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PAL – Laina Kokua Mākua – He Punawai Mākua maikaʻi

I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka lilo ʻana i makua, inā he makuahine a makua paha ʻoe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhea iā wai no ke kōkua? PAL - Ka Laina Kokua Mākua.

koʻikoʻi ko mama I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka lilo ʻana i makua, inā he makuahine a makua paha ʻoe. Aia nā pilikia i kēlā me kēia lā, a i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i kahi e huli ai. I kekahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ʻoe inā he hana kūpono ʻoe a i ʻole he makua maikaʻi ʻoe. Ke hele nei kēlā me kēia makua i kēlā. He mea maʻamau loa. Manaʻo paha ʻoe inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopuka wale i kou huhū, loaʻa i kekahi e kamaʻilio me, a loaʻa i kahi ʻōlelo aʻo, e maʻalahi ka hana makua. I kēia lā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kēlā kōkua ma o kahi kumuwaiwai makua hou, i kapa ʻia ʻo ka Parenting Assistance Line, a i ʻole PAL. Eia ka nānā pono ʻana i kēia kumuwaiwai maikaʻi loa no nā mākua a pehea e hiki ai ke kōkua iā ʻoe.

He aha ka PAL?

ʻO ka mea mua, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe he aha ka PAL. ʻAe, he laina kōkua makua ia i kūkulu ʻia ma ke ʻano he hui pū ʻana ma waena o ka Alabama Children's Trust Fund a me ke Kulanui o Alabama Child Development Resources. Ua kōkua ka Wahine Mua o Alabama, ʻo Patsy Riley i ka hana ʻana i kēia kumuwaiwai kūikawā no nā mākua. Aia kekahi helu ʻuʻuku kūikawā hiki ke kāhea ʻia e nā mākua, a ke kāhea ʻoe, e pane ke kelepona kahi loea i nā kumuwaiwai makua. E hoʻolohe lākou i kāu mau pilikia a i ʻole pilikia a hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kākoʻo a me ka ʻike. Ke kelepona ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i nā palapala manuahi e pili ana i nā pilikia kikoʻī āu e hana nei ma ke ʻano he makua.

ʻO wai hiki ke hoʻohana i ka PAL?

No laila, ʻo wai ka mea hiki ke hoʻohana i kēia laina kōkua makua? Hoʻolālā ʻia kēia laina no nā mākua - ʻo kēlā me kēia makua e pono i ke kākoʻo a i ʻole ka ʻike e pili ana i ka lilo ʻana i makua hilinaʻi a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻAʻole hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻohana i kēia laina, akā hiki i nā kūpuna a me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe ke hoʻohana i ka laina e loaʻa ai ka ʻike kōkua i nā keiki i ko lākou ola. Hiki i nā loea ma ka laina ke kōkua i ka ʻike a me ke kākoʻo e pili ana i nā keiki mai ka hānau ʻana a hiki i ka wā ʻōpio.

No ke aha e hoʻohana ai i ka PAL?

No ke aha ʻoe e hoʻohana ai i kēia laina kōkua makua? He maʻalahi ka pane.

He hana paʻakikī ko nā mākua. Aia kekahi mau lā e manaʻo ai ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomau. I kekahi manawa, manaʻo paha ʻoe e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea e kamaʻilio ai e maopopo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, manaʻo paha ʻoe he makua ʻino ʻoe. I kēia mau manawa pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio e hoʻolohe a kōkua e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe he makua maikaʻi ʻoe. I kekahi mau hihia, inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio, uē, a i ʻole kekahi e nīnau i nā nīnau, hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi nui.

E ʻike nō ʻoe he nui ka ʻike o ka PAL e pili ana i nā ʻano pilikia makua. Ua pane lākou ma mua o 8000 mau kelepona, a ua aʻo ʻia lākou i nā ʻano kumuhana āpau. ʻO kekahi o nā pilikia i hiki iā lākou ke kōkua iā ʻoe me ka hemo ʻana, ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa potty, ke kaumaha, ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, kou manaʻo ponoʻī, a me nā mea hou aku. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pilikia i ʻoi aku ka koʻikoʻi, hiki i ka poʻe kelepona ke kuhikuhi iā ʻoe i kahi loea a lawelawe paha e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kōkua āu e pono ai. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻaʻole manuahi kēia kumuwaiwai a ke kāhea ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike he mea huna nā mea a pau āu e ʻōlelo ai.

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ʻO ka helu kelepona e kelepona aku ai i ka laina kōkua makua ʻo 1-866-962-3030. Ke kelepona ʻoe, e pane ʻia kāu kelepona e kekahi loea kumu waiwai makua i aʻo ʻia e hana me kāu nā nīnau makua a me nā pilikia. Aia kekahi mau manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona. Wehe ka laina mai ka hola 8 a hiki i ka hola 8 i kēlā me kēia Pōʻakahi a hiki i ka Pōʻalima, ʻoiai hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona a waiho i kahi leka i kēlā me kēia manawa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kipa i ka Paena pūnaewele PAL e ʻike hou aku i nā mea a lākou e hāʻawi ai.

Hāʻawi pū lākou ma ka pūnaewele i kahi ʻaoʻao pili kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke waiho i nā nīnau a koho inā makemake ʻoe e pane ʻia ma ka leka uila, kelepona, a i ʻole leka uila.

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