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Kōkua i nā kamaliʻi e hoʻoponopono i nā nūhou weliweli

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na Angie Shiflett

September 11th, nā pōʻino o Boston Marathon, a me nā pilikia o kēia manawa e pili ana me ISIS e hana hoʻoweliweli a me nā ʻano hana ʻino ʻē aʻe i mua o nūhou weliweli poʻomanaʻo i mua o kā mākou keiki - ma ka lekiō, ma ke kīwī, ma ka pūnaewele puni honua, a me nā mea hoʻolaha ʻē aʻe. Na nā mākua ke kuleana o ka wehewehe ʻana i kēia mau hana ʻino weliweli i nā keiki o ke ao nei. ʻOiai i manaʻo ʻia he paʻakikī loa, manaʻo ʻia kēia mau kamaʻilio he mea koʻikoʻi. ʻAʻole loa ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe iho, ma ke ʻano he makua, e hina hewa ana i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā nīnau like ʻole mai kāu. keiki. Nau ke kuleana e hoʻolako i kāu mau keiki me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā, i ka hana ʻana pēlā, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i kāu keiki e hoomau i ka manao paa. Eia kekahi mau ʻanuʻu e pili ana i ka holomua ma ke kōkua keiki hoʻomanawanui i nūhou weliweli.

E kaupalena i ka manawa pale

ʻO ka hana mua a nui loa āu e hana ai e kōkua keiki hoʻomanawanui i nūhou weliweli ʻo ia ka palena o ko lākou ʻike ʻana i nā moʻolelo nūhou e hoʻolaha ʻia nei. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, lohe paha nā keiki i nā moʻolelo o nā mea e hana nei ma ka honua mai nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, a me nā hoalauna; akā naʻe, inā lōʻihi ka manawa o ke keiki ma mua o ka pale, inā he pale kelepona, ʻaoʻao kamepiula, a i ʻole ka kīwī, e ʻike ʻia lākou i nā nūhou hou aʻe. Ma muli o kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo wale nō, pono e kaupalena i ka manawa pale ma ke kau ʻana i nā palena manawa, ka palena pūnaewele, a me nā mana makua ma nā mea uila. Pono ʻoe e nānā mua i nā moʻolelo nūhou. A laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke kānana i nā moʻolelo i kūpono loa i kāu keiki. Eia hou, e hāʻawi kēia iā ʻoe i ka mākaukau e hoʻomākaukau no nā nīnau i loaʻa paha i kāu keiki ke lohe ʻo ia i nā moʻolelo nūhou āu i ʻae ai iā lākou e ʻike a lohe paha.

E mālie

Heʻike maopopo ia keiki ʻoluʻolu i nā manaʻo i loaʻa i ko lākou mau mākua - nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole. ʻOiai he mea paʻakikī a weliweli paha ka lohe ʻana i nā moʻolelo e like me nā mea e hoʻopuni ana i nā hanana o 9/11 a i ʻole 11/13 ma Palisa, pono ʻoe e noho mālie i mua o kāu mau keiki. Ke kamaʻilio ʻoe i nā keiki a i ʻole nā ​​keiki e pili ana nūhou weliweli, he mea nui e noho mālie a kamaʻilio ma ke ʻano kūpono i ko lākou kūlana kūʻokoʻa o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ka ʻōlelo hoʻomohala. Inā nīnau ʻia ʻoe e kāu keiki inā pilikia ʻoe i ka nūhou a hopohopo paha, ʻoiaʻiʻo paha ʻoe; akā, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau a maikaʻi ʻoukou a pau. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e hūnā i kou mau manaʻo. Akā, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo; akā naʻe, e hana me ka akahele i ʻole e hoʻoweliweli i kāu keiki. Inā noho mālie ʻoe, e noho mālie nō hoʻi kāu keiki!

E nīnau i nā nīnau

Ke nīnau ʻia ʻoe e kāu keiki e pili ana i nūhou weliweli, pono ʻoe e nīnau iā lākou ma mua o ka pane ʻana. ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e nīnau i nā mea a lākou i ʻike ai a i lohe ai paha. A laila, pono ʻoe e hoʻoholo i ka mea a lākou e hopohopo nui ai. I ka nui o nā manawa, e ʻike ʻoe ua makaʻu kāu keiki i ke ʻano like nūhou weliweli e hiki mai ana paha ia lakou. Inā ʻo ia ka hihia, pono ʻoe e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kāu keiki ua pale ʻia ʻo ia a hāʻawi iā ia i ka ʻike maikaʻi e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o nā kūlana like ʻole ke loaʻa iā lākou i kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona. E nīnau i nā nīnau a hāʻawi i nā pane.

hoʻohana Nuhou Makau e ao aku

Nūhou weliweli He manawa kūpono paha ia e aʻo ai i kāu keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā moʻolelo o ka hoʻoweliweli a me ka hana ʻino i loko o ka pāpaho e paipai keiki e aloha, aloha, a hāʻawi. Hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki ke hana pū i ke kōkua ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i pilikia ma muli o ka nūhou weliweli. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i ka nūhou weliweli e hoʻoikaika i ka manaʻo hoʻomana o ke keiki a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou i ka pili ʻana o kāu hoʻomana i kēlā mau ʻano kūlana. ʻAʻole pili i ka weliweli o ka nūhou weliweli ʻo ia, he mea nui ka ʻike a hoʻomaopopo ʻana he nui nā haʻawina waiwai e aʻo ʻia i ke keiki i ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou e pili ana i ke kūlana.

Panina

ʻO ka hoʻoweliweli, ka hana ʻino, ka make…ʻo ia nā ʻāpana āpau o ko mākou honua. ʻOiai kā mākou hoʻoikaika nui e pale i kā mākou mau keiki mai nūhou weliweli ʻO nā moʻolelo e pili ana i kēia mau hoʻopiʻi, ʻoi aku lākou - ʻoi aku paha - e hopu i ka makani o kēia mau moʻolelo. Ke hana lākou, e hele mai lākou iā ʻoe e nīnau i nā nīnau a e aʻo hou aku. ʻO ka hope, makemake lākou e hōʻoia i ko lākou palekana a me kou palekana. Pono e hāʻawi mau ʻia ka hōʻoia no ka palekana a pono e aʻo ʻia nā keiki pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i nā ʻano kūlana like ʻole a lākou e kū nei. Ma ka wehe ʻana, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a me ka mālama ʻana i kāu keiki e pili ana i nā mea a pau o ka honua, e hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia, ʻae, he ʻāpana kēia o ko mākou ola, akā, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e pau ko mākou ola - mākou pono e aʻo i ka hoʻoponopono.

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Angie Shiflett is a content specialist that focuses on writing on an assortment of topics. Currently, her passion is homeschooling and education. She has been homeschooling her children through The Connections Academy for two years now. Both her and her husband are able to remain at home with their children in order to educate them. They place a high emphasis on family, and dedication to the importance of a proper education


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He loea maʻiʻo ʻo Angie Shiflett e kālele ana i ke kākau ʻana ma nā ʻano kumuhana. I kēia manawa, ʻo kona makemake i ke kula home a me ka hoʻonaʻauao. Ua aʻo ʻo ia i kāna mau keiki ma o The Connections Academy no ʻelua makahiki i kēia manawa. Hiki iā ia a me kāna kāne ke noho ma ka home me kā lāua mau keiki i mea e hoʻonaʻauao ai iā lākou. Hāʻawi lākou i ka manaʻo nui i ka ʻohana, a me ka hoʻolaʻa ʻana i ke koʻikoʻi o ka hoʻonaʻauao kūpono


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