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Me he mea lā ke noi nui nei nā keiki o kou hale i ka wā e kokoke mai ana nā lā i ka Kalikimaka? I kēlā me kēia makahiki e ulu aʻe lākou, e lōʻihi a ʻoi aku ke kumukūʻai o nā papa inoa? ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻāpana o ka hauʻoli o ka wā hoʻomaha ke kali nei i nā makana Kalikimaka, me he mea lā aia ka nānā ʻana i nā makana iā lākou iho inā inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i hope, ʻo ia ka manaʻo o ka wehe ʻana iā lākou. E hoʻomanaʻo i kēia manawa inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻonoho i nā palena a loaʻa i nā ala ʻē aʻe e hoʻopiha ai i ka wā hoʻomaha i ka hauʻoli e hoʻonoho wale i kāu mau keiki no ka hōʻeha. Akā he aha kāu e hana ai?

 Na Michelle Donaghey 

Makemake au i ka lolouila, ke kelepona hele, ka pepeke, ka Nintendo Wii (TM logo), nā pāʻani wikiō, ka pōpeku, a i kēia manawa e hoʻopiha ʻoe i ka hakahaka.
Me he mea lā ke noi nui nei nā keiki o kou hale i ka wā e kokoke mai ana nā lā i ka Kalikimaka? I kēlā me kēia makahiki e ulu aʻe lākou, e lōʻihi a ʻoi aku ke kumukūʻai o nā papa inoa?
ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻāpana o ka hauʻoli o ka wā hoʻomaha ke kali nei i nā makana Kalikimaka, me he mea lā aia ka nānā ʻana i nā makana iā lākou iho inā inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i hope, ʻo ia ka manaʻo o ka wehe ʻana iā lākou. E hoʻomanaʻo i kēia manawa inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻonoho i nā palena a loaʻa i nā ala ʻē aʻe e hoʻopiha ai i ka wā hoʻomaha i ka hauʻoli e hoʻonoho wale i kāu mau keiki no ka hōʻeha. Akā he aha kāu e hana ai?

1) E hoʻonohonoho i kahi kālā a hoʻopaʻa pū me ia. E ke keikikāne, paʻakikī kēia. Akā inā ʻoe e hoʻonoho i kahi kālā i kēia manawa, e hoʻomaopopo kāu [tag-self] keiki [/tag-self] i ke ʻano o kā lākou poʻe mākua e hoʻolilo kālā no nā lā hoʻomaha a me ke koena o ka makahiki. Inā ʻōpiopio loa kāu mau keiki no ka ʻike e pili ana i ke kālā a me ka nui o ke kālā, wehewehe ʻo [tag-tec]Santa[/tag-tec] (a i ʻole mama a me papa a kupuna wahine paha) ke lawe mai iā lākou i hoʻokahi makana nui (a i ʻole nā ​​mea a kāu kālā e hiki ai. ) Inā ʻoi aku ka nui o ke keiki, e like me ka wā ʻōpio, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e wehewehe i ka nui o nā hola e lilo ai ʻoe i makua no ke kūʻai ʻana i kahi makana. ʻO kekahi poʻe ʻōpio makemake i nā kelepona paʻa ke makemake e mālama hānai a hana i nā hana ʻē aʻe i loaʻa iā lākou ke kelepona. E aʻo i kāu mau keiki e pili ana i ke kālā a hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi alana inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa. Ma ia ala, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o ka pono a i ʻole ka makemake.

2) Mai ʻae i nā mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻokō i kēlā me kēia noi a kāu mau keiki! ʻOiai he mea hoʻowalewale paha ke kūʻai ʻana i ke kupuna kāne a me ke kupuna kāne a i ʻole he ʻanakē a ʻanakala paha i kāu keiki i kāna makemake. E manaʻo e kaupalena ʻia nā mea a lākou e hāʻawi ai. Inā makemake lākou i ka hao wale ʻana i kāu keiki, e ʻōlelo iā ia e kūʻai i makana iā lākou i ka makahiki a i ʻole ka lā hānau.

3) Nā papa inoa- e kākau iā lākou! Inā liʻiliʻi loa kāu keiki, e kiʻi iā ia a haʻi iā ʻoe i ke ʻano o nā kiʻi. Hāʻawi iā lākou i ʻekolu mau mea wale nō ma kā lākou papa inoa - e hoʻomanaʻo, ua loaʻa iā Iesu nā makana ʻekolu mai nā Wisemen! Mai ʻae iā lākou e hoʻololi i kā lākou papa inoa i ka wā e kākau ai lākou i lalo- pinepine, hoʻololi nā keiki i ko lākou manaʻo i kēlā me kēia pule inā ʻaʻole i kēlā me kēia lā e kali ana i nā lā hoʻomaha!

4) E hoʻomaʻemaʻe! E komo i loko o kēlā mau keʻena keʻena a me nā pahu mea pāʻani. E kiʻi i pahu NUI no nā haʻawina a me ka ʻeke ʻōpala no nā ʻōpala. MAI hāʻawi i nā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi a me nā ʻāpana - ʻaʻole e mahalo ka poʻe āu e hāʻawi ai i ia mau mea! E ʻimi i nā mea pāʻani a me nā pāʻani ʻaʻole makemake hou kāu mau keiki. E wehewehe iā lākou inā makemake lākou i nā mea pāʻani hou, pono lākou e kāpae i kekahi o kā lākou mau mea kahiko. Inā hiki, e lawe i kāu mau keiki me ʻoe ke hāʻawi ʻoe iā lākou i ke aloha.

5) Hoʻonohonoho i nā hana ʻē aʻe ma mua o ke kūʻai ʻana! Inā ʻoe e lawe i kāu mau keiki e kūʻai aku i ka wā hoʻomaha, ʻo ia wale nō ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai he Kalikimaka. Pono ʻoe e hōʻike iā lākou ma ka laʻana e hoʻolilo i ka TIME me lākou! E lawe i kāu mau keiki i ka hau hau, ka sledding, i kahi hoʻokani mele Kalikimaka a i ʻole ballet, ma ka hele wāwae a i ʻole ka huakaʻi e nānā i nā kukui Kalikimaka a i ʻole ka hana hou ʻana o ka Po Hemolele. E nānā i nā nūpepa kūloko a i ʻole ka pūnaewele no ka ʻike e pili ana i ia hanana.

6) E hāʻawi manawaleʻa e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Inā nui kāu mau keiki, e kōkua kēia iā lākou e ʻike aia ka poʻe nele. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kaupalena iā ʻoe iho i ka lawe ʻana iā lākou i ke kikowaena home ʻole a i ʻole ka lumi kuke sopa. Nui nā poʻe ma kou kaiāulu e mahalo i ka kipa ʻana mai iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki me ka poʻe e noho ana ma nā hale hānai a i ʻole nā ​​hoalauna ʻaʻohe ʻohana kokoke.

7) E hoʻopau i ka TV ke hiki! Hiki ke kōkua i hoʻokahi iota inā pahū mau kāu mau keiki i ka hoʻolaha. Ma kahi o ka TV, e noho kāu mau keiki i lalo a kaha kiʻi [tag-ice]hoʻomaha [/tg-ice] no nā ʻohana a i ʻole e kōkua iā ʻoe e hana i nā kuki maʻalahi- maikaʻi loa ka ʻoki ʻana a me ka kuke ʻana i nā mea i hana mua ʻia- kūʻai wale i kahi pahu hau. , kāpīpī a loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea maikaʻi i hana ʻia i ka home e mākaukau e hāʻawi.

Kawaihae
He mea kākau kūʻokoʻa ʻo Michelle Donaghey a he makuahine o nā keikikāne ʻelua, ʻo Chris lāua ʻo Patrick, ʻo ia kāna mea hoʻoikaika. Noho ʻo ia ma Bremen, Indiana ma ka hema o South Bend, home o Notre Dame. Ke kākau ʻole ʻo ia, hiki ke loaʻa ʻo Michelle ma kāna māla pua mau a i ʻole e hana ana i nā papahana hoʻomaikaʻi hale liʻiliʻi. Ua kākau ʻo Michelle no nā puke makua e pili ana iā Metro Kids, Atlanta Parent, Dallas Child, Great Lakes Family, Family Times a me Space Coast Parent a me nā pūnaewele me ka iparenting.com. 

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