na Stephanie Partridge
Parenting ʻO ia ka hana nui loa e hiki i kekahi ke loaʻa, akā ʻo nā makahiki ʻōpio ke ala e hoʻomake ai iā ʻoe. I kekahi lā, ʻo kāu keiki ka pēpē uʻi, dimpled, roly poly a ʻo ka mea aʻe ʻo ia ke kanaka ʻōpio lōʻihi a nani e noi ana i nā kī kaʻa. Ua piha ka 18 o ka'u kaikamahine i keia la a'o ka'u keiki, aole mamao ma hope ona. Ua noʻonoʻo kēia iaʻu…Ua loli nui koʻu ola mai ka wā i loaʻa iaʻu nā keiki. No laila, eia kaʻu papa inoa. He 25 mau hōʻailona hōʻailona kēia e noho nei ʻoe me kahi ʻōpio.
- Aia kekahi lumi i loko o kou hale me he wahi pōʻino lā, akā hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka mea i ʻike ʻia he moena a, kali! ʻO kēlā wāwae e pipili mai ana i ka ʻōpala?
- Hoʻokomo ʻia kāu ʻōpio e "hele i waho" a nīnau ʻoe inā e hele ana lākou i kahi pāʻina lole.
- Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo Urban.
- ʻO ka hola ʻelua o ka ʻauinalā Pōʻaono a ʻo ʻoe wale nō ke ala.
- ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo i kou manawa hope loa 'ike kou kelepona hale, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi i loaʻa iā ia me ka manuahi i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana.
- ʻAʻole wale ʻoe i ʻike i ke ʻano o ka "emo," "metalcore," "poser" a me "screamo", hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēlā mau huaʻōlelo i loko o kahi huaʻōlelo A hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā hiʻohiʻona ola maoli.
- He leo ʻē aʻe e puka mai ana mai ke keʻena noho o kāu keiki, he leo ʻano ʻē, kani kani a me nā haʻalulu ʻano. Ma ka nīnau ʻana, ʻike ʻia ʻoe he "mele."
- Ua ʻike ʻoe ʻo kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e kamaʻilio me kāu ʻōpio ma o FaceBook Chat.
- Aia nā inden paʻa ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāu dashboard mai kou mau manamana lima keʻokeʻo.
- Kāhea ʻoe i ka inoa o kāu keiki, a lohe ʻoe ma hope o ko lākou puka lumi moe, “He aha?” A laila ʻaʻohe mea. Kāhea hou ʻoe a me kēlā leo hoʻokahi, me ka leo hoʻonāukiuki iki, "He aha?" Ke kaniʻuhū nei ʻoe a ʻōwili i kou mau maka i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻōlelo maoli ʻoe, "E hele mai i ʻaneʻi!"
- “He aha, e Homie! "He aloha maʻamau i kou hale.
- Ua lilo ʻoe i mea akamai i ka leka uila.
- E komo ʻoe i kāu kaʻa, e hoʻā a pahū ka lekiō iā ʻoe i kahi mea hiki ʻole ke hoʻomaopopo, leo nui, ʻano like me ke mele a me ka weliweli iki paha - a ʻike koke ʻoe i ka hui a me ka inoa o ke mele.
- Loaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hoʻokokoke ana i kāu mau hoa hana a aloha iā lākou me "He aha, e Homie!"
- Ke hoʻomaopopo nei ʻoe ke kani nei ʻoe e like me kou makuahine.
- Ua ʻike ʻoe ʻo "Hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kou lumi" ʻo ia hoʻi, "Hoʻokuʻu i nā mea āpau ma lalo o kou wahi moe" ma ka ʻōlelo ʻōpio.
- ʻAʻole ʻoe i lilo i kanaka ʻino, akā ua aneane hiki ʻole ke kāohi ʻia ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa i ke keikikāne nāna i uhaʻi i ka puʻuwai o kāu kaikamahine.
- Inā ʻaʻole no kāu ʻōpio, e noho mau ana ʻoe i nā makahiki pōʻeleʻele. Akā, ke kamaʻilio nei ʻoe me kāu hoaaloha ma kāu kamepiula pūnaewele ʻoiai e leka uila ana i kou haku a hoʻouka i kāu "kiʻi" mai kāu pahupaʻiwikiō.
- Ke hele lākou i waho me nā hoaaloha a i ʻole e hana i kā lākou mea ponoʻī, ʻano mālie ka hale - a haʻahaʻa loa.
- Manaʻo malū ʻoe e haki nā gremlins i kāu lumi kuke i ka pō a ʻai i kāu meaʻai a pau. ʻO ia ka wehewehe ʻana, ʻeā? ʻO koʻu manaʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke ʻai i kēlā nui o ka meaʻai i ka manawa pōkole!
- Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mahalo nui loa i kou mau mākua a me nā mea i loaʻa iā lākou, akā ʻike ʻoe i loko o kou puʻuwai i kou wā ʻōpio ʻaʻole ʻoe e like me THAT.
- Aia ʻoe ma ke kumu inoa mua me nā ʻelima kula kiʻekiʻe loa ma kou wahi.
- ʻIke ʻoe i kēia manawa ʻaʻole no nā kaikamahine wale nō ka eyeliner ʻeleʻele.
- ʻO nā mea a pau, a ke manaʻo nei au i nā mea āpau, e hana ʻia "i hoʻokahi minute."
- Ua ʻike ʻoe he bff kāu i kāu ʻōpio a ʻaʻole ʻoe e kūʻai i kou ola no kekahi mea o ka honua.
E pūliki i kāu ʻōpio i kēia lā a ʻoiai ʻoe e haʻi iā lākou i kou aloha iā lākou, e hōʻike pū iā lākou i nā mea kupanaha a lākou i lawe mai ai i kou ola.
ʻAʻole wau ʻike iā ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole wau e kūʻai i kaʻu hui pupule no ka honua.
Pāʻani maikaʻi.
Pilikanaka: ʻO Stephanie Partridge, he mea kākau hāʻawi i ka mālama ʻana i nā ʻōpio ma nā pūnaewele e like me more4kids.info a me Alexandria Teen Parenting Examiner (Alexandria, VA), ʻike maopopo i nā ʻano a me nā ʻano o kēlā mea pohihihi i kapa ʻia ʻo ka ʻōpio. He makuahine hoʻokahi e noho ana ma waho o Wakinekona, DC a hānai i ʻelua mau ʻōpio (maikaʻi) iā ia iho (a hoʻokahi ma waho o ka pūnana), ua ʻike maoli ʻo Stephanie i nā ʻōpio a me nā pilikia a lākou e kū nei i kēia lā. ʻO kāna mau ʻatikala, e hāʻawi ana i kahi ala kūpono, maikaʻi a me ka ʻakaʻaka pinepine i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia ʻōpio, ua hōʻike ʻia ma nā pūnaewele lehulehu. He kanaka paʻi kiʻi kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia.
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