ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā ʻohana he ʻelua mau mākua hana e hoʻokaʻawale ai ka ʻohana ma mua o ka home i nā manawa a pau. He mea nui ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi kaulike maikaʻi ma waena o ka hana a me ka ʻohana no ke ola hauʻoli a olakino. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e hana ai i kēia ma o ka hui maikaʻi.
Nui nā mākua hana, ʻoi aku hoʻi nā mākua hana, hewa no ka hana ʻana ma waho o ka home. ʻO ka lālani pale mua ka loaʻa ʻana o ka motto, ʻaʻohe wahi no ka hewa. Hana nā mākua i nā mea e pono ai e hāʻawi i ka hale, ka meaʻai, a me ke ola maikaʻi no ko lākou ʻohana a ʻo ia hoʻi, pono nā mākua ʻelua e hana e hoʻolako i ko lākou ʻohana. Hiki ke holomua ma ke ʻano he ʻohana me nā mākua ʻelua (a i ʻole makua hoʻokahi) e hana ana. ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana aia kekahi manawa e holo ʻole ai nā mea e like me ka mea i hoʻolālā ʻia a ʻo ke aʻo ʻana e ʻōwili me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻohana a me kahi hana ke kī nui i ka hauʻoli ma ʻaneʻi. E haʻalele i ka hewa, e neʻe ma mua o ia. E noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka hana a me ka ʻohana me ka ikehu maikaʻi.
ʻO ka mālama lā a i ʻole ka mālama keiki he mea hopohopo nui no nā mākua hana. ʻO kahi o ke koʻikoʻi o ia hoʻonohonoho ʻana ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mālama lā maikaʻi no kāu mau keiki makamae. Hana i kāu haʻawina home i ka wā e ʻimi ai i kahi hale mālama lā maikaʻi loa a kahu hānai paha. Nīnauele a hōʻiliʻili i nā manaʻo a hele wale me ka mea maikaʻi loa. E hōʻoia i ka palekana o ka hale, hiki i ke code, laikini, a hilinaʻi. E hilinaʻi i kou ʻōpū. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele i kāu mau keiki ma kahi e hāʻawi ai i ka maluhia o ka naʻau, e hana ʻoe i kahi hana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ka hana.
ʻO kekahi o nā pilikia nui no nā mākua hana ʻo ia ke kakahiaka. E hoʻolālā no ka kūleʻa ma o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana e like me ka hiki i ka pō ma mua. E hoʻomākaukau i nā lole no ʻoe a me nā keiki. E hana i ka ʻaina awakea a e mākaukau i ka ʻaina kakahiaka. E loaʻa i nā mea a pau e pono ai nā keiki a mākaukau ʻoe e hele ma ka puka. E hoʻolālā i mua inā e haʻalele kekahi a i ʻole kekahi makua a e hōʻoia i ka holo ʻana o nā mea a pau e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka hana kakahiaka.
Pono ka kalena nui no ka hui. E kūʻai mai i kekahi o ia mau ʻano papa hoailona a i ʻole kahi kalena pepa nui no nā memo o kēlā me kēia lā. E kākau i nā koho, nā hana, a me nā mea a pau āu e hoʻomanaʻo ai ma ka kalena. E hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa i kēlā me kēia pule e hele i ka papahana o ka pule aʻe e hana i nā hoʻoponopono inā pono.
He mea nui ka ʻike maopopo me kāu mea hana i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina hana olakino. Pono kou haku e ʻike he ʻohana kou a aia kekahi mau manawa e pono ai ʻoe e mālama i kahi keiki maʻi a i ʻole nā pilikia ʻohana. E hōʻoia ʻoe e ʻike ma mua i nā kulekele o kāu hana e like me nā lā maʻi, ka manawa hoʻomaha, a me ka nui o ka manawa ma mua (inā hiki) pono ʻoe e noi i kahi lā hoʻomaha. ʻO ka paʻi ʻana i kēia ma ka hoʻomaka e hoʻopakele i ka ʻeha o ka naʻau ma hope o nā mea e hiki mai ana, a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki a me kahi ʻohana, e piʻi mai ana nā mea i kēlā me kēia manawa e huki iā ʻoe mai kāu hana.
E lawe i ka manawa i ka lā hana e launa pū me nā keiki. ʻOiai inā he pēpē kāu keiki, e hoʻopaʻa ke kahu mālama keiki i ke kelepona ma ko lākou pepeiao i hiki iā ia ke lohe i kou leo. E hoʻouna pū me kahi kiʻi paʻi ʻia i hiki i kāu keiki ke ʻike iā ʻoe i ko lākou manawa kaʻawale mai ʻoe. E hōʻoia e hoʻopaʻa i kahi hōʻoluʻolu mai ka home, e like me kā lākou pākeʻe punahele, uluna, a i ʻole nā mea pāʻani.
E hoʻohana maikaʻi i kou manawa ma ka home me nā keiki. Mai makaʻala i nā hōʻike TV, nā pāʻani, a i ʻole nā kamaʻilio kelepona lōʻihi. E hoʻolilo i ka maikaʻi me kāu mau keiki, e nānā iā lākou i ke ahiahi. E kali a hiamoe lākou a ma mua paha o ko lākou ala ʻana i ke kakahiaka e hana i nā mea e like me ka nānā ʻana i nā leka uila a i ʻole ka pāpaho pūnaewele. E noho no kou ʻohana.
E koho i ka pō o ka pule, a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi loa, hoʻokahi manawa i ka mahina kahi āu e ʻae ai i nā keiki e koho i kahi hana ʻohana. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pō ʻohana leʻaleʻa (a i ʻole ka lā hopena pule a i ʻole ka pō) e hāʻawi i nā keiki i kahi manawa e nānā ai i mua a ʻo kēia ka manawa koʻikoʻi i ke kōkua ʻana i ka hoʻopili ʻana a me ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina pili pono e loaʻa i kēlā me kēia ʻohana.
ʻOiai he mea koʻikoʻi ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka manawa me nā keiki, he mea nui ia e hānai i ka pilina me kāu wahine. E hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa me kāu kāne e like me kāu hana me ka pō ʻohana. E hoʻolālā i kahi pō pō, ʻoiai inā he pō pō ma hope o ka moe ʻana o nā keiki, e hoʻolilo i ka manawa e nānā wale ai ʻoe i kāu wahine.
Mai poina e hānai iā ʻoe iho. Pono ʻoe e ola kino e noho ma laila no kou ʻohana. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i manawa no ka hoʻomaha a me ka hoʻomaha. Hoʻoiho manuahi i ka mod apk mana o kick the buddy e lealea i kou manawa kaawale. ʻAi pono. E hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe iho i kekahi manawa i kahi manawa i waho, e hana i kēia i lā ma ka spa, a i ʻole e hana i kou mau kui. A i ʻole inā paʻa ke kālā a me ka manawa, e mālama iā ʻoe iho i kahi ʻauʻau wela lōʻihi a ʻauʻau paha. E ʻohi me kahi puke maikaʻi. E lokomaikaʻi wale ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i olakino a hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama i ka ʻohana.
Aloha mai! ʻO wau ʻo Kevin, ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu a me ka luna hoʻoponopono o More4Kids International, he kumuwaiwai piha no nā mākua ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa. ʻO kaʻu misionari e hoʻolako i nā mākua me nā mea hana a me nā ʻike e pono ai lākou e hānai i nā keiki ʻokoʻa.
Ma ke ʻano he makua kāne no ʻelua keiki kāne maikaʻi ʻole, ua ʻike wau i ka rollercoaster o ka makua, a ʻo kēia mau ʻike e hoʻoikaika i koʻu hoʻolaʻa ʻana i ka hana ʻana iā More4Kids i alakaʻi hilinaʻi no nā mākua. Hāʻawi kā mākou kahua i ka ʻike nui, mai nā hacks makua mālama manawa i nā hoʻolālā meaʻai meaʻai no nā ʻohana nui, a me nā hoʻolālā no ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana me nā ʻōpio.
Ma waho aʻe o kaʻu kuleana ʻoihana, he makua kūpaʻa wau e hoʻokūkū nei i ka manaʻo o ka noʻonoʻo nui i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki kūpaʻa a kūleʻa. Paʻa wau i ka hoʻoulu ʻana i kēia manaʻo i kaʻu mau keiki ponoʻī a makemake nui wau i ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā mākua ʻē aʻe e hana like.
E hui pū me aʻu i kēia huakaʻi maikaʻi ʻoiai mākou e ʻimi pū ai i ka paʻakikī o ka noho makua. Ma o More4Kids, ke hāpai nei mākou i ka hanauna hou o nā keiki kupaianaha a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i nā ʻohana, hoʻokahi ʻōlelo makua i ka manawa.
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