na Matthew J. Elliott
Kūkākūkā: ʻO ke ala āu e hana ai he mea ia i kāu mau keiki
I kekahi manawa ma ke ʻano he makua he mea paʻakikī ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kekahi mea i kāu mau keiki a i ʻole e hoʻomaopopo i kā lākou e hoʻāʻo nei e kamaʻilio me ʻoe. In kaʻu ʻatikala mua no More4Kids, Ua haʻi wau e pili ana i ka mea a mākou e hoʻāʻo ai e aʻo i kā mākou mau keiki ma ke ʻano he mau mākua Kalikiano, a ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana kekahi hapa nui o ia mea. ʻAʻole maʻalahi, ʻoiai inā aia kāu mau keiki a pau ma lalo o 5 mau makahiki a ke hoʻāʻo nei e ʻimi i ko lākou leo. Aia kekahi mau manawa āu e makemake ai ʻo ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i ka mea a kāu keiki e hoʻāʻo nei e kaʻana like me ʻoe a laila aia kekahi mau manawa i ka paʻakikī loa e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, ʻo ke kunou wale ʻana i kou poʻo a noi i kāu keiki e ʻōlelo mai i kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe. .
Ma ke ʻano he mau mākua Karistiano, hoʻāʻo nui wau me kaʻu wahine e hoʻolohe a noʻonoʻo i ka ʻōlelo a kā mākou mau keiki. Makemake mākou e hōʻike iā lākou e mālama mākou a makemake maoli mākou e hoʻomaopopo i kā lākou mea e pono ai, ʻo ka mea a mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo ai e hana ai ʻo Iesū no mākou nā mākua. ʻAʻole like me Iesū, ʻaʻole maikaʻi mākou a hana hewa mākou. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i mea paʻakikī no kā mākou mau keiki. Ua makemake paha lākou i ka ʻai, akā manaʻo mākou makemake lākou i ka ʻauʻau. Ua makemake paha lākou e heluhelu pū me mākou i kekahi moʻolelo a manaʻo mākou ke ʻōlelo nei lākou iā mākou e wikiwiki. Ua makemake paha lākou i ka pūliki a ke alualu nei mākou i kahi ʻōpala ʻike ʻole ʻia. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ia a aia kekahi manawa e noho mākou a pau ma luna o ka noho e puliki ana i waho e hoʻomaopopo ai lākou i ko mākou mālama ʻana a ke aʻo nei nā mea a pau.
Hoomaopopo i ka Paio
Aia ka paio ma kahi kokoke i nā mākua a pau ke hoʻomaka lākou e apo i ka huakaʻi o ka hānai ʻana i ke keiki. Eia ka loulou i kekahi ʻatikala a Katy Newton Naas, nona ke poʻo Ka makua: ʻO ka mea nui loa e hāʻawi iki i ka ʻike i kēia. Ke makemake mākou e hoʻomaopopo i kā mākou mau keiki, paʻakikī ke ʻae iā mākou iho aia kekahi manawa hiki ʻole iā mākou. ʻO ke aʻo ʻana i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka pōʻaiapili o ka mea a lākou e hoʻāʻo nei e kamaʻilio. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e nānā i ka pōʻaiapili o ke kūlana, a laila ʻaʻole paha mākou e hoʻolohe maoli iā lākou a keu loa.
He haʻawina maikaʻi kēlā no mākou nā mākua a me ka poʻe manaʻoʻiʻo. Ke makemake ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki a hiki i kēlā wahi e hoʻolapalapa ai, e hoʻi i hope, e nānā i nā kūlana i alakaʻi iā ʻoe i kēlā wahi mai ka hoʻomaka a i ka hopena. Inā pono ʻoe e noi i kāu keiki e kuhikuhi i kāna mea e makemake ai a i ʻole e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāna ʻōlelo a laila e hana me ke ahonui a me ke ʻano aloha. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i kā mākou mau keiki makemake mākou e kōkua a makemake mākou e kamaʻilio. Inā ʻaʻole maopopo i ke keiki kēlā, hiki i ka hopena ke pōʻino.
Ke hana nei ma o ka Paio
Ua ʻike ʻia kā mākou mea kahiko me ka 'Phonological Disorder' a hele i ka lapaau keiki ʻelua paha o ka pule. ʻO ka hana ʻana ma kēia paio he mea hoʻokalakupua nona iho a he lōʻihi kā mākou e hele ai, akā ke hele nei ʻo ia i laila. ʻIke wau, ʻike wau, ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe i ke ʻano heck a ke noʻonoʻo nei paha ʻoe i ka googling i kēlā mau huaʻōlelo ʻelua. ʻAe, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka hakakā ʻana me ka haʻi ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo a waiho i kekahi mau leo mai nā huaʻōlelo. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i nā leo i hana ʻia ma hope o ka waha no nā leo i hana ʻia ma mua o ka waha. Eia kahi loulou i hoʻokahi ʻatikala mai ka New York Times e pili ana Phonological Disorder inā he mea āu e ʻimi nei.
Ma mua o ka 'ōlelo 'kula' 'ōlelo 'ool'. Ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana 'papa' ʻōlelo ʻo ia 'ah-ee.' Hiki ke paʻakikī ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā ia a hiki i kona huhū ke hoʻomaopopo ʻole mākou i kāna mea e ʻōlelo mai ai iā mākou. ʻO ka mea a mākou e aʻo nei no mākou iho, i kekahi manawa pono mākou e noi iā ia e lohi a hana hou. Makemake mākou e ʻike iā ia e hoʻāʻo nei mākou e hoʻomaopopo akā pono mākou i kahi kōkua liʻiliʻi. A laila noi mākou iā ia e hōʻike mai iā mākou i kāna mea e kamaʻilio nei a e haʻi iā ia i nā huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi. "Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi mai iā mākou i kāu mea e makemake ai ma nā huaʻōlelo ʻelua a ʻekolu paha?"
Ke hana nei mākou i ka hakakā ʻana o ke kōkua ʻana i kā mākou kaikamahine e aʻo i ke ʻano kūpono o ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo, ua lilo ia i mea hoʻomanaʻo iā mākou aia kekahi mau manawa e pono ai mākou e lohi a hoʻolohe hou i ka laulā. ʻOiai he paʻakikī kēia maʻi phonological, hāʻawi iā mākou i ka manawa e aʻo ai i kā mākou mau keiki ʻē aʻe i ka hoʻomanawanui a hoʻomaopopo iā lākou iho. ʻAʻole paha e pohō loa me nā keiki ʻōpio ʻelua, akā ʻoi aku ko lākou hoʻomaopopo ʻana ma mua o ko mākou ʻike ʻana a paʻa kekahi mea.
Ka hopena
He mea nui ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ke kamaʻilio pinepine ʻana me kā mākou mau keiki. Ma ke ʻano he mau mākua Karistiano mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo nei he ʻāpana o Kalikiano makua ʻO mākou ke aʻo ʻana i kā mākou mau keiki e ola e like me kā Iesu, akā ʻo ka hana pū kekahi e hoʻomaopopo i kā mākou mau keiki i ke ʻano o ia mea. Lawe kēia i ke kamaʻilio. ʻOiai he ʻoiaʻiʻo ka hakakā ʻana no kēlā me kēia makua i loaʻa nā keiki, he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi ia o ko lākou ulu kūlohelohe. ʻO wai mākou e lawe i kēlā ulu ʻana, ma ka ʻuhane a me ka naʻau, e haʻalele iā lākou no ka mea ua huhū nui mākou i ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai lākou e mālama maoli mākou iā lākou, inā makemake ʻoe e kōkua i ko lākou ʻuhane e ulu, e noʻonoʻo i ka heluhelu psychic ma https://www.juneauempire.com/marketplace/love-psychic-readings-online-best-sites-for-free-psychic-love-reading/.
ʻAʻole i hoʻohiki maoli ʻia ka hopena hopena, akā hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā hana āpau e hōʻoia i nā mea hiki i laila a ʻike kā mākou mau keiki. Me ka ʻole o ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi a me ke aloha, hiki i kā mākou mau keiki ke nalowale i ke ʻano o ka ʻohana a ʻike wau i loko o ko mākou ʻohana, ʻaʻole kēia kahi mea a mākou e makemake ai. ʻO kā mākou makemake e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi i kā mākou mau keiki ʻoiai i loko o nā hakakā ʻino loa a ʻo ka hopena ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i ko lākou aloha iā lākou me ka nānā ʻole i kā lākou hakakā a me kā mākou iho. Mai makaʻu e kamaʻilio pū me lākou ma ke ʻano e hoʻomaopopo ai lākou.
Nā Manawai:
https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/001541.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/health/guides/disease/phonological-disorder/overview.html
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Visit Matthew at his personal blogMatthew J. Elliott (M.J. Elliott) and his beautiful wife, Traci, have three children ages 4, 2 and 4/mos. He has worked with children in several church ministries throughout his career and has loved, almost, every minute of it :-) . As parents, Matthew and Traci strive to be the best example they can humanly be for their kids and to share what they learn with others.
ʻO Matthew J. Elliott (MJ Elliott) a me kāna wahine maikaʻi, ʻo Traci, he ʻekolu keiki i ka makahiki 4, 2 a me 4/mos. Ua hana pū ʻo ia me nā keiki ma nā ʻoihana pule he nui i kāna ʻoihana a aloha ʻo ia, kokoke i kēlā me kēia minuke :-) . Ma ke ʻano he mau mākua, hoʻoikaika ʻo Matthew lāua ʻo Traci e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi loa e hiki ai iā lākou ke lilo i kanaka no kā lākou mau keiki a kaʻana like i nā mea a lākou e aʻo ai me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
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