Hauʻoli Makahiki Hou - 2023. ʻO ia ka manawa o ka makahiki ke nānā mākou a pau i ka makahiki i loaʻa iā mākou a mākaukau e hana i kā mākou papa inoa o nā ʻōlelo hoʻohiki iā mākou iho e pili ana i kā mākou e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka Makahiki Hou. ʻAe, ke kamaʻilio nei wau e pili ana i ka New Year's Resolutions. Ua ʻike mākou a pau i nā kuʻuna kahiko e like me ka lilo ʻana o ke kaumaha a i ʻole ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi maʻamau maikaʻi ʻole. I kēia makahiki makemake wau e hana i kahi noi, e hana i kāu mau ʻōlelo hoʻoholo makahiki hou e pili ana i ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i kou ʻohana. Ke noʻonoʻo nei nō hoʻi mākou e kiʻi i loio e like me kēia no nā kūlana ʻohana.
ʻIke wau i kēia manawa me kā mākou hoʻokele waiwai e like me ia, a he nui ka poʻe o mākou e kū nei i nā manawa paʻakikī a mākou e hoʻomanaʻo ai. I kēia manawa, i kēia manawa o ka makahiki, pono kākou e nānā i nā mea a pau e pono ai kākou e mahalo a nānā i ke ʻano o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kēlā mau pilina. He aha nā kumu e ala ai ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā a hoʻāʻo e hana i kāu maikaʻi? ʻO ka pane ka ʻohana a puni ʻoe. Me ka paʻa paʻa ʻana o ka ʻohana, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā manawa paʻakikī. Eia kekahi, ke aʻo nei ʻoe i kāu mau keiki i ka mea nui i ke ola, a e paipai iā lākou e hoʻoikaika mau ʻaʻole e hana wale i kā lākou mea maikaʻi loa, akā e hoʻomau iā lākou i ke kumu a me ka nānā ʻana i ko lākou ulu ʻana. Ke pule nei au ua hana mākou pēlā me kā mākou mau keiki, ʻoiai ua maopopo iaʻu ua hana ʻoe.
I kēia manawa ua loaʻa iā mākou ka manaʻo kūpono, ko mākou ʻohana, ʻo ia ka manawa e hana ai i kahi papa inoa o nā hoʻoholo. Paipai au i ka poʻe a pau e noho pū i lalo e hana i kēia papa inoa. Inā loaʻa nā mea a pau i loko o ka papa inoa a laila ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea a pau e hahai i nā hoʻoholo. Ma waho aʻe o ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ka manaʻo o kāu poʻe keiki e pili ana i ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i ka ʻohana, e kāhāhā paha ʻoe. No ka laʻana, loaʻa iā mākou he 13 makahiki, he 10 makahiki a i kēia manawa he 1 pule. ʻOiai ʻo wau a me kaʻu kāne e hoʻokomo mau i nā keiki i kā mākou hana (ʻaʻole wau e ʻakaʻaka, ʻo ka manawa wale nō e loaʻa ai kahi "date" inā loaʻa i kā mākou mau keiki nā pilina pili me nā hoaaloha), ʻo ia ka mea i manaʻo nui ʻia i kā mākou ʻaoʻao. akā, ʻo ia ke ʻano o mākou a makemake maoli kā mākou mau keiki. ʻO ka mea aʻu e hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻike ma aneʻi, ʻo ka nīnau ʻana iā lākou i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai e ʻike i ka loli i ka makahiki e hiki mai ana, ʻaʻole lākou i makemake nui a emi mai paha ka manawa me mākou, makemake lākou i ka manawa hoʻokahi me mākou pākahi. No laila hoʻonohonoho mākou i nā lā "Dates with Dad" a me "Dates with Mom".
Makemake wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe ua maikaʻi mākou i ka hana ʻana i kēlā me kēia hopena pule, akā ʻaʻole mākou. Ua hana pinepine mākou me ka hauʻoli naʻe o kā mākou mau keiki. Pono nō hoʻi mākou e noʻonoʻo i ka mea i pili i nā "lā", akā hiki i kā mākou keiki ke hele pū me kaʻu kāne e holo i "nā hana kanaka" e like me ka hele ʻana i ka Home Depot a i ʻole ke kōkua ʻana i kaʻu kāne e hoʻohui i nā mea. ʻO ka mea a nā keiki i makemake ai, ʻo ko mākou nānā pono ʻole ʻia no 30 mau minuke a i ʻole hoʻokahi hola. He mea maʻalahi, a hauʻoli lākou a hauʻoli mākou. He kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kāu mau keiki ma ke ʻano he poʻe, ʻaʻole like me kāu mau keiki, a kōkua i kāu poʻe keiki e ʻike ʻo ʻoe ʻo ʻoe ko lākou makua, akā he kanaka ʻoe hiki iā lākou ke launa pū a kamaʻilio pū.
Aia kekahi mau mea ʻē aʻe e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻokokoke i kou ʻohana. ʻO ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia kahi hui pāʻani i hana i kahi pāʻoihana maikaʻi e pili ana i ka "Family Game Night." Hoʻokahi lā o ka pule ua pio nā kīwī a pau, waiho ʻia nā pāʻani wikiō, koho ʻoe i kāu mau mele punahele e pāʻani ai ma hope a noho pū ʻoukou a pau a pāʻani i kahi pāʻani, hoʻomaka e hoʻopau. ʻO nā pō pāʻani ʻohana ka maʻamau ʻo Yahtzee a i ʻole rummy. Loaʻa iā mākou nā lula ponoʻī no Rummy, a he mea paʻakikī loa ia, akā he leʻaleʻa mau no ka mea ke hoʻāʻo mau nei nā keiki e hele i mua o ko lākou makuakāne nāna e hahau iā mākou āpau.
Inā ʻaʻole kāu pāʻani a makemake ʻoe i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni, mai hele i waho i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, hoʻolimalima a kūʻai paha i hoʻokahi a nānā pū me ka ʻohana ma ka home. E hana i ka popcorn homemade, e kiʻi i ʻelua pahu lole kiʻiʻoniʻoni mai ka hale kūʻai mai, ka soda punahele a kēlā me kēia kanaka a wili pū ma luna o ka sofa a nānā i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni maikaʻi. He pau ʻole nā koho. E koho i nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana ma ke ʻano he ʻohana a hoʻohiki e hana pinepine ia mau mea.
I kēia manawa, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he ʻohana ke hoʻolimalima manawa pū kekahi akā e hoʻomaikaʻi i ke kaiāulu a puni ʻoe. No laila, hoʻokahi ʻōlelo hoʻoholo e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i hoʻokahi hopena pule o ka mahina e loaʻa ana i kou ʻohana he "Treat your neighbor day," e koho i kahi hoalauna ma kou kaiāulu a hana i kahi mea maikaʻi no lākou. ʻO kēia paha nā kāne ʻelemakule ma ke alanui e pono ai ke kōkua i ka lawe ʻana i ka ʻōpala a i ʻole ka hana pā hale a makemake paha lākou e hele mai no ka ʻaina ahiahi. ʻO kēia paha ka ʻohana ma kēlā ʻaoʻao o ke alanui āu i ʻike ai he paʻakikī, no laila ma ke ʻano he ʻohana e kono ʻoe iā lākou e ʻaina ahiahi a me kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma kou wahi. No kēia mea, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui e ʻike kāu mau keiki i ka hakakā ʻana o kekahi ʻohana, ke hana nei ʻoe ma ke kamaʻāina. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻokipa i ka poʻe, e hoʻopau i ka pule pule i ka kuke ʻana, ka kuke ʻana a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i mea e hāʻawi aku ai i nā poʻe a pau e noho ana ma kou alanui. ʻAʻole kūʻai nā kuki, nā kāleka i hana ʻia i ka home e ʻōlelo ana "ʻOliʻoli wau he mau hoalauna mākou" nani hoʻi.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa no nā Makahiki Hou ke lawe ʻana i kāu mau keiki a hoʻolilo i hoʻokahi lā o ka mahina ma ka hale noho ʻole e lawelawe ana i ka meaʻai a i ʻole ka manawaleʻa. Ke hana ʻoe i kēia ma ke ʻano he ʻohana, hoʻokō ia i nā mea he nui. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaikaʻi iki kēlā me kēia o ʻoukou i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka lua, ke ʻike kāu mau keiki iā ʻoe e kau mua ana i nā pono o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e paipai iā lākou e hana like. ʻO ke kolu, e hoʻokomo i ka mahalo no nā mea āu i loaʻa ai i kou ola.
ʻO nā ʻōlelo hoʻoholo maikaʻi loa ka mea hiki i kou ʻohana ke hana pū, inā ʻoi aku ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ma ka hele ʻana i ka huakaʻi ʻohana, a i ʻole ka hele ʻana i nā hale hōʻikeʻike, nā hōʻikeʻike kiʻi, a i ʻole nā mea āpau āu e manaʻo ai e hiki i kou ʻohana ke hana pū. ʻO ka ʻāpana maikaʻi loa o kēia mau ʻano hoʻoholo, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mālama ʻana ma muli o ke kaomi ʻana o ka ʻohana. E pae wale i lalo me kou ʻohana a hana i kahi papa inoa o nā hana a ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa e hauʻoli ai a kōkua paha. E kōkua ana kēia i kou ʻohana i ke kuleana o kekahi i kekahi.
Mai poina e kaʻana like i kāu mau hoʻoholo pilikino. E hoʻoholo (a i ʻole he ʻōlelo hoʻoholo), pono nā mea a pau o ka ʻohana e kōkua a paipai kekahi i kekahi e hoʻokō i kēia mau pahuhopu. ʻĀ, ʻo ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o nā hoa, he mea ikaika loa ia.
Hana i kēia Makahiki Hou, ka makahiki maikaʻi loa no ʻoe a me kou ʻohana. E hoʻoikaika i kou pilina ʻohana me ka papa inoa ʻohana New Year's Resolution list.
Mai mākou a pau ma More4kids, hauʻoli Makahiki Hou a maikaʻi 2023!
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