na Shannon Serpette
Me he mea lā ua hānau ʻia kekahi poʻe me ka hilinaʻi, ka manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole i ko lākou ʻano weliweli. ʻAʻole wau i loaʻa iaʻu i koʻu wā e ulu ana. ʻOiai ʻaʻole i loaʻa iaʻu kaʻu mea e kapa ai he haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa, ua lili mau au i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe o kaʻu kula – ka poʻe i ʻoi aku ka uʻi, ʻoi aku ka naʻauao a i ʻole ka pāʻani ma mua oʻu.
ʻAʻole loa au i ʻike i ke kālena ʻike. Ua maika'i ko'u mau māka, a he 'âlapa maika'i wau. ʻAʻohe oʻu mau mākua i hoʻoikaika iaʻu e hoʻoikaika ikaika ma kekahi wahi o koʻu ola. Ua hūnā maikaʻi ʻia nā talena aʻu i hana ai a hiki i koʻu mau makahiki makua i ka wā i hoʻomaka mālie ai au e ʻike i koʻu mākaukau ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe ma mua o kaʻu i noʻonoʻo ai.
I ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu keiki, ua paʻa koʻu manaʻo ʻaʻole e ʻike ʻia nā talena i loaʻa iā ia. E like me nā mākua he nui, makemake wau e loaʻa iā ia nā manawa hou aʻe ma mua o koʻu wā e ulu ana. Akā i ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine, ua ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka makemake e kōkua iā ia e ʻike i kona wāwae ma mua o kaʻu keiki.
ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu a hiki i kēia lā inā wau e hōʻike ana i koʻu mau manaʻo ponoʻī mai koʻu wā e ulu ana, a inā paha ua ikaika loa wau i ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kona manaʻo ponoʻī no ka mea ʻike wau ʻaʻole hilinaʻi nā kaikamahine ma ke ʻano he hui. nā keikikāne.
Ma ke kula haʻahaʻa, ke kula kiʻekiʻe a me ke kulanui, ʻike au i ke ʻano hoʻohālike like i kēlā me kēia makahiki. ʻO nā kaikamāhine, ʻoiai lākou i ʻike i ka pane o kahi nīnau i nīnau ʻia e ke kumu, ʻaʻole makemake e hāpai i ko lākou mau lima a ʻōlelo i ka papa. I ka hiki ʻana mai o ka manawa no nā papahana hui, e alakaʻi mau nā keikikāne o ka papa, a ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kaikamahine, ʻo wau pū kekahi, ua maikaʻi ia.
Makemake au e ʻokoʻa nā mea no kaʻu kaikamahine 9 makahiki. Makemake au e haʻalele kona hilinaʻi i ka papa kuhikuhi. Ke ʻike ʻo ia i ka pane ma ka papa, makemake wau e hāpai ʻo ia i kona lima i luna. Inā makemake ʻo ia i kahi keikikāne i kona wā ʻelemakule, makemake wau e haʻi iā ia. Ke manaʻo ʻo ia e hana ʻino ʻia ʻo ia e kekahi, makemake wau e pale aku iā ia iho me ka ʻole e kala ʻole no ia mea.
ʻO ka pōkole, makemake wau e lilo ʻo ia i nā mea āpau ʻaʻole wau, ʻo nā mea āpau āna e makemake ai. Makemake au iā ia e hoʻoponopono i nā mea āpau ma kona ala a ʻike hohonu i loko o kona ʻuhane aia nā mea hana a me ke kālena e hana ai.
ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka nui o nā manawa kūpono o nā kaikamahine i ke kula a me nā hana extracurricular ma mua o kaʻu i hana ai i koʻu wā kamaliʻi, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea e paipai ai i kaʻu kaikamahine i ka wiwo ʻole a me ka huhū i ka manaʻoʻiʻo iā ia iho a me ka hōʻike ʻana iā ia iho. Ua hui pū au i kaʻu hoʻolālā ponoʻī naʻe - kahi i loaʻa iaʻu ma o ka noiʻi a me nā ʻike ola.
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua no ka hānai ʻana i kahi kaikamahine hilinaʻi:
- Ke aʻo aku nei au iā ia he mea nui ka lokomaikaʻi, akā, pili pū kekahi me ka lokomaikaʻi iā ia iho. Ke aʻo aku nei au iā ia e hana maikaʻi i nā mea a pau, akā inā ʻaʻole maikaʻi nā kānaka i hope, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho. Aia kekahi kaikamahine i loko o kāna papa i aloha ʻole iā ia no nā makahiki. I ka wā mua, pilikia loa ia iā ia, akā i ka wā lōʻihi, ua aʻo ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu a ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻohe mea pili iā ia - ʻaʻole hauʻoli kēia kaikamahine a ʻaʻole ʻike i ke ʻano o kona mau manaʻo. I ka wā lōʻihi, ua oʻo ke kaikamahine a ua hoʻomau kaʻu kaikamahine e hana maikaʻi iā ia. I kēia mau lā, he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi lākou.
- Hoʻokomo wau iā ia i kēlā me kēia haʻuki āna i makemake ai. Aia ʻo ia i kēia manawa i ka pōʻaleʻa, pōpaʻipaʻi a me ka volleyball, a ua loaʻa pū ʻo ia i nā haʻawina hoʻoheheʻe a me ka tennis. ʻO ka hele ʻana i ka haʻuki e aʻo ai i nā kaikamahine e ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka ikaika. Aʻo lākou i nā kaikamāhine pehea e lilo ai i mea hoʻokūkū ikaika, a ʻo ka mea e hana ʻia ma ka pā hale ʻaʻohe mea pilikino. Hāʻawi ia iā lākou i ka hilinaʻi e ʻike hiki iā lākou ke pā i ka pōleʻa a i ʻole ke pana i ka hīnaʻi. ʻIke lākou i ka waiwai o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i kekahi mea – ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki mai ia mea. Aʻo lākou pehea e hoʻonohonoho ai i nā pahuhopu a hoʻokō. He wahi maikaʻi nō hoʻi lākou e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha hou e kaʻana like i ko lākou mau makemake a me nā manaʻoʻiʻo e hiki i nā kaikamahine ke hana i kekahi mea.
- Makemake au e hōʻike i kaʻu kaikamahine i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā wahine ikaika i hoʻololi i ka mōʻaukala. Inā ʻoe i aloha iā ia a inaina paha iā ia, ua hōʻike ʻo Hillary Clinton i nā kaikamahine he nui i hiki i nā mea a pau, hiki i nā kaikamahine ke uha i nā pale a lākou i loaʻa ʻole ai. Ua heluhelu kaʻu kaikamahine e pili ana iā Queen Elizabeth, Helen Keller, Sacajawea a me nā mea ʻē aʻe i hoʻoikaika i ka mōʻaukala. No laila ka nui o ka moʻolelo i aʻo ʻia i loko o nā kula e pili ana i nā kāne a me kā lākou mau mea i hoʻokō ai no laila ke ʻike nei au e aʻo ʻo ia e pili ana i nā wahine i ka mōʻaukala ma waho o ke kula.
- Hoʻomaʻamaʻa au i kaʻu e haʻi aku nei. Ke hoʻāʻo nei au e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike ikaika nona. Ke hopohopo wau a hilahila paha i ka haʻi ʻana i koʻu manaʻo e pili ana i kekahi mea, manaʻo wau iā ia a manaʻo wau i nā pilikia e loaʻa iaʻu. Ua ʻae au iā ia e ʻike iaʻu e kū ana noʻu iho a no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Makemake au e ho'āʻo i nā mea hou, a ʻike ʻo ia i kaʻu mau kūleʻa a me nā hemahema.
- Ua hōʻike wau iā ia i koʻu manaʻoʻiʻo iā ia. Haʻi wau iā ia i kona akamai, lokomaikaʻi, paʻakikī a nani. ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo e pili ana i kona kino, ke ʻole wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hoʻoikaika kino. ʻIke wau ua ʻike ʻo ia he nani nā kānaka o nā ʻano like ʻole i ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī.
- Hōʻike wau. Aia wau ma nā mea a pau āna e hana ai. Hana wau i mea nui, kaʻu mea nui, e like me kaʻu hana no kaʻu keiki. Inā he pāʻani kinipōpō, papa hāʻule, hāʻawi manawaleʻa ma kāna kula, a i ʻole he lumi makuahine no nā pāʻina hoʻomaha, aia wau ma laila. ʻAʻole pili inā luhi au. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā ua ʻoi aku ka nui o koʻu manawa ma ka bleachers ma mua o koʻu moe ʻana no ka pule. E hele ana au i laila no ka mea ʻoi aku ka ʻoi aku o ka ʻoliʻoli ʻana iā ia a me ke komo ʻana i kona ola ma mua o kaʻu mau ʻōlelo – hōʻike ia he mea nui ʻo ia iaʻu. A ʻo ia ka makana nui loa hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi i kā mākou mau kaikamahine - e hōʻike iā lākou he mea nui lākou, iā mākou a me ka honua.
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He makuahine ʻo Shannon Serpette o ʻelua a he mea kākau moʻolelo lanakila a me ka manuahi e noho ana ma Illinois. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kona mau lā e kākau ai, e kau ana me kāna mau keiki a me kāna kāne, a me ka ʻimi ʻana i kāna leʻaleʻa punahele, ka ʻike metala, i kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ia. Hiki ke loaʻa iā Serpette ma writerslifeforme@gmail.com
He makuahine ʻo Shannon Serpette o ʻelua a he mea kākau moʻolelo lanakila a me ka manuahi e noho ana ma Illinois. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kona mau lā e kākau ai, e kau ana me kāna mau keiki a me kāna kāne, a me ka ʻimi ʻana i kāna leʻaleʻa punahele, ka ʻike metala, i kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ia. Hiki ke loaʻa iā Serpette ma writerslifeforme@gmail.com
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