na Angie Shiflett
September 11th, nā pōʻino o Boston Marathon, a me nā pilikia o kēia manawa e pili ana me ISIS e hana hoʻoweliweli a me nā ʻano hana ʻino ʻē aʻe i mua o nūhou weliweli poʻomanaʻo i mua o kā mākou keiki - ma ka lekiō, ma ke kīwī, ma ka pūnaewele puni honua, a me nā mea hoʻolaha ʻē aʻe. Na nā mākua ke kuleana o ka wehewehe ʻana i kēia mau hana ʻino weliweli i nā keiki o ke ao nei. ʻOiai i manaʻo ʻia he paʻakikī loa, manaʻo ʻia kēia mau kamaʻilio he mea koʻikoʻi. ʻAʻole loa ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe iho, ma ke ʻano he makua, e hina hewa ana i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā nīnau like ʻole mai kāu. keiki. Nau ke kuleana e hoʻolako i kāu mau keiki me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā, i ka hana ʻana pēlā, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i kāu keiki e hoomau i ka manao paa. Eia kekahi mau ʻanuʻu e pili ana i ka holomua ma ke kōkua keiki hoʻomanawanui i nūhou weliweli.
E kaupalena i ka manawa pale
ʻO ka hana mua a nui loa āu e hana ai e kōkua keiki hoʻomanawanui i nūhou weliweli ʻo ia ka palena o ko lākou ʻike ʻana i nā moʻolelo nūhou e hoʻolaha ʻia nei. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, lohe paha nā keiki i nā moʻolelo o nā mea e hana nei ma ka honua mai nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, a me nā hoalauna; akā naʻe, inā lōʻihi ka manawa o ke keiki ma mua o ka pale, inā he pale kelepona, ʻaoʻao kamepiula, a i ʻole ka kīwī, e ʻike ʻia lākou i nā nūhou hou aʻe. Ma muli o kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo wale nō, pono e kaupalena i ka manawa pale ma ke kau ʻana i nā palena manawa, ka palena pūnaewele, a me nā mana makua ma nā mea uila. Pono ʻoe e nānā mua i nā moʻolelo nūhou. A laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke kānana i nā moʻolelo i kūpono loa i kāu keiki. Eia hou, e hāʻawi kēia iā ʻoe i ka mākaukau e hoʻomākaukau no nā nīnau i loaʻa paha i kāu keiki ke lohe ʻo ia i nā moʻolelo nūhou āu i ʻae ai iā lākou e ʻike a lohe paha.
E mālie
Heʻike maopopo ia keiki ʻoluʻolu i nā manaʻo i loaʻa i ko lākou mau mākua - nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole. ʻOiai he mea paʻakikī a weliweli paha ka lohe ʻana i nā moʻolelo e like me nā mea e hoʻopuni ana i nā hanana o 9/11 a i ʻole 11/13 ma Palisa, pono ʻoe e noho mālie i mua o kāu mau keiki. Ke kamaʻilio ʻoe i nā keiki a i ʻole nā keiki e pili ana nūhou weliweli, he mea nui e noho mālie a kamaʻilio ma ke ʻano kūpono i ko lākou kūlana kūʻokoʻa o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ka ʻōlelo hoʻomohala. Inā nīnau ʻia ʻoe e kāu keiki inā pilikia ʻoe i ka nūhou a hopohopo paha, ʻoiaʻiʻo paha ʻoe; akā, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau a maikaʻi ʻoukou a pau. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e hūnā i kou mau manaʻo. Akā, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo; akā naʻe, e hana me ka akahele i ʻole e hoʻoweliweli i kāu keiki. Inā noho mālie ʻoe, e noho mālie nō hoʻi kāu keiki!
E nīnau i nā nīnau
Ke nīnau ʻia ʻoe e kāu keiki e pili ana i nūhou weliweli, pono ʻoe e nīnau iā lākou ma mua o ka pane ʻana. ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e nīnau i nā mea a lākou i ʻike ai a i lohe ai paha. A laila, pono ʻoe e hoʻoholo i ka mea a lākou e hopohopo nui ai. I ka nui o nā manawa, e ʻike ʻoe ua makaʻu kāu keiki i ke ʻano like nūhou weliweli e hiki mai ana paha ia lakou. Inā ʻo ia ka hihia, pono ʻoe e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kāu keiki ua pale ʻia ʻo ia a hāʻawi iā ia i ka ʻike maikaʻi e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o nā kūlana like ʻole ke loaʻa iā lākou i kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona. E nīnau i nā nīnau a hāʻawi i nā pane.
hoʻohana Nuhou Makau e ao aku
Nūhou weliweli He manawa kūpono paha ia e aʻo ai i kāu keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā moʻolelo o ka hoʻoweliweli a me ka hana ʻino i loko o ka pāpaho e paipai keiki e aloha, aloha, a hāʻawi. Hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki ke hana pū i ke kōkua ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i pilikia ma muli o ka nūhou weliweli. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i ka nūhou weliweli e hoʻoikaika i ka manaʻo hoʻomana o ke keiki a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou i ka pili ʻana o kāu hoʻomana i kēlā mau ʻano kūlana. ʻAʻole pili i ka weliweli o ka nūhou weliweli ʻo ia, he mea nui ka ʻike a hoʻomaopopo ʻana he nui nā haʻawina waiwai e aʻo ʻia i ke keiki i ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou e pili ana i ke kūlana.
Panina
ʻO ka hoʻoweliweli, ka hana ʻino, ka make…ʻo ia nā ʻāpana āpau o ko mākou honua. ʻOiai kā mākou hoʻoikaika nui e pale i kā mākou mau keiki mai nūhou weliweli ʻO nā moʻolelo e pili ana i kēia mau hoʻopiʻi, ʻoi aku lākou - ʻoi aku paha - e hopu i ka makani o kēia mau moʻolelo. Ke hana lākou, e hele mai lākou iā ʻoe e nīnau i nā nīnau a e aʻo hou aku. ʻO ka hope, makemake lākou e hōʻoia i ko lākou palekana a me kou palekana. Pono e hāʻawi mau ʻia ka hōʻoia no ka palekana a pono e aʻo ʻia nā keiki pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i nā ʻano kūlana like ʻole a lākou e kū nei. Ma ka wehe ʻana, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a me ka mālama ʻana i kāu keiki e pili ana i nā mea a pau o ka honua, e hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia, ʻae, he ʻāpana kēia o ko mākou ola, akā, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e pau ko mākou ola - mākou pono e aʻo i ka hoʻoponopono.
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