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Manaolana Ke Eha

Manaʻolana i ka wā e ʻeha ai – When Life Is Not Like It Is expected To Be

No ka ʻohana ʻaʻole i like ke ola e like me kā lākou i manaʻo ai. No ka ʻohana ka mea maʻamau i waho, akā ma loko e ʻeha, mehameha, luhi, huikau, pilikia, a maopopo ʻole i ka wā e hiki mai ana. No ka ʻohana e noho ana ma nā ʻili hua manu i ko lākou home, e hoʻāʻo ana i ka mea maikaʻi loa e mālama i kahi keiki e koi mau ana i ko lākou nānā, ikaika, a me nā manaʻo. No ka makua nona ka manaʻolana no ka ʻohana a lākou i manaʻo ai ua hoʻopau ʻia e ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o nā ʻano hoʻoheheʻe kino a me ka naʻau, nā koho kauka, nā lāʻau lapaʻau, nā meaʻai, a me nā lā i hoʻonohonoho ʻia e ka hoʻāʻo e pale i nā pilikia he nui. No ka ʻohana i makemake e kōkua i kā lākou keiki ʻeha, akā manaʻo ʻole ʻo ia e hana pēlā. No ka ʻohana e ʻeha nei i ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole o kā lākou keiki i kā lākou mau keiki ʻē aʻe. No ka ʻohana i manaʻo e hoʻohewa ʻia e nā hiʻohiʻona o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka wā e hana ai kā lākou keiki i kahi mea kūpono ʻole. No ka ʻohana i huhū i kā lākou keiki no ka ʻeha a lākou i hana ai, a laila hewa no ka huhū ʻana. No ka ʻohana e noʻonoʻo nei inā ua hana hewa lākou a i ʻole hiki ke pale i nā hakakā a lākou e kū nei. No ka ʻohana e nīnau ana, "No ke aha, e ka Haku?"

ʻO kēia no ka ʻohana i hāʻawi ʻia i ke kuleana o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki me ka maʻi maʻi a i ʻole ka neurological.

ʻAʻole like me nā maʻi he nui, nā maʻi, a me nā ʻeha i hiki ke ʻike, wehewehe, a mālama ʻia, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā maʻi ʻano a me nā neurological he paʻakikī, kūʻokoʻa, kānalua, a me ka neʻe ʻana e like me ka makani. ʻAʻole lawa ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hopena koʻikoʻi o kēia mau maʻi i ke ola o kahi keiki a me kona ʻohana. Noho kaʻawale loa ka hapa nui o kēia mau ʻohana, me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea i hoʻomaopopo maoli i ko lākou noho ʻana. ʻO ke kumu o kēia, no ka mea, ʻaʻole like me nā pono kūikawā he nui i ʻike ʻia e ka maka a ʻike maʻalahi ʻia, ʻo ke keiki e hakakā nei me kekahi mau maʻi ʻano e manaʻo pinepine ʻia he keiki ʻaʻohe ʻano a alakaʻi makua ʻole. Hiki i kēia keiki hoʻokahi ke hōʻike iā lākou iho he akamai, mahalo, a me ke ʻano maikaʻi no kekahi manawa, akā e huli koke i ke keiki ʻokoʻa loa ma hope. Ma muli o kēia, manaʻo pinepine nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka pilikia o ka makua maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole he keiki makemake ikaika kēia. Ma hope o ka hoʻoholo ʻana, ua hoʻoholo lākou ua hoʻonui ka makua i ke kūlana, ʻoiai ke ʻike lākou i ke keiki he mea maʻamau. ʻOiai ʻaʻole manaʻo nui kēia kumuhana i ka poʻe ʻaʻole i ʻike pilikino i kēia, ʻo koʻu manaʻolana e hiki aku ia i kahi mea e ʻeha a hoʻokahi wale nō no ia mea. Manaʻolana nō hoʻi au e hōʻike mai ia i ka poʻe i loaʻa ʻole i ia mau maʻi, i ʻoi aku ka makaʻala a me ka makaʻala i nā ʻohana he nui a puni lākou.

Hoʻokahi mea maopopo ʻaʻole iaʻu nā pane. Manaʻo wau e hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo ua hele mākou i loko o kā mākou mau hakakā a aia i kēia manawa ma kēlā ʻaoʻao, ua loaʻa ka ho'ōla a me nā pane. Akā, ʻaʻole mākou a ʻaʻohe mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo e hana mākou, ma ka liʻiliʻi ma ke ʻano kino. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole e lawe mai kēlā mau pane i ka manaʻolana ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i waiho ko mākou manaʻolana ʻoiaʻiʻo i ke kauka kūpono, kahi hōʻailona, ​​​​wehewehe i ka mea i hewa, a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea hiki ke hana ʻia. Aia ko mākou manaʻolana i ka manaʻoʻiʻo a me ka hilinaʻi ʻana he ʻāpana kēia o ka hoʻolālā maikaʻi a aloha a ke Akua no ko mākou ola, ke ola o kā mākou keiki, a me nā mea a pau i hoʻopilikia ʻia e ia. Aia ko mākou manaolana ma ka manaʻoʻiʻo e hiki iā Iesu Kristo ke lawe i ka mea i haki a luku a hoʻololi iā ia i mea nani a mau loa. ʻO ia, a ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e hoʻomau nei iaʻu e neʻe i mua.

Inā heluhelu ʻoe i kēia me ka ʻoluʻolu i hoʻomaopopo ʻia e kekahi, ʻo ia kaʻu makemake e ʻike ʻoe.

ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. Aka, i kou manao mehameha, e alakai ia oe ia Iesu Kristo.

ʻAe, aia kekahi poʻe e ʻeha nei e like me ʻoe. Aia kekahi poʻe e makaʻu, ʻeha, huikau, a haki i ko lākou hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻokele i kēia mau wai ʻole. Aia kekahi poʻe i ʻike iā lākou iho i waena o ka hōʻeha, ka huhū, a me ke kaumaha no kā lākou keiki a me ka ʻohana, e hoʻāʻo wale ana e pale i ko lākou honua mai ka nalo ʻana.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi mau manawa ke manaʻo mākou kaʻawale. Hiki i kēia mehameha ke alakaʻi iā mākou i ka noho kaʻawale a me ke aloha iā mākou iho a i ʻole, e ʻike i ko mākou ikaika, hōʻoluʻolu, maluhia, a me ka hauʻoli iā Iesū, ʻaʻole loa e hoʻokuʻu i ko mākou wāwae (Salamo 121:3). ʻO ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kēia mea ua kākoʻo a hāpai iaʻu i nā manawa ʻeha nui i loaʻa iaʻu me kaʻu keiki, a me kaʻu mau keiki ʻē aʻe i ko lākou hākōkō ʻana i nā mea a lākou i hoʻomaopopo ʻole ai. I koʻu ʻike ʻana iaʻu iho i loko o kahi puʻu ma ka papahele, piha i ka manaʻo a me ka ʻeha o kahi mea i ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka hiki iaʻu ke hoʻopaʻa i koʻu manaʻo a puni, ua hoʻoikaika koke wau e kāhea aku iā Iesū i loko o koʻu ʻeha a me koʻu mehameha, me ka ʻike ua lohe ʻo ia. mālama. I kēlā manawa, i ka wā e hāʻule ai ka haunaele a puni iaʻu, loaʻa iaʻu kekahi ʻano o ka maluhia, ʻoiai no kekahi manawa. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻaʻole ma hope aʻe wau e nānā i hope a ʻike i kāna hoʻolako, pale, a me kona alo i lawe mai iaʻu.

Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hele ana ma ka hale pule, kāu ʻoihana, a i ʻole ka hale kūʻai, me ka manaʻo me he mea lā ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke komo i loko o ka ʻeha e kaumaha ana iā ʻoe, e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe e noi iā Kristo e hoʻopiha iā ʻoe me ia iho. E loaʻa iā mākou ka ʻoluʻolu i ka ʻike ʻana ua ʻike ʻo Kristo i ko mākou ʻeha, he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o kēlā me kēia ʻano o ko mākou ola, a e hana ana e hoʻohana i kēia mau mea a pau no ko mākou pono (no ka poʻe aloha iā ia). Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ua hōʻoia ʻo Iesū Kristo i kona aloha iā mākou ma ke keʻa, hiki iā mākou ke hele i waho me ka hilinaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi ʻole me ka ʻole o ka ʻae a me ka ʻike piha o ka poʻe a puni mākou.

“He pono ka Haku ma kona mau aoao a pau, a he lokomaikai i kana mau hana a pau. Ua kokoke mai ka Haku i ka poe a pau i hea aku ia ia, I ka poe a pau i hea aku ia ia me ka oiaio. Ua hooko mai oia i ka makemake o ka poe makau ia ia; Hoʻolohe ʻo ia i kā lākou kāhea ʻana a hoʻōla iā lākou ”(Salamo 145:17-19).

He manaolana kou.

Aia ka manaolana i kēia manawa no ka poʻe manaʻoʻiʻo i ka manaʻo hemolele o ke Akua a me ke aliʻi ma luna o ko lākou mau ola, a me ka manaolana no ka wā mau loa kahi e hoʻoponopono ʻia ai nā mea a pau; e holoi ʻia nā waimaka a pau a mākou i hoʻomanawanui ai me ke ahonui a me ka manaʻoʻiʻo e uku ʻia me ke alo nani o Kristo. ʻAʻole pono e moe ko mākou manaolana i ko mākou kūlana honua. I ka wā e hoʻomaka ai mākou e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea hiki a i ʻole ka mea e hiki mai ana, e ʻike mākou iā mākou iho i ka ʻoluʻolu, ka huhū, a me ke koʻikoʻi. Ua aʻo mai ka Haku iaʻu i loko o kekahi mau kūlana pōʻeleʻele a kaumaha loa ʻo ia wale nō koʻu manaolana paʻa ʻole, ʻaʻohe mea e pili ana i ka hopena o koʻu kūlana. Inā hiki mai koʻu mau makaʻu nui loa, e hāʻawi mai ʻo ia iaʻu i ka mana, e hana pū me ia no koʻu pono, a e hoʻonani iā ​​ia iho ma o ia mea. Ina e hookoia ko'u makemake nui honua no ka hoola a me na pane, no kona lokomaikai, no ko'u pono, a no kona nani. ʻO ke ʻano, e maikaʻi a mana ke Akua, me ka nānā ʻole i kāna mea e ʻae ai i ko mākou kūlana, i kēia manawa a i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ma muli o ia mea, hiki iā mākou ke paʻa i ka manaʻolana i loaʻa iā mākou iā Kristo, ʻoiai me ka manaʻo ʻole o ko mākou kūlana.

"Ma ona la i loaa'i ia kakou ke komo ma ka manaoio iloko o keia lokomaikai a kakou e ku nei, a ke hauoli nei kakou me ka manaolana i ka nani o ke Akua. Eia kekahi, ke hauoli nei kakou i ko kakou ehaeha, no ka mea, ua hooulu mai ka ehaeha i ke ahonui, a o ke ahonui hoi e hooulu mai ai i ka manao, a o ka manao hoi e hooulu mai i ka manaolana, aole nae e hoohilahila ka manaolana, no ka mea, ua nininiia mai ke aloha o ke Akua iloko o ko kakou naau e ka Uhane Hemolele. ua haawiia mai ia kakou” (Roma 5:2–5).

ʻAʻole i wehewehe ʻia kou ʻano e kāu keiki.

He mea paʻakikī kēia e hoʻomanaʻo no ka makua i kapa ʻia kāna keiki ma ke ʻano he ʻokoʻa, hoʻolohe ʻole, mahalo ʻole, huhū, a "ʻokoʻa". No ka nui o koʻu hoʻomanaʻo ʻana iaʻu iho i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻowalewale pinepine ʻia wau e hilahila a hilahila hoʻi i ka ʻano o kaʻu keiki, ʻike pono i ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana iā mākou.

ʻAʻole hiki ke wehewehe ʻia ko mākou palekana a me ko mākou hilinaʻi e kā mākou mau keiki, makua, a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o mākou i loko o Kristo. Inā he Karistiano ʻoe, e hilinaʻi ua koho ʻia ʻoe a ua kāhea ʻia e makua i kēia keiki. Inā ʻo ke Akua nāna i ʻōlelo i nā mea a pau i hoʻokumu i kēia i kou ola, ʻo wai ka manaʻo ʻē aʻe e kokoke e ʻaihue i ka hilinaʻi a me ka palekana i hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kāna kumu aloha iā ʻoe? ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole maʻalahi kēia. Makemake mākou a pau i ka ʻae ʻia a me ka ʻae ʻia e ka poʻe a puni mākou. Akā, no ka hiki ʻole iā mākou ke hoʻomalu i nā manaʻo a i ʻole nā ​​​​manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, pono e paʻa ko mākou hilinaʻi i loko o Kristo wale nō. ʻOiai he hana kēia i ke ola holoʻokoʻa, hiki iā mākou ke ulu i kēia hilinaʻi i ko mākou manawa i ka ʻōlelo, hoʻopiha i ko mākou mau manaʻo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a pule iā Kristo e kōkua mai iā mākou ma kēia wahi.

“Hoʻōla ʻo ia (ka Haku) i ka poʻe ʻeha a hoʻopaʻa i ko lākou mau ʻeha. Nana no ka helu o na hoku; Hāʻawi ʻo ia i nā inoa o lākou a pau. He nui ko kakou Haku, a he nui kona mana; ʻOku ʻikai ke lava ʻo ʻene ʻilo” (Saame 147:3–5).

Ua hāʻawi ke Akua iā ʻoe i kahi manawa kūʻokoʻa e hōʻike i kona nani i kahi honua e ʻeha ʻole me ka manaʻolana.

ʻO ka ʻike hoʻokahi i hoʻololi i koʻu manaʻo i koʻu ola, kaʻu keiki, a me nā pilikia o ka ʻohana, ʻaʻole ia i pili iaʻu. Inā noʻonoʻo wau i nā manaʻo e hōʻike ana i ka noʻonoʻo i kau ʻia ai au ma kēia honua no koʻu hauʻoli a me koʻu kumu, e like me, "Ua paʻakikī koʻu ola", "Hiki iaʻu ke hana hou i ke ola inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iaʻu kēia pilikia" , a i ʻole "Ke nalo nei au i ke ʻano o koʻu ola", a laila hiki iaʻu ke komo maʻalahi i ka ʻoluʻolu, ka hopohopo, a me ke kaumaha. Ma ka lokomaikaʻi o ke Akua, ʻaʻohe o mākou i kaʻawale mai kona makemake a me kāna hoʻolālā mana. No laila, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoikaika a hoʻoikaika ʻia i loko o ko mākou kūlana paʻakikī ke ʻike mākou e hana ana ke Akua i loko a ma o lākou e hoʻolilo iā mākou e like me ia a hōʻike i kona nani i ka poʻe a puni mākou.

No ka mea, ʻaʻole koʻu mau manaʻo ko ʻoukou mau manaʻo, ʻaʻole hoʻi ko ʻoukou mau ʻaoʻao koʻu mau ʻaoʻao, wahi a Iēhova. No ka mea, e like me ke kiʻekiʻe o ka lani ma mua o ka honua, pēlā ke kiʻekiʻe o koʻu mau ʻaoʻao ma mua o ko ʻoukou mau ʻaoʻao, a me koʻu mau manaʻo ma mua o ko ʻoukou mau manaʻo. No ka mea, e like me ka ua a me ka hau i iho mai, mai ka lani mai, aole hoi ilaila, e hooinu i ka honua, e hoohua mai, a e opuu, e haawi i ka hua na ka mea lulu hua, a me ka berena na ka mea e ai ana, pela no ka'u olelo i puka aku ai mai ko'u waha aku. ; ʻAʻole ia e hoʻi nele mai iaʻu, akā, e hoʻokō nō ia i kaʻu mea i manaʻo ai, a e hoʻokō ʻo ia i ka mea aʻu i hoʻouna aku ai. (Isaia 55:8-11)

E like me kā mākou ho'āʻo e ʻimi i nā pane a me ke kōkua no nā kūlana paʻakikī e hoʻopuni ana i kā mākou mau keiki, pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo mau ʻo ke Akua ponoʻī ka pane e pono ai mākou ma ke ʻano honua a me ka ʻuhane. Ua ʻike pili ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia lālā o ko mākou ʻohana a ke hana nei ʻo ia i kāna mau kumu maikaʻi i kēlā me kēia o ko mākou ola, pinepine ma nā ʻano ʻokoʻa ma mua o kā mākou i manaʻo ai. I ko mākou aʻo ʻana e hilinaʻi iā Kristo a loaʻa ka hauʻoli i waena o nā mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia a me ka luku ʻana i ka honua a puni mākou, e lilo mākou i kukui o ka mālamalama e huki ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka ʻoliʻoli a me ka manaolana i loaʻa iā mākou ma ka ʻeuanelio.

Inā ua hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe ke kuleana a me ke kuleana o ka hānai ʻana i kekahi o kēia mau keiki paʻakikī, akā mahalo nui (a i ʻole kekahi āu i ʻike ai), ke pule nei au e hoʻoikaika ʻia ʻoe me kēia mau ʻoiaʻiʻo a hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ʻoe, kāu keiki, a me kou ʻohana. o ko ke Akua manao hemolele o ka hoolapanai ana. ʻOiai ʻaʻole i hoʻohiki ʻia ka ho'ōla ʻana ma ka honua, ua hoʻohiki ʻia mākou ʻaʻole e hoʻopau ʻo Kristo i hoʻokahi waimaka a mākou e hoʻokahe ai i kēia mau hopena ʻeha o ka hewa i loko o ko mākou honua. ʻAʻole ʻoe he manaʻolana, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi, a ʻaʻole ʻoe i wehewehe ʻia e ka maʻi o kāu keiki. Akā, ua hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe kahi manawa kūʻokoʻa e hānai i kahi keiki me nā pono kūikawā no ka nani o ke Akua. Ma o ka lokomaikaʻi o Iesu Kristo, hiki iā ia ke lawe i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he mea ʻole a me ka luku a hoʻohana iā ia e huki iā ʻoe iā ia, e hoʻoheheʻe iā ʻoe e hōʻike i kona ʻano, a e hoʻonani iā ​​ia iho ma o kou ola a me kou moʻolelo.

Na Kristo,

Sarah Walton

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Sarah Walton is a stay-at-home mom with four kids under nine years of age. She is the author, along with Kristen Wetherell.

Hope When It Hurts: Biblical Reflections to Help You Grasp God’s Purpose in Your Suffering. After a decade of trials and learning to walk with Christ as her entire family suffers with Lyme Disease, she shares how the Gospel speaks into all areas of our lives and gives hope to our suffering.

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He makuahine noho ʻo Sarah Walton me ʻehā mau keiki ma lalo o ʻeiwa mau makahiki. ʻO ia ka mea kākau, me Kristen Wetherell.

Manaʻolana i ka wā e ʻeha ai: Nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo Baibala e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka manaʻo o ke Akua i kou ʻeha. Ma hope o nā makahiki he ʻumi o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana a me ke aʻo ʻana e hele pū me Kristo ʻoiai ʻo kona ʻohana holoʻokoʻa e loaʻa ana i ka maʻi Lyme, haʻi ʻo ia i ka ʻōlelo ʻana o ka ʻeuanelio i nā wahi āpau o ko mākou ola a hāʻawi i ka manaʻolana i ko mākou ʻeha.

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