Ka Mākua Kalikiano: Ka Pono no ka Hoʻololi.
Hele mai ka makua Kalikiano kūleʻa me kahi pihi aʻo nui a me kahi kōkua liʻiliʻi mai https://www.mamonlineshop.com. Aia kekahi mau manawa me he mea lā ua pau mākou a pau ʻole, a aia kekahi mau manawa e haʻaheo ai mākou i nā mea a kā mākou mau keiki i hoʻokō ai, ʻo ka hoʻolauleʻa wale nō kā mākou makemake. Aia kekahi manawa e pono ai ka hoʻololi ʻana i ke ʻano makua. He ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki, ʻaʻohe ala kūikawā e mālama ai i ka hale o nā keiki lehulehu. ʻO ka mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka makua Karistiano, ʻo ia ka ʻimi ʻana i ke akamai o ke Akua no kēlā me kēia keiki a e hoʻomau i ka maʻalahi e like me kēlā me kēia kūlana.
Hoololi, apo ia
I kēia mau lā, ua hoʻomaka wau i kahi hana hou. Ma kahi aʻu e hana ai i nā ahiahi ma mua, a i kekahi manawa i ke kakahiaka nui, hele wau i kēia manawa e hana i ka ʻaoʻao o ka lā. Hoʻomaka kaʻu lā hana ma kahi o 7am a pau ma kahi o 5pm. Ua manaʻo mākou he hoʻololi maʻalahi ia, akā he hoʻololi nui loa ia. ʻOiai makemake mākou e neʻe wale mai kekahi a i kekahi me ka pilikia ʻole, ʻaʻole i hiki ke hana pēlā. Pono mākou a pau e apo a ʻae a ua hana mākou a pau ma kā mākou ʻano kūʻokoʻa; ʻoi aku kā mākou mau keiki. Eia kahi o kā mākou hiki ke maʻalahi ʻano makua ua pono e komo mai.
E like me kāu i ʻike mua ai mai kaʻu ʻatikala hope loa, He 3 keiki a'u me ka'u wahine he 4, 2 a me 6 mahina. I ka wā mua, ua hakakā kaʻu hiapo me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ʻo papa i ka home i ke kakahiaka a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻolimalima manawa me ia ke ala ʻo ia. ʻO kaʻu keiki, ʻo ia, ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo i ka mea e hana nei a ua huikau loa ia iā ia. Pono kā mākou muli loa e hoʻololi i kāna ʻano moe e like me ka momma a me ka makuakāne. He loli nui kēia ʻike no mākou āpau a pau mākou i ka iho ʻana me kekahi mau pōpoki e hele a puni i kēlā manawa. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pono mākou i kahi kōkua liʻiliʻi. Ua kākau ʻo Shannon Serpette i kahi ʻatikala nui e pili ana Ke Pono nā Mākua i ke kōkua, e ʻoluʻolu e nānā iā ia, maopopo iaʻu e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe.
Nā Haʻawina Pono mākou e Aʻo
He mea koʻikoʻi ka maʻalahi ma o kēia mau hoʻololi. Pono mākou e maʻalahi i ko mākou hoʻololi ʻana i kā mākou papa manawa a puni, a maʻalahi me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana i kā mākou mau keiki e like me kā lākou pane ʻana i kekahi manawa i ka loli ma ka hana ʻana. Pono mākou e hōʻoia i ka ʻike o kā mākou mau keiki e mālama mau ana mākou i nā mea a lākou e hana nei. I kaʻu pane ponoʻī i ko mākou ola hou, ua emi koʻu hoʻoikaika a ʻoi aku ka huhū me nā mea a pau. Ua pule nui mākou e pili ana i ke ʻano e hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻokō i kēia a ʻoiai mākou e hoʻāʻo nei e ʻimi i kā mākou kaulike, ua aʻo mākou i kekahi mau haʻawina koʻikoʻi o ka makua.
- ʻOkoʻa ka pane ʻana o kā mākou mau keiki i nā hakakā a mākou e ʻike ai ma ke ʻano he ʻohana.
- ʻAʻole maopopo kā mākou mau keiki i ka loli a ʻaʻole hoʻi i maopopo i kekahi.
- ʻO ka hana ma o ka hoʻololi ʻana ma ke ʻano he ʻohana e maʻalahi loa ka lanakila ʻana.
- Aia mau ke kōkua i ka wā e pono ai mākou, akā aia kekahi mau manawa e pono ai mākou e noi.
Aia nā mea i ke ola i hiki ʻole iā mākou ke mālama i nā mākua. He ʻāpana ia o ke ola a hiki i ka hoʻololi liʻiliʻi ke hoʻolei i ke koena o kā mākou mau hana maʻamau. E like me nā mākua, pono mākou e maʻalahi me kā mākou mau hoa kāne a me ke ʻano o kā mākou pane ʻana i ka wā e hiki ʻole ai iā mākou ke hoʻomalu i ko mākou ola. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i kekahi manawa pono e hoʻololi, akā hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoikaika e hana i nā hoʻololi e like me ka hiki.
Pane me ke Aloha
Ma waho aʻe o ka maʻalahi, ʻekolu mau mea kikoʻī e hiki i nā mākua Karistiano ke hana e kōkua i kā lākou mau keiki e hana i ka loli. ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu mau keiki i ka nui o ke aloha iā lākou. ʻO kahi puke maikaʻi e kōkua i kēia mea i kapa ʻia ʻo ka 5 ʻŌlelo Aloha a nā keiki na Gary Chapman. Ua wehewehe ʻo Chapman he pono e hoʻopiha piha ʻia ka "pahu aloha" o ke keiki a ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki i nā mea e pono ai ke aloha maoli. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻōlelo kēlā me kēia keiki i ka "ʻōlelo aloha." ʻO kēia mau ʻōlelo aloha he Acts of Service, Touch, Words of Afirmation, Quality Time, a me nā makana. E aʻo i ka ʻōlelo aloha a kāu keiki e ʻōlelo ai, i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonui i kāna pahu aloha i nā manawa loli.
ʻO ka lua o ka hana a nā mākua, ʻo ia ke hoʻi i ka hana maʻamau i ka hikiwawe loa. Pono mākou e maʻalahi ma ke ʻano he mau mākua a ʻike i ka mea nui e hoʻomau i ka hana a me ka wā, akā e holomua nā keiki ma ke ʻano. ʻOiai mākou e hana nei i ke ʻano o ka hana maʻamau hou, ua kōkua ia i kā mākou mau keiki e hoʻihoʻi i nā kumu o kā lākou hana kahiko. Hoʻemi ia i nā mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia a ʻoi aku ka paʻa inā he mea hou nā mea ʻē aʻe a he mea weliweli paha iā lākou.
ʻO ka hana hope e hiki i nā mākua ke hana i nā manawa o ka hoʻololi ʻana, ʻo ia ke kuhikuhi iā lākou iā Iesū i kumu paʻa. Hiki iā mākou ke aʻo iā lākou i nā manawa weliweli, ke loli nā mea he nui, ʻaʻole e loli ke Akua. E noho mau ʻo ia e aloha iā lākou a kōkua iā lākou i kēlā me kēia kūlana. ʻO kekahi mau paukū Baibala e hiki ke hele pū me kēia, ʻo Iosua 1:9, Hebera 13:8, a me Roma 8:38-39. Ua aʻo au i kēia mai kaʻu Baibala hoʻopaʻa haʻawina hui.
ʻAʻohe kānalua e pili ana i ia mea, hele mai ka makua Karistiano kūleʻa me kāna mau piʻi a me nā haʻahaʻa. ʻO ka mea nui ke ʻano o kā mākou pane ʻana i ka wā e pono ai ka hoʻololi ʻana i ke ʻano makua. E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻokoʻa ka hana ʻana o nā mākua, nā keiki mai kekahi i kekahi a ʻo ia ke kumu e makemake mau ai ka makua i ka loli. Pono mākou e mākaukau e maʻalahi i ke ʻano o kā mākou pane ʻana i nā kūlana hou, pehea mākou e aʻo ai a hōʻike i ke aloha i kēlā me kēia keiki, a me ke ʻano o kā mākou alakaʻi ʻana i ko mākou ʻohana ma o ka loli. Me ke kōkua o ke Akua, a me kekahi mau mea i helu ʻia ma ʻaneʻi, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokō i kēia mau loli ola paʻakikī.
Kawaihae
Visit Matthew at his personal blogMatthew J. Elliott (M.J. Elliott) and his beautiful wife, Traci, have three children ages 4, 2 and 4/mos. He has worked with children in several church ministries throughout his career and has loved, almost, every minute of it :-) . As parents, Matthew and Traci strive to be the best example they can humanly be for their kids and to share what they learn with others.
ʻO Matthew J. Elliott (MJ Elliott) a me kāna wahine maikaʻi, ʻo Traci, he ʻekolu keiki i ka makahiki 4, 2 a me 4/mos. Ua hana pū ʻo ia me nā keiki ma nā ʻoihana pule he nui i kāna ʻoihana a aloha ʻo ia, kokoke i kēlā me kēia minuke :-) . Ma ke ʻano he mau mākua, hoʻoikaika ʻo Matthew lāua ʻo Traci e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi loa e hiki ai iā lākou ke lilo i kanaka no kā lākou mau keiki a kaʻana like i nā mea a lākou e aʻo ai me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
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