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Manaʻo ma luna o kahi hōkū - Nā Manaʻo Nui no kaʻu mau keiki

Manaʻo no kaʻu keiki

I koʻu wā e ulu ana, makemake nui au i nā moʻolelo moʻolelo, e like me nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi. ʻO kekahi o kaʻu mea punahele, ʻo Sleeping Beauty, i hōʻike ʻia ʻekolu mau fairies maikaʻi i hāʻawi makana i ke kanaka nui, ʻo Aurora.

ʻAʻole hiki ke wehe ʻia kā lākou mau makana - ʻo ia ka makana o ka nani, ka makana o ke mele, a me ka makana e hoʻonāwaliwali ai i ka hōʻino a Maleficent iā Aurora.

Mai koʻu wā liʻiliʻi, makemake mau wau e like ke ola maoli - ʻo ia Hiki ke hāʻawi ʻia kēia mau makana i nā pēpē a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana ma kahi o nā rattles a me nā holoholona pipi i ka haukapila.

Inā hiki iaʻu ke hāʻawi i kaʻu mau keiki i nā makana e like me kēia, ʻo koʻu makemake:

  • No lākou e ola me ka hopohopo ʻole: Nalo mākou i ka nui o ka manawa, hauʻoli a me ka ikaika e hopohopo nei i nā mea āpau. Ke hopohopo nei mākou i nā mea e hiki ʻole mai. Ke hopohopo nei mākou i nā mea a mākou e mana ʻole ai. ʻO kā mākou hopohopo e hao iā mākou i ka nui. Hoʻemi ia i ko mākou hauʻoli i nā mea kupua maoli e hana nei a puni mākou i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻOiai mākou e noʻonoʻo nei i ka hopohopo, ʻaʻole mākou e nānā i nā mea nui loa iā mākou.
  • ʻO ka hiki ke mālama i ke kālā: He mea maʻalahi ke lilo i mea hoʻolimalima. Hoʻolālā ʻia kēlā me kēia pāʻoihana a mākou e ʻike ai e makemake mākou e holo a hoʻolilo kālā. ʻO kēlā me kēia mekala a mākou e nānā ai i nā lole, nā mea ʻala a me nā mea nani e hoʻowalewale iā mākou. Ke noho nei mākou i kahi hui o nā poʻe hopohopo e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i ko lākou mau hoalauna a me ka noho ʻana i kahi ʻano kaulana ma ka uku kumu. ʻAʻole au i pale i ke kaomi. I koʻu wā liʻiliʻi, ua kūʻai au i ka makau, ka laina a me ka sinker. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole hana kaʻu mau keiki. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i ke kālā e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kūʻokoʻa nui a me nā koho ʻē aʻe ma mua o kāu i ka wā e noho ai ʻoe e ka ʻaiʻē nui.
  • ʻAʻole e makaʻala i ko lākou helehelena: Noho mākou i kahi hui kahi e makemake ai ka poʻe e uku i nā tausani kālā a ʻoki ʻia i ka wā o ka ʻoki ʻana ma mua o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i kekahi lā e nānā i ko lākou kiʻi maoli i ke aniani. ʻO ia kā lākou koho, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻo kekahi o kaʻu makemake nui i kaʻu mau keiki e aʻo lākou i ke aloha i ko lākou mau hemahema kino. Ke aʻo nei au i ka hoʻomaha ʻana i kaʻu. Manaʻo wau ma ka ʻapo ʻana i kaʻu, e aʻo lākou e ʻae i kā lākou.
  • No ka hoʻoikaika kino kino i mea nui: E like me ka ʻōlelo a nā kānaka, pono ʻoe e pale i kou olakino. ʻO ka noho maikaʻi ʻana kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hana ai. Aia kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu e pili ana i ka hiki ke hana i nā hana āu i manaʻo ʻole ai e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. Ua aʻo mai kaʻu hapa marathon mua iaʻu, a ke manaʻolana nei au he haʻawina ia e aʻo ai kaʻu mau keiki i kekahi lā. Pono ʻoe e hoʻoikaika mau iā ʻoe iho e hoʻokau i nā palena o nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ke kino, akā ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī.
  • Loaʻa iā lākou kā lākou mau keiki ponoʻī i kekahi lā: Manaʻo wau me koʻu naʻau a pau e loaʻa iā lākou nā keiki i hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ke aloha ikaika a maʻemaʻe o nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki. ʻAʻohe mea like me kēlā manaʻo.
  • Loaʻa iā lākou nā leʻaleʻa a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea makemake e ola ai lākou: ʻOiai he makuahine, manaʻolana wau e palekana nā mea a lākou e koho ai, akā ke manaʻo nei au e loaʻa iā lākou nā makemake e ala ai lākou i kēlā me kēia lā mākaukau e haehae i ka honua. ʻIke lākou iaʻu e ʻimi nei i kaʻu mau kuko – ka ʻike metala a me ka holo ʻana — a ke manaʻo nei au ua lawa ia e hiki ai iā lākou ke ʻimi i kā lākou iho.
  • E loaʻa iā lākou kahi hana i manaʻo ʻole e like me ka hana: Ua loaʻa iaʻu nā hana i hāʻawi mai iaʻu i nā moeʻuhane a me nā hana aʻu i hauʻoli nui ai ua ʻaneʻane ʻino wau i ka ʻohi ʻana i kahi uku. Manaʻo wau ʻo kēlā me kēia kahua a lākou e koho ai e alualu, makemake lākou i kā lākou hana. ʻAʻole pili iaʻu i kā lākou hana, ʻoiai ʻo ka hana pono. ʻOiai makemake paha kekahi mau mākua e hānai i nā keiki "pōmaikaʻi" i lilo i kauka a loio paha, makemake wau e hauʻoli kaʻu mau keiki. ʻOi aku ka waiwai ma mua o nā kūleʻa a pau o ka honua.
  • E noho mau lākou i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi: He mea koʻikoʻi kēia makemake iaʻu no ka mea he pilina maikaʻi koʻu me koʻu mau kaikunāne ʻewalu. Ke makemake au i ka ʻakaʻaka a i ʻole he hoa, hiki iaʻu ke kelepona i koʻu mau kaikaina a hiki mai kekahi o lākou. Noho mākou a pau i loko o ʻelua hola o kēlā me kēia, a noho mākou he nui i ke kūlanakauhale hoʻokahi. Manaʻo wau e koho kaʻu keiki kāne a me kaʻu kaikamahine e noho kokoke i kekahi a e pili mau lākou e like me kēia manawa. He mau hoaaloha maikaʻi lākou i kekahi i kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i kekahi ala ʻē aʻe.
  • E nānā mau lākou iaʻu: ʻO nā keiki makua i kekahi manawa e hoʻopaʻi koʻikoʻi i ko lākou mau mākua. ʻO ke aloha kūpaʻa ʻole a lākou i manaʻo ai i kā lākou poʻe kamaliʻi ʻōpio, ua ʻano liʻiliʻi iki lākou i ka wā e ʻike ai lākou he poʻe kīnā ʻole ko lākou mau mākua ʻaʻole i loaʻa nā pane āpau. ʻAʻole maikaʻi nā mākua. Akā, ke manaʻolana nei au ke ʻike mai ko lākou mau maka makua iaʻu i koʻu ʻano ʻoiaʻiʻo, e mau ana ka mahalo, ke aloha a me ka mahalo iaʻu. I kēlā me kēia lā, hoʻāʻo wau e lilo i mea kūpono i ko lākou hilinaʻi a aloha. ʻO lākou ka poʻe mua aʻu e noʻonoʻo ai i ke kakahiaka a ʻo ka poʻe hope aʻu e noʻonoʻo ai i koʻu pani ʻana i koʻu mau maka i ka pō.

ʻAʻole i ʻike koʻu noʻonoʻo kamaliʻi e pili ana i ka makemake, akā naʻe, ʻaʻole lawa ka makemake. Pono ʻoe e mākaukau e ʻōwili i kou mau lima a hele i ka hana e hoʻokō i kāu mau makemake. Inā kū wale ʻoe ma ka hana ʻana i nā makemake akā ʻaʻole hoʻolālā, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokō i kekahi mea.

ʻOiai ʻaʻohe o kāu mana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā koho maikaʻi, me ka pōmaikaʻi liʻiliʻi, e hoʻokokoke aku iā ʻoe i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kāu mau pahuhopu. No laila, ʻoiai wau e aʻo aku i kaʻu mau keiki e hoʻolei i kahi peni i loko o kēlā me kēia punawai a mākou e ʻike ai i hiki iā lākou ke hana i kahi makemake, e aʻo nō wau iā lākou e ʻike mau i ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī. Pono lākou e noʻonoʻo i ka mea nui iā lākou a me ke ʻano o ke ola a lākou e makemake ai, a laila e alualu me kēlā me kēia wahi o ka ikehu e hiki ai iā lākou ke hōʻiliʻili.

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Shannon Serpette is a mother of two and an award-winning journalist and freelancer who lives in Illinois. She spends her days writing, hanging out with her kids and husband, and squeezing in her favorite hobby, metal detecting, whenever she can. Serpette can be reached at writerslifeforme@gmail.com


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He makuahine ʻo Shannon Serpette o ʻelua a he mea kākau moʻolelo lanakila a me ka manuahi e noho ana ma Illinois. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kona mau lā e kākau ai, e kau ana me kāna mau keiki a me kāna kāne, a me ka ʻimi ʻana i kāna leʻaleʻa punahele, ka ʻike metala, i kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ia. Hiki ke loaʻa iā Serpette ma writerslifeforme@gmail.com


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