Parenting Nā ʻōpio

Ka makua, nā hana a me nā keiki

ʻAʻole hiki i ke kakahiaka nui ke noi aku i kāu mau keiki e kōkua iā ʻoe i nā hana a puni ka hale. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka ma mua o ʻelua mau makahiki. ʻOiai ke oʻo nei nā keiki i nā uku like ʻole, hiki nō iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka makahiki kūpono i nā hana i kūpono i nā kamaliʻi, nā keiki, nā ʻōpio a me nā ʻōpio.

Kōkua i nā lima liʻiliʻi - ke keiki ʻōpiopio e kōkua ana i ka ʻōhi hauʻAʻole hiki i ke kakahiaka nui ke noi aku i kāu mau keiki e kōkua iā ʻoe i nā hana a puni ka hale. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka ma mua o ʻelua mau makahiki. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki liʻiliʻi. ʻOiai ke oʻo nei nā keiki i nā uku like ʻole, hiki nō iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka makahiki kūpono i nā hana i kūpono i nā kamaliʻi, nā keiki, nā ʻōpio a me nā ʻōpio.    

Inā he [tag-cat]keiki [/tag-cat] kāu ma ka home, hiki iā lākou ke kōkua iā ʻoe ma ka: hana ʻana i kahi moe; e kiʻi ana i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani; hānai ʻana i ka holoholona ʻohana; kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokomo i ka holoi lole i loko o ka hīnaʻi; a i ʻole ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka waiū maʻemaʻe ma ka papahele kīhini. Ua kūpono kēia mau hana i nā keiki ʻelua a ʻekolu makahiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu mau kamaliʻi e hana i kā lākou mau hana ma ka hana ʻana i kahi pāʻani mai ia mea; a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i nā ala like ʻole e hiki ai iā lākou ke kōkua. Hāʻawi ia iā lākou i ka haʻaheo a me ka hoʻokō. ʻAe, i kēlā wā ʻōpiopio.

No nā keiki ʻehā a me ʻelima makahiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke noi iā lākou e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i ka papaʻaina; lepo a puni ka hale; kōkua i ka hana ʻana i nā kuki; kōkua iā ʻoe e lawe i nā ʻeke kūʻai (inā lōʻihi ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā lākou). Hiki i nā keiki ʻeono a me ʻewalu makahiki ke komo i nā hana ma ka mālama ʻana i ka pipi a lākou i makemake mau ai; kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka papahele; e lawe i ka ʻōpala a i ʻole e pelu i ka holoi lole.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke noi iā lākou e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau i nā meaʻai. E noʻonoʻo i ka ʻike i loaʻa iā lākou i kēia wā ʻōpiopio.

E ʻoki ʻia kāu mau keiki mua i kā lākou hana. Hiki ke hoʻokuʻu ʻia kekahi o nā hana [tag-tec] ikaika loa [/tag-tec] i ka hana ma waho: ʻohi i nā lau; holoi i ke kaʻa; kōkua e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale kaʻa.
Inā makemake ʻoe i ke kōkua i loko o ka hale, hiki iā lākou ke kōkua iā ʻoe i ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana i nā meaʻai, ka lepo a me ka holoi ʻana i ka hale; holoi kīʻaha a hoʻomaʻemaʻe paha i ka lumi lumi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua lawa lākou e hana i ko lākou mau moena; e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ko lākou lumi i nā ʻōpala; hoʻonohonoho i kā lākou [tag-ice] mea pāʻani [/tag-ice], etc.

He pilikia ʻē aʻe nā ʻōpio. I kekahi manawa makemake lākou e kōkua, a i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole. Ma muli o kou hānai ʻana iā lākou. Inā kōkua lākou mai ko lāua wā ʻelua, ʻaʻohe pilikia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā lākou ke hana i nā mea āpau āu e noi ai iā lākou. E hōʻoia e hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokele i nā hana āu e hāʻawi ai, akā naʻe. Inā ua aʻo maikaʻi ʻoe iā lākou, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomākaukau i nā meaʻai; hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka lumi kuke; holoi i nā puka makani; Holoi lole; e pili ana i nā hana i loko a me waho āu e pono ai, pōkole o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka nānā pono, ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake iā lākou e like me ka pēpē, ʻaʻole anei?

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