na Matthew J. Elliott
He ʻike ikaika loa ka makua a hiki iā ia ke aʻo iā mākou i nā haʻawina ola maikaʻi e kōkua i ka hoʻoheheʻe ʻana iā mākou i ka poʻe i manaʻo ʻia e lilo ai mākou. Ma ke ʻano he mau mākua o ʻekolu keiki 4 a ma lalo, hiki i ko mākou ola ke lilo i mea pupule. I kēlā me kēia lā he mea hou mākou e aʻo nei e pili ana i kā mākou mau keiki. ʻO ke ʻano o ka hoʻolohe ʻana iā lākou i ka wā e hakakā ai lākou i kā lākou ʻōlelo a i ʻole pehea e hele ai i ka ipuhao e like me nā keiki nui. He ola piha i ka hauʻoli, ke aloha, ke kaumaha, a me ka hauʻoli holoʻokoʻa. ʻOiai ʻaʻole mākou e ʻōlelo he poʻe akamai ma kekahi ʻano, ua aʻo mākou i kekahi mau mea ma ke ala.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka mālama ʻana i ka makua, he huakaʻi ola lōʻihi ia no nā mea a pau e pili ana i ka ʻohana. Ma ke ʻano he mau Karistiano, loaʻa iā mākou ke alakaʻi mai ka Baibala a e hoʻāʻo e kālele i kā mākou hana makua i ke aʻo ʻana i kā mākou mau keiki i ke aloha, ka lokomaikaʻi, ke ahonui, ka ʻike, a me ke aloha. Aʻo pū mākou iā lākou Manaoio Kalikiano no ka Ehaeha ma ka Honua. He mau lā ʻaʻole mākou e kūleʻa, akā hoʻoikaika nui mākou i ka lā aʻe e hoʻokomo i kēia mau mea i loko o kā mākou mau keiki. I ko mākou ulu ʻana i mau mākua e haʻaheo ai kā mākou mau keiki, e mahalo mākou i kēlā me kēia lā hou e hiki mai ana.
Pono nā keiki e ʻike iā ʻoe mālama
Mai ka manaʻo Karistiano, he mea nui iā mākou e hoʻomanaʻo i kā mākou mau keiki i kēlā me kēia lā e mālama mākou i kahi mea nui aʻe ma mua o mākou āpau. Manaʻo mākou he pono i kā mākou mau keiki ke ʻike he ʻoi aku ka nui o ke ola ma mua o ka noho wale ʻana. Ma nā mea a pau a mākou e hana ai mai ka manawa a lākou e ala ai i ke kakahiaka a hiki i ka manawa a lākou e hiamoe ai i ka pō, hoʻomanaʻo mākou iā lākou aloha mākou iā lākou a aloha pū ko mākou mea ho'ōla iā lākou. Ke lawe nei kēia manaʻo i ke ʻano o kā mākou aʻo ʻana iā lākou e mālama i kekahi i kekahi a me ka poʻe a puni lākou. E lilo ia i ʻāpana o ke kahua a mākou i manaʻo ai e kūkulu i ko mākou ʻohana ma luna.
Aia ma ka Baibala kekahi pauku ma ka buke Galatia e ao ana i kekahi mea i kapaia 'na hua o ka uhane.' ʻO ka mea maʻamau ka mea a kēia paukū e hōʻuluʻulu ai i ʻeiwa mau hiʻohiʻona o ke ʻano o ke ola o ke Karistiano. "ke aloha, ka olioli, ka maluhia, ke ahonui, ka lokomaikai, ka maikai, ka oiaio, ke akahai, a me ka hoomanawanui." ʻOiai ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio me kā mākou mau keiki e pili ana i kēia mau ʻano ʻeiwa i kēlā me kēia lā, ke hoʻāʻo nei mākou e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike no lākou ma nā ʻano āpau. ʻOiai ʻaʻole maopopo iā lākou i kēia manawa, ʻo ko mākou manaʻolana inā mākou e hoʻolilo iā ia i ʻāpana o ko lākou ola i kēia lā, e lilo ia i ʻāpana o ko lākou ola i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule.
Pono nā keiki e ʻike aia ʻoe ma laila no lākou
Ke ulu mau nei kā mākou mau keiki, e hoʻomaka ana lākou e ʻike i nā mea hou a ʻo kekahi o ia mau mea e hoʻoweliweli i nā kukui ola o lākou, e like me ka ʻōlelo a koʻu makuahine. ʻO kekahi o nā mea aʻu i aʻo ai i ka hana ʻana ma ke ʻano he kahu hānai keiki, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā keiki e ulu a hiki i ko lākou mau makahiki ʻōpio, hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻomohala i ko lākou ʻike i ka honua a puni lākou. Ua hana au me nā keiki mai nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole a me nā hoʻoilina. Ua haʻihaʻi kekahi o lākou a ua piha kekahi o lākou i ke ola. I koʻu ʻike ʻana i nā mākua, ʻike wau i ka ʻokoʻa o ke kū ʻana o ka makua i kā lāua keiki.
I ka wā e pono ai mākou e hōʻike i kahi pilikia aʻo, aia kekahi poʻe paʻa a aloha a aia kekahi poʻe koʻikoʻi. Aia nā mea a pau i ke ʻano o kā mākou hana ʻana iā lākou; inā mākou e mālama iā lākou me ke aloha paʻa a me ke kuleana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hopena no kēlā me kēia. Aia kekahi manawa e ʻike ai kā mākou mau keiki ua hana hewa lākou, akā pono lākou e ʻike ua hana ʻoe i kēia no kou mālama ʻana iā lākou.
Pono nā keiki i ka hoʻoikaika maikaʻi
ʻO ke ʻano maʻamau o nā keiki a pau aʻu i mālama ai, aia lākou ma ko lākou ala ponoʻī o ka ʻike. ʻO nā mea a pau a mākou e hana ai me kā mākou mau keiki e waiho ana i kahi hua liʻiliʻi i loko o ko lākou naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo. I ko lākou ulu ʻana, pēlā nō ka hua liʻiliʻi, a ma hope e hoʻohana kēlā me kēia keiki i kēlā mau ʻanoʻano ulu e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomohala i ko lākou ʻike i ka honua a puni lākou. Ke hoʻoikaika ka makua i kahi pane maikaʻi ʻole i ke keiki, e pane like ke keiki. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka pane ʻana ma ke ʻano maikaʻi, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka wā e haehae ai kāu mau keiki i ka hale i kekona kekona ma hope o kou hoʻopau ʻana i kahi hapa o ka lā e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai, akā ʻo ia ka mea a mākou e hoʻāʻo mau nei e hoʻokō.
Ma ke ano he mau makua, he kuleana ko kakou ke kanu i na anoano e mohala mai ai i kumu hoohalike no ka kakou mau keiki, e like me ka Iesu haawi ana mai i kana mau keiki (ka poe hahai) i mau kumu hoohalike. ʻO ia ke kumu Ka makua Kristiano e pili ana i ke aloha ia lakou, e like me Iesu. ʻAʻole maikaʻi mākou, akā pono mākou e hoʻoikaika e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi loa no kā mākou mau keiki.
He mea nui ka ʻohana a he pono ke kumu
He mea koʻikoʻi ke aloha i ko mākou ʻohana a pono kā mākou mau keiki e ʻike ʻo ka ʻohana kahi wahi e loaʻa ai ke aloha. ʻOiai hiki i ka honua ke lilo i wahi kala ʻole loa, ke manaʻolana nei mākou e ʻike mau lākou e loaʻa iā lākou ke aloha ma ka home ʻoiai ʻaʻohe mea. ʻO kēia ka ʻohana. Hoʻokumu mākou ma ke kumu o ke aloha ma o ke aʻo ʻana i nā mea e like me ka lokomaikaʻi, ka hoʻomanawanui, ka maikaʻi, ka ʻike, a me ka hoʻomalu iā ʻoe iho. Hoʻokumu ʻia kēia mau mea a pau i ko mākou manaʻoʻiʻo Kalikiano a ma ke ʻano hoʻohālike a Iesu i kau ai no mākou. ʻO kā mākou kumu ma ke ʻano he mau mākua Karistiano e aʻo i kā mākou mau keiki e aloha i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e like me Iesu.
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Visit Matthew at his personal blogMatthew J. Elliott (M.J. Elliott) and his beautiful wife, Traci, have three children ages 4, 2 and 4/mos. He has worked with children in several church ministries throughout his career and has loved, almost, every minute of it :-) . As parents, Matthew and Traci strive to be the best example they can humanly be for their kids and to share what they learn with others.
ʻO Matthew J. Elliott (MJ Elliott) a me kāna wahine maikaʻi, ʻo Traci, he ʻekolu keiki i ka makahiki 4, 2 a me 4/mos. Ua hana pū ʻo ia me nā keiki ma nā ʻoihana pule he nui i kāna ʻoihana a aloha ʻo ia, kokoke i kēlā me kēia minuke :-) . Ma ke ʻano he mau mākua, hoʻoikaika ʻo Matthew lāua ʻo Traci e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi loa e hiki ai iā lākou ke lilo i kanaka no kā lākou mau keiki a kaʻana like i nā mea a lākou e aʻo ai me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
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