No nā mākua he nui, ʻo kā lākou ʻōpio he puke paʻa, me kahi padlock, a me nā lāʻau ʻawaʻawa, a he ʻīlio nui paha i mua o ia. I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke wehe a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou ola. Akā ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu ʻōpio a me ka ʻike e pili ana i ko lākou ola kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e pale aku ai iā lākou mai ka pōʻino. ʻAʻole ʻo ka mākaʻikaʻi a me ka ʻimi ʻana i ke ala maikaʻi loa e loaʻa ai kēlā ʻike, e hoʻonāukiuki wale ia i nā mea inā ʻike kāu ʻōpio. ʻO ka kamaʻilio ʻana ma kēia pae o ke ola o kāu keiki he mea paʻakikī paha ia no nā mākua.
Eia kekahi mau manaʻo a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hiki ke kōkua i kāu ʻōpio e wehe:
Inā he makua ʻoe no kahi keiki ʻōpio ʻo ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai. E hoʻomaka i ka ʻōpio. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mālama ʻana i kahi pilina me kāu keiki ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i ka wā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ʻoe ma mua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā lākou e hoʻāʻo nei e huki i ka wā i loaʻa ai i kekahi mau makahiki; e malama wale. E kamaʻilio, [tag-tec] e kamaʻilio [/tag-tec] a e kamaʻilio, e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo a e hoihoi maoli i ka ʻōlelo a kāu keiki. E kau i nā kumu no ka pilina hilinaʻi a aloha i ka wā ʻōpio.
E huli i ke kumu like. E ʻimi i nā mea āu e makemake ai a me kāu ʻōpio. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kahi mea like o ʻolua. Ma ia ala, hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kāu keiki e pili ana i kahi album hou a kahi hui ma mua o ka mea kahiko "pehea ke kula?"
E wehe i kā lākou ʻōlelo. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu [tag-cat] mau ʻōpio[/tag-cat] e kamaʻilio ana, mai kāhāhā inā ʻōlelo lākou i kekahi mau mea āu e makemake ʻole ai. E wehe wale i ka mea a lākou e haʻi nei iā ʻoe ma mua o ka hoʻokolokolo ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā lākou ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae i kekahi mea me ka hoʻouka ʻole ʻana iā lākou. Inā ʻoluʻolu lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea koʻikoʻi, e hele mai lākou iā ʻoe inā pilikia lākou.
E hoʻonui i ka hui. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi hou he nui ka poʻe ʻōpio ʻaʻole i lawa ka manawa me ko lākou mau mākua ʻo ia kekahi o kā lākou hopohopo nui. Manaʻo ka poʻe ʻōpio ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio me ko lākou mau mākua no ka mea e hana mau ana lākou i ka hana a i ʻole hana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Hoʻopoina pinepine mākou i ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa mai ko mākou ola paʻakikī e hoʻolohe pono i kā mākou mau keiki. ʻO kekahi mau manaʻo no ka hoʻolilo manawa hou me kāu [tag-ice] ʻōpio[/tag-ice]:
- E hoʻonohonoho i kahi manawa kūikawā i kēlā me kēia pule e hoʻolimalima manawa me kāu ʻōpio
- E ʻai i ka ʻaina ahiahi me ka ʻohana a pau e like me ka hiki
- E hana a hana i ka haʻuki me kāu mau keiki
- E hoʻokele i kāu ʻōpio i ke kula ma mua o ka hoʻouna ʻana iā lākou ma ke kaʻa
ʻOiai makemake paha kāu ʻōpio e kamaʻilio me ʻoe i ka wā mua, e hoʻomau i ka hoʻāʻo. Lana ka manaʻolana, e uhaʻi ʻoe iā lākou a e kakali lākou e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe a e hoʻolimalima manawa pū.
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