Ke hiki ke keiki i ke kahua kamaliʻi, hoʻomaka ʻo ia e lilo i 'kanaka liʻiliʻi' me kona ʻano ponoʻī. Ke ulu nei lākou i kēia pae, hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻoikaika i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa. He pae maʻamau kēia o ka ulu ʻana, akā i kekahi manawa hiki ke hoʻolilo i ka makua i mea paʻakikī maoli. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomākaukau ʻia nā mākua mua no kahi kamaliʻi e holo a uē ana e holo wikiwiki i loko o kahi hale kūʻai. A, ʻaʻohe makua i mākaukau no ka manawa mua e ʻako ai ke keiki liʻiliʻi i kāna laka ʻaʻai a i ʻole ka ʻīlio ʻohana. ʻAe, he ʻike hoʻāʻo ka mālama ʻana i nā kamaliʻi no nā mākua haku mele.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe mea leʻaleʻa e like me ka mālama ʻana i nā kamaliʻi, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻike maoli nā mākua i ka mea e manaʻo ai. ʻO ka manawa mua e wehewehe ai ke kamaliʻi ʻo ke kumu o kona kau ʻana i ka ʻāpala ma kona lauoho no ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i kāna pā; e nahu maoli ana ka makuahine o ke keiki i kona lehelehe e pale aku i ka akaaka. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi makua ke pale i ka ʻakaʻaka i kekahi manawa ke hana kā lākou keiki i kahi mea a lākou i manaʻo ʻole ai.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, paʻakikī pū kekahi [tag-cat] makua [/tag-cat] kamaliʻi! Ua lilo ʻo Terrible twos i wehewehe kaulana no kekahi kumu. Hoʻolilo nā kamaliʻi i ka hana makua ʻana he hana koʻikoʻi loa ia no ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi e haʻalele i kahi keiki ʻelua makahiki wale nō no nā minuke ʻoi aku i ka manawa. ʻO [tag-tec] ʻaʻohe huhū [/tag-tec] hiki ke hoʻoweliweli i nā mākua i ʻike ʻole i ka hauʻoli o ka mālama ʻana i nā kamaliʻi; akā naʻe no ka poʻe me ka ʻike, hiki i ka tantrums ke ʻakaʻaka loa. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa o ka poʻe i mālama ʻole i nā keiki [tag-ice] keiki [/tag-ice] ma mua o nā mākua maoli.
Kekahi o na mea a lakou e olelo nei
Pono nā kamaliʻi i ka mālama ʻana i nā mākua ma ka wā kamaliʻi. E noʻonoʻo i ke keiki liʻiliʻi ka uku no kēlā mau pō hiamoe ʻole a me nā loli diaper pau ʻole. A, e noʻonoʻo i ka wikiwiki o ka hala ʻana o kēia pae. Ke aʻo nei nā kamaliʻi e kamaʻilio me ka honua a puni lākou, a ʻo ka hapa nui o ka manawa e aʻo ai lākou ma o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa. No ia kumu, nui nā mākua i ʻike ʻo ia kekahi o nā manawa leʻaleʻa i ke ola o kahi keiki ʻōpio.
E koho kekahi mau kamaliʻi i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā ʻōlelo a lākou e hoʻohana mau ai, e like me kahi pāʻani punahele. E ho'āʻo lākou iā lākou i nā manawa a lākou e manaʻo ai. ʻO kēia ka hopena pinepine i nā kamaliʻi e hāʻawi i nā monologues ʻakaʻaka loa i ko lākou mau mākua. ʻO kahi laʻana maikaʻi ʻo ia ke keiki liʻiliʻi i aʻo i ka huaʻōlelo 'no ka mea', a koi ʻo ia e hoʻomaka i kēlā me kēia ʻōlelo me ka huaʻōlelo. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, e lōʻihi ka manawa no ka ʻike ʻana o ke keiki ʻaʻole ʻōlelo like ke koena o ka honua. ʻOiai e leʻaleʻa ana ke keiki liʻiliʻi i kā lākou mau huaʻōlelo hou, hiki i nā mākua ke hauʻoli i nā hopena ʻakaʻaka.
ʻAe, hiki ke paʻakikī ka mālama ʻana i nā kamaliʻi, akā hoʻomālamalama lākou i ko mākou ola ma nā ʻano he nui, ʻo ia ke kumu aloha mākou iā lākou a ʻaʻole e haʻalele i ka ʻike no nā mea ʻē aʻe o ka honua.
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