Hiki i ka neʻe ʻana ke pilikia i kekahi. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia no ka ʻohana me nā keiki. Inā ʻoe e ʻohi a neʻe i ke kaona a i ʻole e neʻe ana i ka ʻāina me ke kōkua o nā mea hoʻoneʻe lōʻihi, hiki ke pilikia loa. Eia nō naʻe, aia nā ʻano mea like ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i mea e hoʻemi ai ka neʻe ʻana iā ʻoe a me kou ʻohana. Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kahi huli home hou no hale kuai kokoke ia'u.
I ka neʻe ʻana, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke ʻano o ka ʻeha i kāu mau keiki. ʻO kou home i kēia manawa ʻo ia wale nō ka home a lākou i ʻike ai. ʻO ka neʻe koke ʻana i kahi hale ʻē hiki ke paʻakikī loa. ʻO ka manawa kūpono, ua hoʻomohala lākou i kahi hana maʻamau a ua ʻoluʻolu loa i ko lākou mau wahi o kēia manawa. No laila, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka paʻakikī o lākou e maʻa i kahi home hou a me nā hoaaloha hou. ʻO Sky Van Lines kahi hui neʻe lōʻihi lōʻihi e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e neʻe i kou home hou, hiki iā ʻoe heluhelu e pili ana i kā lākou lawelawe ʻaneʻi.
ʻO kekahi o nā mea mua āu e hana ai, ʻo ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me kāu keiki. E hōʻike koke iā lākou e hoʻolālā ana ʻoe e neʻe. Hāʻawi kēia iā lākou i manawa e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka neʻe nui. Inā hiki, e hoʻokomo iā lākou i ka hana e like me ka hiki. E ʻae iā lākou e hele i ka ʻimi hale a hāʻawi i ko lākou manaʻo.
ʻO kekahi mea āu e hana ai, ʻo ia ke hoʻonohonoho i ko lākou lumi e like me kā lākou makemake. Inā ʻoluʻolu lākou i ka mea hoʻonaninani a koho iā lākou iho, e manaʻo lākou e like me ko lākou lumi ponoʻī. Hiki i kekahi mau keiki ke koho e hoʻonani ʻia ko lākou lumi hou e like me kā lākou lumi kahiko. Eia nō naʻe, hiki i kekahi ke koho e loaʻa i kahi kāhiko hou no ko lākou lumi.
E noʻonoʻo e hoʻolei i kahi pāʻina neʻe aku. Hāʻawi kēia i nā keiki i ka manawa hope loa e ʻōlelo aloha aku ai i nā hoaaloha a lākou i hana ai a pili pū me lākou. E kono i nā hoaaloha a pau o kāu keiki mai ke kaiāulu a i ʻole nā keiki a lākou e hele pū me ia i ke kula. E ho'āʻo e hana i ka manawa hauʻoli loa. ʻAʻole kōkua wale kēia i kāu keiki, akā i nā keiki a lākou e haʻalele nei. ʻO ka neʻe ʻana e like me ka traumatic no nā hoaaloha o kāu keiki.
Inā he hoaaloha pili loa kāu keiki, e noi iā lākou e hana kekahi i kekahi i makana hoʻomanaʻo, kahi mea hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO kekahi laʻana he kūpeʻe hoaloha. Hiki i kēlā me kēia keiki ke hana i ke kūpeʻe lima a hoʻololi iā lākou ma mua o ka neʻe nui ʻana.
ʻO kekahi mea e maʻalahi ai ka hoʻololi ʻana, ʻo ia ka hana ʻana i kāu keiki i puke puke. I loko o ka puke puke, e hoʻokomo i nā kiʻi o kā lākou mau hoa pili. Eia kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i nā kiʻi o kekahi o kā lākou mau wahi hangout punahele. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noi aku i kā lākou mau hoaaloha e kākau i nā leka a hoʻokomo iā lākou i loko o ka scrapbook. E kōkua ana kēia i kāu keiki i kona wā mehameha. Hiki iā lākou ke nānā i hope i ka puke a hoʻomanaʻo i nā manawa maikaʻi i loaʻa iā lākou.
E ho'āʻo e hiki i kāu keiki ke launa pū me kāna mau hoaaloha kahiko. Inā paha ma o ka leka uila a kelepona paha, makemake kāu keiki e launa pū me nā hoaaloha a lākou i hana ai. E ʻae i kāu keiki e hoʻololi i nā kiʻi hou. Makemake nā keiki i ka manawa kūpono e kaʻana like i nā mea a lākou i hana ai a me ke ala maikaʻi aʻe e hana ai i kēia, ma mua o nā kiʻi.
Inā ʻoe e neʻe kokoke ana me ke kōkua o nā mea hoʻoneʻe kūloko, e hoʻonohonoho i kekahi o kā lākou mau hoa pili e hele mai e ʻike iā lākou ma kekahi o nā hoʻomaha kula. Hāʻawi kēia i kāu keiki i ka manawa e ʻike ai i kāna hoaaloha, a e kaʻana like i kona wahi hou me ia. A laila, i ka hoʻomaha aʻe mai ke kula a i ʻole ka hopena pule lōʻihi, e hoʻonohonoho i kāu keiki e hoʻi e ʻike i kāna mau hoaaloha kahiko.
Ke hoʻokomo ʻoe i kou wahi hou, e paipai i kāu keiki e komo i nā hana kūloko. Hiki iā lākou ke komo i loko o kahi hui ʻōpio a i ʻole hui haʻuki kūloko. Hāʻawi kēia i kāu keiki i ka manawa e hana ai i mau hoaaloha hou. Inā he mau keiki li'ili'i kāu, e ho'ā'o e 'imi i ka hui o ka makuahine. A laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke kono i nā keiki no kahi lā pāʻani. ʻAʻole wale kēia e hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka manawa e hana ai i mau hoaaloha hou, e hāʻawi pū kekahi iā ʻoe i ka manawa e hana ai i mau hoaaloha hou.
Hiki i ka neʻe ʻana ke lilo i mea ʻeha loa no nā mea a pau e pili ana. Eia nō naʻe, aia nā ʻano hana like ʻole e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻemi i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka hopohopo e pili pinepine ana me ka neʻe ʻana, e like me ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi lawelawe kaʻa kaʻa e hoʻouna i kāu kaʻa i kou home hou. Hiki iā ʻoe poʻo i ka pūnaewele Interstate Car Carriers e ʻike inā ʻo lākou ka hui lawe kaʻa kūpono iā ʻoe. E ʻoiaʻiʻo me kāu keiki a e hana i nā mea āpau e hiki ai ke maʻalahi ka neʻe. Ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana, aia ʻoe me kāu keiki i kou home hou, me nā hoaaloha hou, e loaʻa ana ka manawa maikaʻi loa.
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