na Jennifer Shakeel
ʻO kekahi o nā koina hana paʻakikī o nā mākua ke aʻo ʻana pehea e ʻae ai i kāu keiki e ulu a lilo i kanaka ponoʻī no lākou. Ke ʻōlelo aku nei au iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he makua e hakakā nei me kēia pilikia i kēia manawa. ʻO kā mākou ʻōpio ʻaneʻane 15, e hoʻomaka ana i ke kula kiʻekiʻe a ua lilo i loko o kēia kanaka ʻaʻole mākou i maopopo i kā mākou makemake. (E minoʻaka a minoʻaka ma ʻaneʻi.) Me he mea lā ua hana ʻia i ka pō. Hoʻokahi minuke ʻo ia kēia wahine ʻōpio maikaʻi loa ʻaʻole makemake i kahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka hoʻopili ʻana me kona makuakāne i kēlā me kēia pō e nānā ana i kā lākou punahele punahele a hana i nā mea āpau e like me aʻu i ka lā āpau. Ke ʻōlelo nei au i ka pō, ʻaʻole wau e makaʻala ma ʻaneʻi.
No laila, makemake au e hāʻawi aku i nā mākua a pau ma laila i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a kaʻu kāne a me aʻu e hoʻohana nei e hoʻokō i nā ʻeha ulu a mākou e ʻike nei i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana.
Manaʻo Mākua ʻEkahi: E hoʻomaopopo ʻoe he ʻokoʻa ka lā ʻapōpō
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Hoʻomanaʻo mākou a pau i ke ʻano o ka wā ʻōpio. I kekahi lā, ʻo ka mea mele pop hou ka mea a mākou i moeʻuhane ai a hoʻāʻo e hoʻohālike… a ʻo ka "lā aʻe" ua neʻe mākou i ke kanaka skater e noho ana ma mua o mākou i ka papa Math i ʻakaʻaka mai iā mākou i nehinei. ʻO kahi o ka ʻike morphing aʻu i kapa ai, ʻo ia ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o kā mākou mau keiki e ʻike ʻo wai lākou ma waho o mākou. ʻO kā lākou makemake a me kā lākou makemake ʻole. He hana aʻo ia e pono ai lākou e hele.
Manaʻo Mākua ʻElua: E hanu hohonu ma mua o kou ʻōlelo ʻana i nā lole
ʻĀnō, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike i nā mea a pau o lākou, e ʻaʻahu lākou i ka mea e hauʻoli ai lākou. Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka ʻōlelo a mākou e hoʻohana ai "ʻO kēia ka mea āu e ʻaʻahu ai ke hele ʻoe i ka lehulehu me mākou," pēlā nō. E hoʻopaʻapaʻa no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e haʻalele lākou i nā mea ma hope o kou kua. A e hana lākou, no ka nani o kāu keiki, inā ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa iā lākou a hiki ʻole iā lākou ke kūʻokoʻa.
Manaʻo kōkua ʻekolu: E aʻo i ka Art of Compromise
Inā he peʻa a i ʻole ʻia… e koho nā peʻa henna maʻalahi no ka mea, ʻaʻole paʻa. Inā makemake lākou i ka ʻili wāwae wāwae a me ka puʻu o luna… e haʻi iā lākou hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa kekahi a i ʻole kekahi inā kūʻai lākou i ka pālule maʻamau a i ʻole ka pālule. E hele mai… ʻaʻahu anei ʻoe i nā mea polyster i hoʻāʻo ai kou kupuna wahine e kūʻai nou i kou wā ʻōpio? ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo pēlā.
Manaʻo Mākua ʻEhā: Ulu hou ka lauoho.
ʻO kēia wale nō kaʻu e ʻakaʻaka ai no ka mea ua hoʻololi kā mākou kaikamahine mua i kona lauoho i nā manawa he nui ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu ke ʻike hou aku i ke ʻano o ka waihoʻoluʻu kumu a ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei kā mākou keikikāne ʻo ke kau pōpeku ke ʻano o ka wā mohawk. E nānā, e ulu hou ko lākou lauoho a loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kala lauoho e like me ke kala āu e manaʻo ai e loaʻa i kāu keiki.
Manaʻo Mākua ʻElima: He mea nui anei i ka lā ʻapōpō?
He hopena maoli paha ia i ke koena o ko lākou ola inā ʻae ʻoe iā lākou e hoʻolohe iā Escape the Fate (i iaʻu e like me ka puʻupuʻu uē) ma luna o nā Jonas Brothers? ʻaʻole naʻe. Ua ulu mākou a pau mai loko mai o nā keiki hou ma ka Block and Poison… pēlā pū kā mākou mau keiki kāne a me kā mākou mau kaikamāhine. Ua maikaʻi loa wau no ka lilo ʻana i mea aloha no nā keiki hou a me Michael Jackson a me Prince. ʻAe, e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa mai koʻu mau hoa mai ke kula kiʻekiʻe iaʻu… akā ʻē, makemake ʻoe e hao i kāu keiki i kēia hilahila e hiki mai ana?
Manaʻo makua ʻeono: E hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe i kēlā mau makahiki
Hoʻopoina pinepine nā mākua i ka manawa hoʻokahi ua like lākou me kā lākou mau keiki. He ʻokoʻa paha ʻoe, makemake i nā mea like ʻole, hana ʻokoʻa… akā ʻo ʻoe kēlā makahiki ma mua. E ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i kāu mea i hana ai i loko i kou wā ʻōpio. Inā pono, e mahalo ʻoe ʻaʻole lākou e hana i kekahi o nā mea āu i hana ai a pakele. (wink)
Manaʻo Mākua ʻEhiku: E haʻi iā lākou aloha ʻoe iā lākou
ʻAʻole hiki i kāu keiki ke hoʻolohe i kāu haʻi ʻana iā lākou aloha ʻoe iā ia. Huli iā lākou ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa a haʻi iā lākou i kou haʻaheo no lākou. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike kāu keiki he aloha ʻoe iā lākou… pono ʻoe e haʻi iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. Ke hele mai kāu ʻōpio iā ʻoe a ʻōlelo ʻo "Hiki iaʻu ke puliki," hoʻōki i kāu hana a pūliki iā lākou… honi i ko lākou lae a haʻi iā lākou aloha ʻoe iā lākou.
E ulu ka'u mau keiki a mai kanalua i ko'u aloha ia lakou. ʻAʻole paha wau makemake mau i kā lākou hana a ʻaʻahu paha… Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i ka hele ʻana i nā mea like. Inā hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomanawanui iaʻu… hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomanawanui iā lākou.
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