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Ka makua a me ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hauʻoli me ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana iā lākou i ka honua

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Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i koʻu wā kamaliʻi e ulu ana me ka ʻole o nā mea hoʻonani i hāʻawi ʻia e ka hapa nui o nā keiki i kēia lā. ʻO ka mea nui, ua hauʻoli wau no ia mea. Inā ʻoe e nānā i nā ʻōpio kaulana a pau, ka hapa nui o lākou i mahalo ʻia e ka poʻe ʻōpio, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka ʻike ʻana o kēia mau keiki i ka liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻohe ola home; akā hāʻawi ʻia nā mea a pau a lākou i makemake ai. Hiki paha i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hauʻoli me ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana iā lākou i ka honua i kēia lā? ʻO ka pane he ʻae kūpono ʻole.

Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i koʻu wā kamaliʻi e ulu ana me ka ʻole o nā mea hoʻonani i hāʻawi ʻia e ka hapa nui o nā keiki i kēia lā. ʻO ka mea nui, ua hauʻoli wau no ia mea. Inā ʻoe e nānā i nā ʻōpio kaulana a pau, ka hapa nui o lākou i mahalo ʻia e ka poʻe ʻōpio, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka ʻike ʻana o kēia mau keiki i ka liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻohe ola home; akā hāʻawi ʻia nā mea a pau a lākou i makemake ai. Hiki paha i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hauʻoli me ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana iā lākou i ka honua i kēia lā? ʻO ka pane he ʻae kūpono ʻole.

E kipa i kekahi kula i kēia mau lā a e loaʻa iā ʻoe nā keiki me nā kelepona paʻakikī; nā kāmaʻa a me nā lole hou loa; a me nā mea uila kaulana loa ma ka mākeke i kēia lā. He aha kēia e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kā mākou mau keiki? He aha ka mea e pani ʻia ma kahi o kēia mau mea pipiʻi?

Hāʻawi ʻia nā kumu hoʻohālike o kā mākou mau keiki i nā poʻe kaulana i hoʻopiha pinepine ʻia ko lākou ola i nā lāʻau lapaʻau, nā pāʻina pō a pau, ka hopu ʻana, a me ke kipa ʻana i nā keʻena hoʻoponopono. Inā heluhelu ʻoe e pili ana i kekahi o kēia poʻe, ʻo ka mea maʻamau ka mea i hānai ʻia. Manaʻo paha lākou he hauʻoli lākou, akā ʻokoʻa ka hōʻike. ʻAʻole nā ​​​​kālā a me nā waiwai waiwai. Ma ko mākou mau mākua, ʻo ia kekahi o kā mākou mau pilikia makua.

ʻO ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hauʻoli ka mea e hopohopo nui ai ka hapa nui o nā mākua. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole noʻonoʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i ka honua. ʻO ka hōʻino ʻana i nā keiki e hoʻohana ana i kēia ʻano hana he mea pōʻino ia i ke kōkua ʻana iā lākou e hoʻokō i kā lākou mau pahuhopu. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke keiki i nā mea a pau a lākou e makemake ai, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻonele ai iā lākou mai ka ʻike ʻana i nā piʻi a me lalo o ke ola; a pale iā lākou mai ka hana ikaika e ʻike i kā lākou niche i ke ola.

Aia kekahi ʻōlelo kahiko, "inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoka." Ina e loaa i na keiki a pau ka mea a lakou e noi mai ai; a laila, he aha nā haʻawina e hiki ke aʻo ʻia i ka hoka? ʻAʻole lākou e māʻona i nā leʻaleʻa maʻalahi o ke ola; akā, e hoʻomau i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mea hiki ke paʻakikī.

Hoʻomaka ia me ka ʻohana; ka waiwai, ka pono, a me ke aloha pau ole i loko o ka home. I ka wā e mālama ʻia ai kēia mau loina, ʻo ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hauʻoli me ka ʻole o ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i ke ao nei e noho mālie.

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