Nā Manaʻo Mākua i kēlā me kēia pule - Hoʻoikaika i ka pilina pili kaiaulu

Inā ʻoi aku kāu keiki ma mua o hoʻokahi, ʻike ʻoe he ʻano ʻano ko kēlā me kēia. Aia kekahi mau keiki ʻōlelo waha a launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke hui pū lākou. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea noho mālie a mālama ʻia, a makemake wale e pāʻani iā ​​​​lākou iho. ʻOiai paha i hānau ʻia kāu keiki me ka makemake i ka pilikanaka a i ʻole ʻaʻole, ʻo ka hapa nui o ka hiki o ke kanaka e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka mea i aʻo ʻia iā lākou. ʻO ʻoe, ma ke ʻano he makua, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa kūpono e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e holomua i nā kūlana pilikanaka. ʻO ke kōkua ʻana iā lākou e kūleʻa i ka nohona e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hiki ke hoʻololi i nā kūlana i ko lākou ola a pau.

 

Ke aʻo ʻana i kāu keiki i nā mākau pilikanaka i ke ola, pono e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mākau he nui nā ʻano. ʻAʻole wale nā ​​mākau pilikanaka e pili ana i ka ʻano, akā i ka manaʻo o ke keiki, ka naʻauao a me ka loina. ʻO kēia nā wahi āpau e pono e hoʻoikaika ʻia i ka wā e ulu ana kā mākou keiki, i hiki iā lākou ke launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hoʻokō i nā pahuhopu a lākou i hoʻonohonoho ai no lākou iho.

ʻO ka naʻau kekahi ʻāpana o kēlā me kēia lā e ola nei, a i ka ʻike ʻana i kēia mau manaʻo, pono nā keiki e aʻo i ka mea kūpono a me ka mea ʻole. ʻO kekahi mau manaʻo he mea maʻalahi ke hōʻike ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Hiki i ka hapa nui o nā keiki ke hōʻike iā lākou iho i ka wā hauʻoli a hauʻoli. Ke huhū, ʻeha a hōʻole ʻia paha ke keiki, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kēlā mau manaʻo ma ke ʻano kūpono. ʻO kēia ka manawa e hōʻoia hou ai ka makua i ke keiki he mea maʻamau kēia mau manaʻo, akā aia kahi ala kūpono e mālama ai. Inā ʻoe e aʻo aku i kāu keiki i nā mākau e pono ai e hoʻokō i kēia mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo, hiki iā ia ke kūpaʻa a hiki iā ia ke mālama i nā ʻeha e hālāwai ai lākou ma ke ola.

 

 

Makemake nā keiki a pau e hana a hoʻokani no ko lākou mau mākua. He ala maikaʻi kēia e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e aʻo i nā mākau hoʻoponopono e pono ai no ka launa pū ʻana, inā ma ka home, ma ke kahua pāʻani, ma ke kula, ma ka hale ʻaina a i ʻole ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe no ia mea. Ke pāʻani ʻoe me kāu keiki e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona like ʻole, hāʻawi ʻoe iā ia i ka hilinaʻi e hana ma ke ʻano kūpono. E hoʻopili i kāu keiki i ke kōkua ʻana i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ka pane kūpono a i ʻole kahi hopena ʻē aʻe i kahi kūlana e hopu ʻole iā ia. Inā mākaukau lākou a ua hoʻomaʻamaʻa me nā ʻano pane kūpono, e hilinaʻi lākou e hana i ka mea kūpono.

 

 

I kou noho ʻana ma ke kahua pāʻani me kāu keiki ʻehā makahiki, hāʻawi ʻo ia i kahi ʻōahi i kahi hoa pāʻani a piha ʻoe i ka haʻaheo i kou ʻike ʻana ua kaʻana like kāu keiki me kahi keiki ʻē aʻe me ka ʻole o kāu paipai ʻana! He manawa nui kēia e hoʻoikaika ai i nā mākau pilikanaka kūpono. Ke hele mai kāu keiki, e haʻi aku iā ia ua ʻike ʻoe i kāna hana, a e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no ia mea! ʻOi aku ka nui o kā mākou kuhikuhi ʻana a hoʻomaikaʻi i kā mākou mau keiki no kā lākou mau mākau pilikanaka kūikawā, makemake lākou e hoʻohana iā lākou!

 

Ke nānā mau nei nā keiki i nā mākua i ko lākou ola no ke alakaʻi a me ka hōʻoia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēlā me kēia manawa e like me ke aʻo ʻana no nā keiki. Ke hālāwai ʻoe i kahi kūlana e huhū ai ʻoe, a i ʻole ʻoe e hōʻole ʻia he mea nui e kaʻana like me kāu keiki i kou mau manaʻo a kaʻana like i ke ʻano o kāu mālama ʻana i kēlā mau manaʻo. Ke hoʻohālike nei kāu keiki i nā manaʻo kūpono a me nā pane i nā kūlana, makemake lākou e hahai iā ʻoe. Makemake maoli nā keiki e like me ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne!

 

ʻAʻole manaʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ka hoʻolohe ʻana he akamai pilikanaka aʻo ʻia. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu keiki e lilo i mea hoʻolohe maikaʻi, ua ʻike ʻo ia i kekahi o nā mākau pilikanaka paʻakikī loa.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i nā keiki pehea e hoʻolohe ai ma ke ʻano leʻaleʻa. E noho pū kāu keiki me ʻoe a wehewehe iā ia e pāʻani ana ʻoe. E haʻi iā lākou e haʻi ana lākou iā ʻoe i kahi moʻolelo a e haʻi hou ana ʻoe iā lākou. E wehewehe pū iā lākou inā pau kāu hoʻolohe ʻana i kā lākou moʻolelo a haʻi hou iā lākou, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa e haʻi i kahi moʻolelo. Hoʻopili kēia iā lākou i ka hoʻolohe ʻana ma nā pae ʻelua. E hoʻolohe ana lākou e ʻike i ka maikaʻi o kou hoʻolohe ʻana iā lākou, a laila e hoʻolohe lākou iā ʻoe i hiki iā lākou ke haʻi i ka moʻolelo iā ʻoe e like me ʻoe!

 

ʻO ke aʻo ʻana i kāu keiki i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kōkua ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe he mākau pilikanaka e pōmaikaʻi ai ʻaʻole wale ka mea i kōkua ʻia, akā ʻo kāu keiki pū kekahi. E aʻo ʻoe i ke keiki inā kōkua ʻo ia i ka makuahine ʻōpio hoʻokahi ma ka ʻaoʻao e halihali i nā mea kūʻai, mahalo ʻia a mahalo ʻia ʻo ia. ʻAʻole wale e loaʻa i ka hoalauna ka lima kōkua, akā ʻo ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho o kāu keiki e hoʻoikaika pū kekahi. I ke kōkua ʻana o kāu keiki i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole e hoʻonui ʻia kona hilinaʻi iā ia iho, akā e hoʻomaka pū ʻo ia e ʻike i ka mahalo iā ia iho a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hoʻokumu ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho a i kou manaʻo maikaʻi iā ʻoe iho a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke launa pū me nā ʻano kanaka like ʻole i nā kūlana like ʻole.

 

ʻAʻole naʻe nā mākua a pau e kōkua i kā lākou mau keiki e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. E loaʻa mau ana nā mea hoʻoweliweli ma ke kahua pāʻani, a i ʻole ma ke kaʻa kaʻa kula. ʻO ke akamai pilikanaka koʻikoʻi i kēia mau manawa, ʻo ia ke aʻo ʻana i kāu keiki e hele. No kēia mau ʻano ʻano, e kōkua ka ʻōlelo aʻo mai iā ʻoe e loaʻa i kāu keiki ka ikaika e hana i ka mea kūpono. E aʻo i kāu keiki e helu a hiki i ka ʻumi ke hoʻomāinoino a hoʻomāinoino ʻia ʻo ia a ʻoiai ʻo ia e helu ana, pono lākou e hele wāwae. Ke hele nei ʻo ia! Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi huaʻōlelo i hiki i kāu keiki ke hoʻomanaʻo, "E lilo i kanaka nui", a i ʻole "ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e nalowale i koʻu mau pono", a i ʻole "Ua aʻo ʻo Māmā a i ʻole ʻo Pāpā ʻaʻole e hakakā". Inā ʻoe e hoʻolako i kāu keiki me nā mea paahana e pono ai, e loaʻa iā ia nā mākau pili kaiaulu maikaʻi loa.