Inā nahu kāu keiki, hiki ke lilo ia i moeʻuhane makua, ʻoi loa inā nahu kāu keiki i kekahi keiki. ʻO ka manawa mua a kāu keiki e nahu ai i kekahi kanaka ua hopohopo paha ʻoe i hiki iā ia ke hana i kēlā mea! ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi ke hele nei kekahi mau keiki i kēia māhele a ʻo ka hapa nui o ka manawa he pilikia pōkole. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole, ʻo ka nahu ʻana he pilikia maʻamau i loaʻa i nā kula kula a me nā kula lā. Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i nā koho e hoʻopau i ka lehulehu a me nā hakahaka ma nā niho o kāu keiki, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo Invisalign ma Bondi Junction.
Akā ʻo ka mea mua, pono e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu e nahu ai nā kamaliʻi a me nā pēpē. He nui nā manawa e nahu ai lākou no ka mea makemake lākou e hoʻomaha i ke kaomi o ko lākou ʻāʻī i ka wā e niho ai. Manaʻo paha lākou he pāʻani leʻaleʻa ke pāʻani me ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne. Nahu pinepine nā kamaliʻi kula no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i aʻo i ke ʻano o ka mālama ʻana a i ʻole ke kū ʻana i ke kaumaha a i ʻole ka mākaukau waha e kamaʻilio i ka hewa iā lākou. He mea hoʻonāukiuki loa ka nahu ʻana i nā kānaka a pau a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻoponopono iā ia i ko lākou wā ʻōpiopio, hiki ke hoʻomau ʻia, ke ulu aʻe lākou. ʻO ia ka mea hope āu e makemake ai e hana. Aia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā hoʻopunipuni hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e kōkua i kāu keiki nahu e hoʻokō i ke kaumaha a me nā manaʻo ma kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe. Eia kekahi mau manaʻo e kōkua i ke kāpae ʻana i ka hana nahu o kāu keiki.
ʻO ka mea mua o ka ʻoihana, ʻo ia ka hele ʻana i ka minuke e nahu ai kāu keiki i kekahi. Pono ʻoe e haʻi iā lākou me ka leo ʻinoʻino, “Nahu kēlā! ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e nahu kanaka." E hōʻike ikaika i kou ʻae ʻole a wehe i ke keiki mai ke kūlana. ʻAʻohe mea i ʻōlelo ʻia e nā makuahine ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka nahu ʻana i kāu keiki i hope, a ʻoiaʻiʻo paha he mea pōʻino loa ia. E loaʻa ana iā lākou kahi leka huikau a manaʻo paha lākou he mea pono i ka makua ke nahu akā ʻaʻole ke keiki.
He mea nui e hoʻolālā i kahi hoʻolālā hana inā ua nahu kāu keiki a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻōki iā ia. Pono ʻoe e mākaukau e hana i ka hana ulia pōpilikia a noi i kahi hālāwai o nā mākua [tag-tec] mālama [/tag-tec]. Pono ka hui e komo i kā lākou kumu, kahu mālama lā, a kahu hānai paha. Pono ʻoe e ʻae i ka hopena o ka hana nahu. Pono ia e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea a pau a e hoʻokō mau ʻia. ʻO ka hopena, ʻo ia paha ka nalo ʻana o kahi pāʻani punahele, [tag-ice]time-out[/tag-ice], a i ʻole e hoʻouna ʻia lākou i ka home. ʻO kēlā me kēia hopena he hana ia e hahai ai nā kānaka a pau. Pono e hoʻokō pono ʻia. Pono ka hopena e kūpono i ka makahiki o ka biter.
ʻO ka hana hou aʻe i ka hoʻōki ʻana i ka hana nahu ʻana, ʻo ia ka hana ʻana i ke aloha ma o ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻana i ka mea nahu. Ua ʻike mua nā keiki i ka ʻeha o ka nahu ʻana, no laila, ma hope o ka wehe ʻana i ka mea ʻawaʻawa mai ke kūlana, e kau i kou manaʻo āpau i ka mea i pepehi ʻia. ʻO ka hana ʻana i kēia ʻaʻole e hōʻike wale i kāu keiki i kāna hana i hōʻeha ai akā e hōʻike pū iā ia pehea e hāʻawi ai i ke aloha. E noi i kāu keiki e ʻimi i kahi ala e kala ai i kāna nahu. E hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi band-aid a i ʻole Kleenex, e kiʻi iā lākou i ke kiʻi i mea e kala aku ai i ka mea i pepehi ʻia. Ma ke ʻano he makua, pono ʻoe e kala koke i nā mākua ʻē aʻe ma ke kino a ma ke kelepona paha. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mākua o ka mea i pepehi ʻia e lohe i ka moʻolelo mai ʻoe ma mua o kahi ʻaoʻao ʻekolu, a ua hoʻāʻo ʻoe e kōkua i kā lākou keiki.
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