Ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi pāʻina lā hānau ʻāpana 2: kono, pāʻani, wahi, meaʻai, ʻeke pāʻina a me nā mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai.
na Karen Sibal
Hoʻomauʻia mai Part 1
Kāhea
Nui nā koho e pili ana i nā kono. ʻO kahi koho maikaʻi i ke kūʻai ʻana iā lākou ʻo ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe iho a hoʻokomo i kāu keiki. Inā ʻelemakule kāu keiki, hiki iā ia ke kāhiko a kākau i ke kono me ke kōkua mai iā ʻoe. Mai hopohopo inā ʻaʻole kūpono - he kono pāʻina keiki, ʻeā? Aia kekahi mau punaewele maikaʻi e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu i ka hana ʻana i kāu kono pāʻina ponoʻī. Hōʻoia mai: www.bestkidsbirthdayparties.com a www.todaysparent.com.
Location
He mea koʻikoʻi ke koho ʻana i kahi kūpono no ka pāʻina lā hānau. E hoʻomaka me ka noʻonoʻo e mālama ʻia kāu pāʻina ma ka home a i ʻole ma kahi ʻē aʻe. Aia nā pono a me nā pōʻino i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pāʻina home kaulana mau. ʻOiai he mea maʻalahi paha kahi pāʻina home, e mākaukau e hoʻolilo i ka manawa nui e hoʻomākaukau ai i kou wahi no ka pāʻina a hoʻomaʻemaʻe ma hope.
Inā ʻoe e pāʻina ma ka home, aia ma loko a ma waho paha? Ke hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi pāʻina ma waho, e hana mau i ka Plan B inā ua. ʻAʻole loa au e poina i ka pāʻina lā hānau o kaʻu keiki ʻeono makahiki ma hope o ka hale a me ka ʻino hekili i ka wā e ʻoki ai mākou i ka keke. ʻAʻole pono e ʻōlelo, ua hana mākou i nā hoʻonohonoho e hoʻokipa i nā poʻe āpau i loko, no laila ua mālama mua kā mākou hoʻolālā ʻana i ka lā.
Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana i kahi pāʻina ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe, nui nā wahi maikaʻi mai ka zoo kūloko, nā hale hōʻikeʻike, nā hale ʻaina keiki, ka loko ʻauʻau kaiāulu, nā hale haʻuki kūloko, nā paka leʻaleʻa, ka bowling, mini-golf, kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni, a nui hou aku. Nui nā wahi i loaʻa nā pūʻolo lā hānau kūpono e hiki ke hoʻopau i ke kaumaha mai ka hoʻolālā ʻana i ka lā kūikawā. E nānā i ke alakaʻi o kou kaiāulu i nā mea hoʻokipa kūloko no kekahi mau manaʻo pili keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke huli maʻalahi 'Kolepa Mini Near Me' inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kahi leʻaleʻa e hoʻokipa ai i ka pāʻina lā hānau o kāu keiki.
Theme
He aha kāu keiki hoihoi? ʻIke paha ʻoe i ka makemake o kāu keiki, no laila e hoʻopili iā ia i ke koho ʻana i kahi kumuhana. Hiki i nā keiki ʻōpio ke haʻi iā ʻoe i nā kiʻi a lākou e makemake ai a hiki ke komo maoli i ka hana hoʻolālā!
Nui nā kumumanaʻo a me nā huaʻōlelo e koho ai a maʻalahi hoʻi e hoʻoluhi. Ke hoʻoholo ʻoe i kāu kumuhana, e hoʻāʻo e mālama i ke koena o ka hoʻolālā maʻalahi - ʻo ia hoʻi, hoʻohālikelike i nā kono, nā baluna, nā mea hoʻonaninani, nā keke mai ʻO Anges de Sucre, nā pā pepa, nā kīʻaha, nā napkin, a me nā hana liʻiliʻi wale nō paha ka mea e pono ai.
Games
Pono nā pāʻani no kēlā me kēia pāʻina home nui. ʻO nā pāʻani i hoʻāʻo ʻia a hoʻāʻo ʻia e like me: nā noho mele, nā kani kani, ka hulahula hoʻomaha, e pine i ka huelo ma ka hoki (a i ʻole ke ʻano kumuhana), e hāʻawi i ka ʻāpana, a i ʻole kahi ʻimi waiwai. Loaʻa nā makana no ka mea lanakila, a i ʻole no nā mea a pau, inā makemake ʻoe. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kahi kanaka clown, kupua, a i ʻole poʻomanaʻo, pono e loaʻa iā lākou nā pāʻani a me nā hana e leʻaleʻa ai nā keiki. He koho maikaʻi kēia e hoʻopau i ke kaomi o ka hoʻokele ʻana i ka pāʻina holoʻokoʻa iā ʻoe iho. Hiki ke loaʻa nā manaʻo pāʻani hou aku ma www.birthdayexpress.com a www.todaysparent.com.
Inā leʻaleʻa kāu keiki i ka hana lima, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopau i nā malihini i kahi papahana liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi (e like me ke kāhiko ʻana i ko lākou wahi moena, ka hana ʻana i ka pāpale pāʻina, ka lei lei, a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i nā papeti manamana lima). He mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi ka hana no ka poʻe malihini e hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi manawa. ʻO ka mea hope akā ʻaʻole ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, ʻo ka mea huna i kākau ʻole ʻia o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pāʻina poina bounce house inflatables. Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i ke kumuhana no ka bounce house oi loa aku ia oe ke loaa mai Hoolimalima hale o Minneola Bounce.
ai
He meaʻai nui ko kēlā me kēia pāʻina nui! Inā he pāʻina home ʻoe, ʻo kekahi mau manaʻo kaulana: nā ʻōpala, nā mea ʻai me ka ʻū, ka paʻakai a me nā pahū, ka pizza, nā sanwiti liʻiliʻi, nā pā ʻiʻo a me ka paʻakai me kahi ʻano o nā ʻōwili a me nā berena no ka hana ʻana i nā sandwiches, pizza, ʻO nā mea ʻai BBQ a me nā ʻīlio wela, pasta a me nā salakeke. Eia kekahi, e ho'āʻo e loaʻa nā ʻano wai a me ka soda pop. Inā kono ʻia nā poʻe mākua, mahalo mau ʻia inā loaʻa kekahi mau meaʻai no lākou. Inā he nui kāu poʻe malihini, e noʻonoʻo e ʻai inā kūpono ia i kāu kālā.
Ka Kake. E hana ʻoe ma ka home a kūʻai paha ʻoe? Makemake ʻoe i ka keke e hōʻike i kāu kumuhana pāʻina? Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke koho i nā kīʻaha kīʻaha - i hoʻonani mua ʻia a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonani i nā malihini i kā lākou iho. A mai poina i ka ice cream!
ʻeke pāʻina
E hauʻoli kāu mau malihini liʻiliʻi i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻeke maikaʻi i ka wā e haʻalele ai. E hoʻopiha iā lākou me nā mea maʻamau kūpono, nā makana a me nā mea nani.
Mahalo iā ʻoe Nā memo
E like me nā kono, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kāu mau leka hoʻomaikaʻi ponoʻī, kūʻai iā lākou e kūlike i kāu kumuhana pāʻina, a i ʻole e ʻimi i kekahi mau manaʻo ma ka pūnaewele (e ʻike i nā pūnaewele i helu ʻia ma luna). E leka uila a hāʻawi lima iā lākou i kekahi mau lā ma hope o ka pāʻina, a i ʻole e hoʻokomo iā lākou i loko o nā ʻeke pāʻina.
Mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai
pahupaʻikiʻi a me ka pahupaʻiwikiō - e hōʻoia i ka lawa o kāu kiʻiʻoniʻoni a ke holo nei nā lako a pau. E hoʻopaʻa i nā pākaukau keu.
Mele - mea nui inā hula nā keiki! Loaʻa i kahi koho maikaʻi ma ka lima.
Nā ihoiho – ʻae, ua hoʻomanaʻo nā mākua i nā mea a pau koe wale nō ke kūʻai ʻana i nā ihoiho no ka keke lā hānau. E hōʻoia ʻaʻole hiki kēia iā ʻoe.
ʻO ka Family Pet - hiki i ka pipi maikaʻi loa ke lilo i mea hiki ʻole ke manaʻo ʻia i loko o kahi home piha i nā keiki walaʻau, ʻaʻole e haʻi i ka makaʻu o nā malihini i nā puaʻa a i ʻole nā maʻi allergies. E noʻonoʻo e hoʻopaʻa i kāu pipi no ka ʻahaʻaina.
Nā Hoʻohui Kūikawā
La hānau mua o ka pēpē
ʻO ka lā hānau mua o kāu keiki he mea hōʻeuʻeu. No ka hōʻoia ʻana he pāʻina ia e hoʻomanaʻo ai, e mālama maʻalahi i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka pāʻina. E kono i kekahi mau malihini, e mālama i nā mea hoʻonani a me nā leʻaleʻa i ka liʻiliʻi a loaʻa i nā baluna liʻiliʻi (e hoʻomanaʻo e hiki i nā keiki liʻiliʻi ke ʻoki i nā ʻāpana o nā baluna popped). Hiki i nā poʻe he nui, nā baluna, a me nā mele nui ke hoʻoweliweli i kāu keiki. E hoʻonohonoho i ka pāʻina ma mua a ma hope paha o ka hiamoe ʻana o kāu pēpē i mea e hoʻomaha maikaʻi ai ʻo ia no nā ʻahaʻaina. A makemake paha ʻoe e hānai iā ia ma mua no ka mea ʻo ka hauʻoli o ka pāʻina e hoʻemi i kona ʻai.
Pāʻina kamaliʻi
Hoʻolālā maikaʻi ʻia nā pāʻina kamaliʻi a puni nā "S" ʻehā: liʻiliʻi, maʻalahi, noʻonoʻo a pōkole. E mālama liʻiliʻi i ka papa inoa o nā malihini – ʻo ka poʻe mākua paha i ʻike ʻia e kāu keiki a me kekahi mau hoa pāʻani. E hele maʻalahi i nā mea hoʻonani no ka mea e makaʻu maʻalahi nā keiki liʻiliʻi. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka meaʻai a pale i nā hua waina, nā pretzels liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka popcorn e hiki ai ke ʻoki. E mālama pōkole a ʻono ka pāʻina – hoʻokahi a hoʻokahi hola a me ka hapa ka nui a hoʻonohonoho i ia mea e hoʻokō i ka hana maʻamau o kāu keiki. A, wehe i nā makana ma hope o ka pāʻina - hiki ke paʻakikī ke kaʻana like i kēia makahiki.
Keiki Opio
Ke hoʻoholo nei i kāu papa ʻaina pāʻina, e hoʻomanaʻo i ka nui o nā keiki i loaʻa i ka maʻi ʻai. E nīnau mua i nā mākua inā he mau kapu meaʻai e pono ai ʻoe e makaʻala. Inā hoʻokuʻu ʻia nā keiki no ka pāʻina, e ʻike pono ʻoe i kahi e hiki ai i ka makua inā pilikia. No kēia ʻano pāʻina, paipai wau e noʻonoʻo e hoʻolimalima i kahi wahi pāʻina lā hānau keiki, no ka hoʻonohonoho pono a loaʻa kahi lumi no nā keiki e pāʻani ai.
Ka Lā Nui
Inā ua hele ʻoe i kēia mea hoʻolālā pāʻina, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaha a hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻia ke hiki mai ka lā nui. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli e like me kāu keiki a hiki ʻole ke kali no ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka pāʻina! Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he lā nui kēia i ke ola o kāu keiki. E leʻaleʻa i ka hoʻolauleʻa, mālama i kou ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka, leʻaleʻa a hana i nā hoʻomanaʻo āu e aloha mau ai.
E hoʻomaopopo ':
- ʻO ka nūpepa makua o kēia lā, ka mea hoʻolālā pāʻina lā hānau, www.todaysparent.com.
- Nā ʻohana o San Jose, www.sanjosefamilies.com
- Eisenberg, Arlene, Heidi E. Murkoff a me Sandee E. Hathaway (1989), ʻO ka mea e manaʻo ai i ka makahiki mua (pp 363-364).
- Eisenberg, Arlene, Heidi E. Murkoff a me Sandee E. Hathaway (1994), He aha ka mea e manaʻo ai i nā makahiki kamaliʻi) (pp 300, 452).
Kawaihae
He mea kākau manuahi ʻo Karen Sibal, mea noiʻi a me ke kūkākūkā kamaʻilio. ʻO ia ka mea nona ka Sibal Writing and Consulting, kahi ʻoihana loea i ka noiʻi kulekele aupuni a me nā kamaʻilio kūpono a me nā hoʻonā pūnaewele no nā ʻano hui āpau. I nā makahiki he 15 i hala iho nei, ua hana ʻo Karen i nā hana no nā aupuni kūloko a me ka panalāʻau a me nā hui ʻaʻole waiwai. Ua kākau nui ʻo Karen i nā pilikia o nā keiki a ua kōkua ʻo ia i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi hui no nā makuahine a me nā keiki ma kona kaiāulu. He lālā ʻo ia o ka Halton-Peel Communications Association a ua lawelawe pū ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he luna hoʻoponopono o kahi puke moʻolelo mālama keiki aupuni. Ke kākau nei ʻo Karen i kahi moʻolelo puke no nā keiki kula kamaliʻi a paʻa mau i nā papahana kaiaulu like ʻole.
Noho ʻo Karen me kāna kāne a me kāna mau kaikamahine ʻelua, 2 a me 8 mau makahiki, ma Oakville, Ontario Kanada. No ka ʻike hou aku e pili ana iā Karen, e kipa i kāna pūnaewele ma www.sibal.ca a kāhea aku 416-580-9097.
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