms and dads. If your self-esteem is high, your child will pick up on that part of you and absorb it. Keep a positive attitude in everything you do. Think back to the happiest memories from your [tag-tec]childhood[/tag-tec], and use it as a catalyst in your own life. If you become worried or frustrated, avoid outwardly expressing it. Negativity in the home is unhealthy, especially for children.
Counteract their exposure to the unpleasant things in life by having frequent talks invoking the positive aspects. Help build your children’s [tag-ice]self-esteem[/tag-ice] by giving them certain responsibilities around the home, and rewarding them for a job well done. Give them the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them. Encourage them in anything they wish to achieve, utilizing a positive tone.
Be open to their thoughts and feelings. If they have been confronted with a particular situation, listen and be attentive and comforting. However, try not to tell them what to do but allow them to work it through in their own mind. This will give them the tools they need to learn how to interact with others. It is a crucial step in their development. Allowing them to solve their own problems will boost their [tag-self]confidence[/tag-self] immeasurably.
Be sensitive to their needs; don’t brush aside what may seem trivial to you. Remember when you were going through the same phase; be always mindful of it. The more confidence you display in your life, the more confidence your children will retain in their own lives.