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ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka lāʻau ʻōpio - nā pono a me nā pōʻino

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ʻO nā pono a me nā pōʻino o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā pahu hoʻāʻo lāʻau no kāu ʻōpio

ʻŌpio. Hoʻokahi minute e noho ʻakaʻaka ana ʻoe me lākou a ʻo ka mea aʻe e uē ana lākou iā ʻoe no ke kūpono ʻole o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka curfew. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā makahiki ʻōpio ke lilo i mea paʻakikī i kekahi manawa. I kekahi lā e haʻaheo ana ʻoe i kāu mau hoa hana ua hoʻi mai kāu ʻōpio i ka home a hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka lumi kuke holoʻokoʻa me ka nīnau ʻole ʻia ʻana i ʻehā mau manawa a i ka lā aʻe e haʻi aku ʻoe iā lākou e pili ana i kona hōʻino ʻole i kēlā kakahiaka.

ʻAe, he mau ʻōpio ka poʻe ʻōpio, akā pehea nā mākua e noʻonoʻo nei inā he mau ʻōpio lākou e hoʻohana nei i nā lāʻau lapaʻau? Hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i nā hōʻailona o ka addiction, akā ʻaʻohe o lākou hōʻoia a ʻaʻole ʻo ka ʻōpio e hāʻawi i ka haʻi.

ʻOiai e ho'āʻo ana e kūʻai i kahi hōʻailona lāʻau a ho'āʻo i kāu'ōpiopio ma ka home, hiki paha iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pehea e hele ai me kāu'ōpiopio. E manaʻo paha ʻo ia i ka hoʻohewa ʻia? Huhu? E oki anei ka pilina? Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke koʻikoʻi no ka noʻonoʻo ʻana e hoʻi maikaʻi ka hoʻāʻo. Pehea ʻoe e hana ai? He aha kāu e hana ai? He mea maʻamau ka manaʻo o kēia ʻano ma ke ʻano he makua, no laila e ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe wale nō i ke ʻano o kou manaʻo.

Ua puni nā pahu hoʻāʻo lāʻau home no nā makahiki he nui a hiki i nā mākua ke hilinaʻi ʻole e haʻi ana kā lākou ʻōpio i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lāʻau. ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻāʻo no kēlā me kēia lāʻau lapaʻau ma laila, hoʻāʻo lākou no kekahi o lākou. Maikaʻi nō hoʻi lākou, me nā hoʻāʻo marijuana he $1 wale nō a 12 papa ho'āʻo lāʻau no ka emi iho o $10, ka hoao ana no na laau lapaau e like me ka cocaine, opiates, na laau eha, marijuana, a oi.

Akā, pono anei ʻoe e hoʻāʻo i kāu ʻōpio ma ka home? He mea kūpono paha ka pilikia o kāu pilina?

I kēia lā, e nānā kākou i nā pono a me nā pōʻino o ka hana ʻana pēlā.

Pono o ka ho'āʻo lāʻau ʻōpio

  • Aʻo ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Inā hoʻi maikaʻi ka hōʻike no nā lāʻau lapaʻau, pono ʻoe e hana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i lalo me kāu ʻōpio a kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i ke kūlana me ka ʻole o ka ulu ʻana i mea hoʻohui a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻino.
  • Hiki iā ʻoe ke komo ikaika i ke ola o kāu ʻōpio e pili ana i ka hoʻohana lāʻau. ʻAʻole ʻoe e haʻalulu wale me ka manaʻolana i ka maikaʻi. Ke hoʻoikaika nei ʻoe.
  • Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kāu ʻōpio e hana ana ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo lāʻau maʻamau. Ua lawa paha kēia i kāu ʻōpio e "ʻōlelo wale ʻaʻole" ke koi nā hoa iā ia ma ke kula e hoʻāʻo i nā lāʻau lapaʻau.
  • Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka kamaʻilio ākea a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me kāu ʻōpio. Mai lilo ia i mea hilinaʻi. E hoʻolilo wale i ʻāpana o ke ola ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻōpio.

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Nā pōʻino o ka hoʻāʻo lāʻau ʻōpio

  • Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ka hakakā ma waena o ʻoe a me kou ʻōpio. Hiki paha iā ia ke huhū a huhū, me ka manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe i hilinaʻi iā ia. Hiki paha iā ia ke ho'ōki i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe a hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i mea makua ʻino loa. Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe ua hana mua paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā manawa like ʻole i hiki ʻole iā ia ke ala.
  • Hiki i kāu ʻōpio ke hoʻomaka i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau ʻaʻole i nānā ʻia i loko o ka pahu hoʻāʻo lāʻau āu e hoʻohana nei.
  • He liʻiliʻi loa ka manawa e hiki ai i ka hoʻāʻo ke hoʻopuka i nā hopena hoʻopunipuni, (ka maikaʻi wahaheʻe) hiki ke hoʻoulu maoli i ka haunaele ma ka home. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia he hala ʻole ʻo ia, akā ʻokoʻa nā hopena. Hiki i kekahi mau lāʻau anu ke kumu i ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole, a me nā lāʻau antibiotic. ʻO ka hana ʻana i kahi hoʻāʻo lāʻau ʻelua ua paipai ʻia e ʻike pono.

Pehea ʻoe e hāʻawi ai i kahi hoʻāʻo lāʻau?

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi manawaleʻa i kahi hoʻāʻo lāʻau a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kāu ʻōpio i ka wā e hāʻawi ai ʻoe i hoʻokahi. He mea ʻino paha ia, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa e mālama i ka māmā a me ka ʻole o ka hakakā. E hoʻoholo ma mua i kāu mea e hana ai inā hoʻi mai ka hōʻike i ka maikaʻi a i ʻole ka maikaʻi ʻole. Makemake paha ʻoe e uku i kāu ʻōpio no nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole a ʻoiaʻiʻo, loaʻa nā hopena no nā hopena maikaʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa mau ka ʻike kikoʻī mai kahi loea e like me Kauka Burkhart ka mea e hauʻoli e kōkua iā ʻoe.

Hoʻi i ka makahiki 2007, The American Halau o Pediatrics Ua hoʻopuka ʻo ia i kahi ʻōlelo i ʻōlelo ʻia, "ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka lāʻau e loaʻa i nā pilikia nui - ʻo ia hoʻi, ka pilikia o ka hoʻopōʻino ʻana i ka pilina makua-keiki ma o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi ʻano huhū, hilinaʻi, a me ka kānalua." Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole ʻae ka nui o nā kākāʻōlelo. Manaʻo lākou he mea kōkua paha ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka lāʻau i nā ʻōpio e pale aku i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o nā hoa me nā lāʻau lapaʻau.

Ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo lāʻau i kāu ʻōpio? Inā pēlā, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole ma mua o kou hoʻoholo ʻana.

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Dominica Applegate is an author, writer, and transpersonal spiritual mentor. Earning her BA in Psychology and MA in Counseling, she worked 12 years in the mental health field before diving full-time into writing.

She has authored many popular articles and a series of guided journals on the topics of inner healing work, conscious relationships, and spiritual awakening. She runs Rediscovering Sacredness, an online platform that offers inspiration, essays, resources, and tools to help heal emotional pain and increase peace and joy.


Check out these Books by Dominica on Amazon:


Into the Wild Shadow Work Journal: Reclaim Your Wholeness


Shadow Work – tracking & Healing Emotional Triggers Mindfully: A Guided Journal & Workbook


Awakening Self-Love: An Open-Hearted, Inner Healing Journaling Adventure (90-Day Guided Journal


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ʻO Dominica Applegate he mea kākau, mea kākau, a he kumu aʻoaʻo ʻuhane transpersonal. Loaʻa iā ia kāna BA ma Psychology a me MA ma ka ʻōlelo aʻo, ua hana ʻo ia i 12 mau makahiki ma ke kula olakino noʻonoʻo ma mua o ka luʻu manawa piha i ke kākau ʻana.

Ua kākau ʻo ia i nā ʻatikala kaulana a me nā pūʻulu puke alakaʻi e pili ana i nā kumuhana o ka hana hoʻōla i loko, ka pilina ʻike, a me ke ala ʻuhane. Holo ʻo ia i ka Rediscovering Sacredness, kahi kahua pūnaewele e hāʻawi i ka hoʻoikaika, nā ʻatikala, nā kumuwaiwai, a me nā mea hana e kōkua ai i ka hoʻōla ʻana i ka ʻeha o ka naʻau a hoʻonui i ka maluhia a me ka hauʻoli.


E nānā i kēia mau puke na Dominica ma Amazon:


I loko o ka Wild Shadow Work Journal: Hoʻihoʻi hou i kou holoʻokoʻa


Shadow Work - ka nānā ʻana a me ka ho'ōla ʻana i nā manaʻo hoʻowalewale me ka noʻonoʻo: He puke moʻolelo alakaʻi a me ka puke hana


E ala i ke aloha pono'ī: He Puʻuwai hāmama, hoʻōla i loko o ka puke puke puke (90-Day Guided Journal.



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