ʻO ka manawa maikaʻi loa e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kāu mau keiki no kahi haʻuki ke hōʻike lākou i ka hoihoi i ka pāʻani. ʻO ia ala, ʻike ʻoe makemake maoli kāu keiki e komo. Eia hou, ʻaʻole mākaukau ka hapa nui o nā keiki no nā haʻuki i hoʻonohonoho ʻia a hiki i nā makahiki ʻeono. Ke hoʻomau nei nā keiki liʻiliʻi i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā neʻe kumu. No lākou, ʻo ka holo ʻana, ka pāʻani hopu, a me ka holo kaʻa kaʻa he mau koho maikaʻi loa.
na Stacey Schifferdecker
I kekahi manawa, ma ka pā hale ma lalo o ke alanui, hoʻohana nā keiki i ko lākou mau ahiahi a me nā Pōʻaono e pāʻani ana i ka baseball a i ʻole kickball me ka pōhaku no ke kumu ʻekolu a me nā kukini noʻonoʻo e hoʻopiha ana i nā kime liʻiliʻi. I kēia manawa, hiki i nā keiki ke komo i nā hui haʻuki i hoʻonohonoho ʻia e like me nā makahiki 4 a lawe i nā haʻawina pōpō pēpē ma mua. ʻOiai hiki i ia mau hana ke hāʻawi i nā keiki i ke poʻo o ka hoʻoikaika kino holoʻokoʻa, pono nā mākua e noʻonoʻo pono i ka makahiki e hoʻokomo ai i kā lākou mau keiki i nā haʻuki a me nā haʻuki e koho ai.
ʻO ka manawa maikaʻi loa e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kāu mau keiki no kahi haʻuki ke hōʻike lākou i ka hoihoi i ka pāʻani. Ma kēlā ala, ʻike ʻoe i kāu keiki makemake maoli e komo. Eia hou, ʻaʻole mākaukau ka hapa nui o nā keiki no nā haʻuki i hoʻonohonoho ʻia a hiki i nā makahiki ʻeono. Ke hoʻomau nei nā keiki liʻiliʻi i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā neʻe kumu. No lākou, he koho maikaʻi loa ka holo ʻana, ka pāʻani ʻana i ka hopu, a me ka holo kaʻa kaʻa. Inā makemake ʻoe e kākau inoa i kahi papa, e hoʻāʻo e like me ka papa ʻauʻau a i ʻole nā ʻōpio. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, e hoʻokumu i kahi kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi ma o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe iho.
Inā he haʻuki punahele kāu, e kaʻana like me kāu mau keiki a malia paha e hopu pū lākou i ka ʻōpala. Inā he kanaka pāʻani kolepa ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani ma ka home me kāu mau keiki ma ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mākaʻikaʻi hoʻolele skytrak. E hoʻomanaʻo naʻe, ʻo nā haʻuki maikaʻi loa no nā keiki āpau kahi mea a lākou e hauʻoli ai. No laila, inā makemake lākou e pāʻani i ka pōpeku, e hoʻomaka e aʻo e pili ana i nā kiki kihi, ʻoiai inā ʻo ʻoe ka hōkū hōkū o kāu hui kinipopo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ʻoe e paipai i kāu mau keiki e hoʻāʻo i nā haʻuki like ʻole, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka wā ʻōpio. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolauna iā lākou i nā haʻuki hoe waʻa ma ka lawe ʻana iā lākou i kahi hale kūʻai haʻuki a ʻae iā lākou e koho i kā lākou iho ʻO nā hoe pōʻalo pōʻai maʻamau. ʻO ka nānā pono ʻana i hoʻokahi haʻuki i ka wā ʻōpiopio e alakaʻi i nā ʻeha a me ke ahi. Mai no'ono'o wale i ka ha'uki hui; ʻO nā haʻuki hoʻokahi e like me ka haʻuki, ka holo, ka tennis, ka ʻoihana kaua, ka ʻauʻau, a me ka mokomoko he hoʻoikaika maikaʻi loa. Aia nā papa hana kaua keiki i hiki i kāu poʻe keiki ke lawe e hoʻomaka me ka ʻoihana kaua i kā lākou koho.
Ke hoʻopaʻa ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki i kahi haʻuki, pono ʻoe e koho i kahi liki. No nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi, e ʻimi i kahi liki e hoʻoikaika ana i ka palekana a me ke komo ʻana. Pono nā keiki a pau e pā'ani i kēlā me kēia pā'ani a pono e ho'ololi i nā kūlana. Ke piha nā keiki i ka 11 a i ʻole 12, hiki paha iā lākou ke mākaukau no ka hoʻokūkū hou aku, akā makemake ʻoe i kahi kaʻi e hoʻoikaika i ka palekana, ka hana hui, a me ka pololei ma mua o ka lanakila ʻana ma nā koina āpau.
Pono ʻoe e nānā i ka manawa e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai ka hui. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa kekahi mau hui haʻuki a nā keiki i ʻehā lā o ka pule—ʻoi loa kēia no nā keiki! ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha i ka pule no 60-90 mau minuke ua lawa.
Ma ke ʻano he makua haʻuki, he kuleana koʻikoʻi nō hoʻi ʻoe: e hele i nā pāʻani a me nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa e like me ka hiki, e lilo i haʻuki maikaʻi, a e hoʻoikaika a maikaʻi. Hoʻoikaika i ka leʻaleʻa, ka hana hui, ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana, ʻaʻole lanakila. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e aʻo mai ka ʻaoʻao a i ʻole ka hoʻohewa ʻana i nā mea hoʻoponopono. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole i mālama pono ke kaʻi i kāu keiki, e kamaʻilio me ke kaʻi e pili ana iā ia me ka mālie a me ka pilikino.
Pehea inā hoʻoholo kāu mau keiki e haʻalele i kā lākou haʻuki? Inā hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻia lākou no kahi haʻuki wā lōʻihi e like me ka gymnastics a i ʻole martial arts, makemake paha lākou e hoʻomaha a makemake paha e hoʻāʻo i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. E kamaʻilio me lākou a ʻike i ko lākou manaʻo. E hoʻomanaʻo ʻo kāu pahuhopu ʻo ia ka paipai ʻana i kāu mau keiki e hele i ka 'Olumepika a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi haʻawina haʻuki.
No nā haʻuki hui, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ka hapa nui o nā liona haʻuki a nā keiki he ʻeono a ʻewalu pule. Ma muli o ka pono i kā lākou mau hoa hui a me ke aʻo ʻana i ka hoʻomanawanui, pono ʻoe e paipai i kāu mau keiki e hoʻopau i ke kau. E kamaʻilio me lākou e pili ana i ke kumu o ko lākou makemake e haʻalele, a kōkua iā lākou e noʻonoʻo i nā mea ʻē aʻe e hiki ai i ke kau. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokō i ke kau, e hele i ke kaʻi me kāu mau keiki e wehewehe i ke kumu o ko lākou haʻalele ʻana.
"ʻO nā hana hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma mua o 2 mau hola he paʻakikī ke hōʻoia ʻia," wahi a Zembower. "Hoʻokahi hola a 90 mau minuke ma kahi kūpono. Ke lōʻihi ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, nalowale nā keiki a me ka ikaika.
"Pono ko mākou mau mākua e kau inoa i kahi Code of Ethics o nā Mākua," wahi a Charles Bollings, ka pelekikena o ka Sandlot Football League, e komo pū ana nā hui ma Botetourt, Franklin a me Roanoke. “He palapala hāʻawi ia i nā mākua e heluhelu hou ai. Pono lākou e kau inoa ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana o kā lākou keiki.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i ke Code of Ethics no nā kumu aʻo, nā mākua a me nā mea pāʻani ma nā paka a me nā paena pūnaewele. Ke noi nei i ka haʻuki maikaʻi ma o ka manaʻo maikaʻi; e mālama i kekahi me ka mahalo; a e hoʻokau i ka manaʻo maikaʻi o nā keiki ma mua o ka makemake e lanakila.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo John Heil, he kanaka noʻonoʻo haʻuki ma Roanoke, e pili ana nā lula o ka makua ma kahi ʻano haʻuki e like me nā kaiapuni ʻē aʻe. Pono nā mākua e hoʻohālike i ka hana a lākou e manaʻo ai e ʻike mai kā lākou mau keiki.
"Ke hōʻike nei lākou i kā lākou mau keiki, 'Peia koʻu manaʻo e hana ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka makua," wahi a Heil.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Heil, ka luna hoʻomalu o Sports Medicine & Science for US Fencing, ma waho aʻe o ka leʻaleʻa, pono e aʻo nā keiki i ka hana ʻana i nā manaʻo i ka wā e pāʻani ai i nā haʻuki. Hiki i nā haʻuki ke aʻo pehea e hoʻokele ai i ke koʻikoʻi a me nā manaʻo mai ka holomua a i ʻole ka hāʻule ʻole. Hiki nō hoʻi i ka hoʻokūkū haʻuki ke hoʻoikaika i ke aʻo e pono ai e hana i kahi pahuhopu. Kāhea ʻo ia i kēia mau mākau ola.
He mea paʻakikī i nā mākua ke aʻo ʻole ma ka ʻaoʻao, akā pono nā mākua e lilo i mau mākua a e ʻae i nā kumu aʻo.
Ua loaʻa i ka mokomoko nā māka kiʻekiʻe mai ka poʻe loea lapaʻau haʻuki ʻo ia kekahi o nā haʻuki maikaʻi loa no nā keiki, e hāʻawi ana i ka hoʻoheheʻe cardiovascular ikaika a me ka liʻiliʻi o ka hōʻeha. Inā loaʻa kāu keiki i kahi ʻeha haʻuki e ʻike pono ʻoe e kipa i kahi lapaʻau ʻeha haʻuki kikowaena.
ʻO ka haʻuki maikaʻi loa no ke keiki he mea leʻaleʻa a hoihoi i ka ʻōpio.
ʻO nā pōmaikaʻi o nā haʻuki no nā keiki he mea palena ʻole. Hiki iā lākou ke kūkulu i ke ʻano, ka manaʻo ponoʻī a me nā pilina pilikanaka, e hoʻoulu i ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo a me nā manaʻo kūkulu hui, e lilo i wahi no ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka nohona - ʻaʻole e haʻi i nā hopena maikaʻi o ka hana i ke keiki ma ke kino.
Kawaihae
ʻO Stacey Schifferdecker ka makuahine hauʻoli akā hauʻoli o nā keiki kula ʻekolu—ʻelua keikikāne a me kahi kaikamahine. He mea kākau kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia, he Kuhina no nā keiki, a PTA manawaleʻa, a he alakaʻi Scout. Loaʻa iā Stacey kahi kēkelē laepua ma Communications a me Palani a me ke kēkelē laepua ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania. Ua kākau nui ʻo ia e pili ana i ka makua a me ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka ʻoihana, ʻenehana, huakaʻi, a me nā leʻaleʻa.
ʻO Stacey Schifferdecker ka makuahine hauʻoli akā hauʻoli o nā keiki kula ʻekolu—ʻelua keikikāne a me kahi kaikamahine. He mea kākau kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia, he Kuhina no nā keiki, a PTA manawaleʻa, a he alakaʻi Scout. Loaʻa iā Stacey kahi kēkelē laepua ma Communications a me Palani a me ke kēkelē laepua ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania. Ua kākau nui ʻo ia e pili ana i ka makua a me ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka ʻoihana, ʻenehana, huakaʻi, a me nā leʻaleʻa.
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