He hana koʻikoʻi ka makua, akā ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī inā he mau māhoe makua ʻoe. He mea maʻamau ka hānau ʻana o nā māhoe i nā wahine i kēia mau lā, me hoʻokahi o kēlā me kēia 60 hānau ʻana he mau māhoe. ʻO ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā māhoe a i ʻole nā mea nui ʻē aʻe e lawe pū me ia i nā luʻi kūikawā a me nā hauʻoli kūikawā. Ua nui a ua nui māhoe kaulana ma ka olelo. He wahi kū hoʻokahi ko nā māhoe i ka papa hānau, a hōʻike pinepine nā māhoe i nā ʻano like ʻole, ma muli o ko lākou wahi i loko o ka ʻohana. No ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe me kēia paʻakikī, eia ka nānā ʻana i kekahi o nā ʻano maʻamau o nā māhoe a me kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua maikaʻi e kōkua iā ʻoe ma ke ala.
Nā ʻano o nā māhoe
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I kekahi manawa he mea paʻakikī ke kapa inoa i nā ʻano e hōʻike ʻia e nā māhoe. No ka mea he mau minuke wale nō ma waena o ka hānau ʻana o nā māhoe a i ʻole nā huahelu ʻē aʻe, pinepine ka māhoe i hānau mua ʻaʻole hōʻike i nā ʻano o kahi keiki hānau mua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki ke ʻokoʻa ka hānau ʻana ma muli o ka hānau ʻana a hoʻololi nā pēpē i nā kūlana i ka wā hāpai. ʻO ka maʻamau, ulu ka ʻano o nā māhoe ma muli o ko lākou wahi i loko o kahi ʻohana. No ka laʻana, inā ʻo nā māhoe ka mea mua loa o ka ʻohana, maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona hānau mua. Inā ʻo lākou ka muli loa, hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike i nā hiʻohiʻona hānau muli loa, a inā lākou i waena, hōʻike pinepine lākou i nā ʻano o ke keiki waena. Aia kekahi mau hihia e lawe ai kekahi māhoe i ke kuleana o ke keiki hānau mua a ʻo kekahi māhoe ma hope. Eia nō naʻe, hōʻike nā haʻawina i ke ola o nā māhoe, hiki ke hoʻololi i nā ʻano a hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia ka mana. Ma muli o ka loli ʻana o nā ʻano o nā māhoe a paʻakikī loa lākou e wehewehe, hiki i kēia ke paʻakikī i nā mākua ke ʻike pehea e hānai pono ai i kā lākou mau māhoe i ke kanaka makua.
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua māhoe maikaʻi
Nui nā ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hoʻokahi a me ka hānai ʻana i nā māhoe. ʻOiai he paʻakikī nui ka hānai ʻana i nā māhoe a me nā mea he nui, hiki iā ʻoe ke hānai i nā keiki kūleʻa. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua māhoe maikaʻi e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe ma o nā kūlana kūʻokoʻa e kū nei i nā mākua o nā māhoe
Manaʻo kōkua #1 E ʻike pono e mālama ʻia nā māhoe ma kahi ʻokoʻa
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mua e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i ka wā e hānai ai i nā māhoe a i ʻole nā mea he nui, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana he pono e hānai ʻia nā mākua. He ʻokoʻa ka ʻike no ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa. E ʻike ʻoe aia ʻelua mau keiki pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho a ʻo nā māhoe he mau paʻa paʻa kekahi me kekahi a ʻaʻole like ka paʻa o ka pilina me ko lākou mau mākua. Ma ke ʻano he makua o nā māhoe, e luhi ʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa, a aia kekahi mau manawa ke kū ʻole ʻoe. E hoʻomaopopo he ʻokoʻa loa ka ʻike ʻana o ka hānai makua ma mua o ka mālama ʻana i kahi keiki hoʻokahi. ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe mai nā manaʻo i manaʻo mua ʻia iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he makua.
Manaʻo kōkua #2 E mālama i kāu mau māhoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka
Malia paha kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo koʻikoʻi āu e hoʻomanaʻo ai ʻo ka mālama ʻana i kāu mau māhoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka. He mea nui e hiki i kāu mau māhoe ke hoʻomohala i ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī. ʻO ia ke ʻano he pono ʻoe e mālama iā lākou i kēlā me kēia ma ke ʻano he kanaka. Ma kahi o ka ʻōlelo ʻana iā lākou he "māhoe", e ʻike pono ʻoe e kuhikuhi iā lākou ma ke ʻano he kanaka. Eia kekahi, e paipai i kou ʻohana a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e launa pū me kāu mau keiki e mālama pono iā lākou. E kāhea i kāu mau māhoe ma ko lākou inoa. E ʻae iā lākou e ʻaʻahu ʻokoʻa. E kiʻi iā lākou i kā lākou mau makana no ko lākou lā hānau. E ʻae wale iā lākou e lilo iā lākou iho ma mua o ka koi ʻana iā lākou e nānā ʻia e like me "nā māhoe".
Manaʻo kōkua #3 Loaʻa i hoʻokahi manawa me kēlā me kēia keiki
No ka mālama pono ʻana i kāu mau māhoe, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa hoʻokahi me kēlā me kēia keiki i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o nā māhoe e launa pū me ka makua hoʻokahi a hoʻokahi. E hana i nā manawa e hiki ai i kēlā me kēia keiki ke loaʻa ka manawa hoʻokahi me kēlā me kēia makua. Kōkua kēia i ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou i ke kūʻokoʻa mai kā lāua māhoe, e paipai ana iā lākou e kūkulu i nā pilina ʻē aʻe, a e kōkua pū iā lākou e hoʻomohala i nā mākau ʻōlelo a me nā mākau pilikanaka maikaʻi aʻe. I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole ikaika ka pilina ma waena o nā mākua a me kā lāua mau māhoe e like me nā keiki hānau hoʻokahi. Hiki ke hoʻololi i kēia me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka manawa no kēlā me kēia keiki a kōkua i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kāu pilina me nā keiki ʻelua.
Manaʻo kōkua #4 Mai hoʻohālikelike i kāu mau māhoe
Mai hoʻohālikelike i kāu mau māhoe! He mea maʻalahi loa ka hoʻomaka ʻana e hoʻohālikelike i kāu mau māhoe, e hoʻonohonoho i nā manaʻolana i hiki ke paʻakikī i ka māhoe ʻē aʻe e ola ai. Hiki ke hoʻomaka kēia i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi. He mea maʻalahi ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea i ʻoi aku ka uē, ʻo ka mea hiamoe nui a i ʻole ka mea hele mua. Mai ʻae iā ʻoe iho e hoʻomaka i kēia mau hoʻohālikelike. E ʻae i kāu mau māhoe e hoʻokahi a mai hoʻohālikelike iā lākou i kekahi. Ma kēia ʻano e pale aku ai ʻoe i ka manaʻo ʻana o kekahi māhoe ʻaʻole pono lākou e like me ko lāua kaikaina.
Manaʻo kōkua #5 Mai haʻalele i kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe
Inā he mau keiki ʻē aʻe kāu, he mea nui ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe. No nā keiki he mau kaikunāne o nā māhoe, i kekahi manawa he mea paʻakikī iā lākou ke ʻike ʻia me nā hana a me nā hana a pau e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i nā māhoe a i ʻole nā mea he nui. Hiki i nā māhoe ke hana i kahi kaikuaʻana ua haʻalele lākou. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ka manaʻo nui mai nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana e hele pū kekahi i nā māhoe, kahi e hiki ai i nā keiki ʻē aʻe ke manaʻo ua haʻalele ʻia. E hōʻoia ʻoe e hoʻolaha i kou manawa i kāu mau keiki a pau. E pōmaikaʻi kēia i kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe a me kāu mau māhoe pū kekahi.
ʻO ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki hauʻoli a olakino e pili ana i ke aʻo maikaʻi a me ke aloha nui a ʻaʻohe mea ʻokoʻa i ka hānai ʻana i nā māhoe. ʻOiai hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho i ka luhi, luhi, a hoʻāʻo ʻia, hiki i ka hānai ʻana i nā māhoe he mea hoihoi. Me kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kōkua, hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu mau keiki e ulu aʻe a lilo i poʻe mākua kūʻokoʻa.
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