Manaʻo hoʻoponopono: He aha ka ʻohana makua? Ua hāpai ka ʻatikala ma lalo nei i kekahi mau mea hoihoi ma ke ʻano he makua. No ke aha ka makua wale nō? Inā he ʻohana lōʻihi kou nui, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i nā ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali hiki ke kōkua i kou ʻohana e hoʻokokoke aku ma o ka hana pū ʻana a me ka wehe ʻana i ka ʻike o kēlā me kēia. I kēia manawa me ka ʻatikala:
Ke Hana nei i ka Pūnaehana: Nā Mea Hana Mākua ʻohana
ʻO nā ʻohana nā ʻōnaehana a ʻo nā lālā o ka ʻohana he kanaka hoʻokahi a he ʻāpana o ka holoʻokoʻa; launa a paani lakou kekahi i kekahi. Ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe e pili ana i kou ʻohana pēlā, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike inā e wili liʻiliʻi kekahi ʻāpana, e hoʻolei ʻia ka ʻōnaehana holoʻokoʻa. No ka mea ua wili iki mākou a pau, hiki i ko mākou ʻohana ke lilo i ʻano pupule.
Ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kou ʻohana pēlā, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike ʻo ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa ka makua i nā keiki, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi a ʻelua wale nō. Aia nā mea hana hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e kōkua i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kāu ʻōnaehana ʻohana.
Nā Wahi
E nānā i nā kuleana a nā kānaka e hoʻopiha ai i kou ʻohana. He mea maikaʻi ke hana i kēia ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu mau keiki, no ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono hou i nā kuleana i kēlā manawa, akā hiki nō iā ʻoe ke hana inā he moʻopuna kāu. E hoʻomanaʻo, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa e mālama i nā keiki.
mō'aukala
He aha ka moʻolelo o kou ʻohana, me nā mākua, nā kūpuna, nā ʻanakē, nā ʻanakala a me nā hoahānau? He nui anei na oki mare, pili, hoohui, make mua? He aha ka moʻolelo hoʻomana o kou ʻohana? Pehea e pili ana i ke kūlana pilikanaka a kālā paha? Ke nānā nei ʻoe i ka moʻolelo o kou ʻohana, ʻike paha ʻoe i nā hiʻohiʻona e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe i nā pilikia e hiki mai ana i loko o kou ʻohana.
'ana ma
He aha nā pilina i loko o kou ʻohana, a pili, a mamao paha? Pehea ka pilina ma waena o nā mākua a me ko lākou mau mākua a me nā kaikaina? Pehea ka pilina ma waena o nā mākua? He ʻokoʻa ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻohana, ka makua kāne kāne, ka makua hoʻokahi a me ka mālama ʻohana maʻamau, a lawe mai i nā pilina like ʻole i loko o ka ʻōnaehana. He mea kōkua ka loiloi i kēlā mau pilina. He aha ka hana a kēlā me kēia lālā o ka ʻohana i ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki?
mea
He mea nui kēia, a makemake kekahi poʻe i ka ʻōlelo aʻo e wehe i nā mea huna ʻohana. ʻO nā mea huna ʻohana he mau mea huna ʻaʻole i haʻi ʻia, akā ʻike maoli ʻia, a hoʻoili ʻia mai kēlā hanauna a i kēia hanauna. He mea make nā mea huna ʻohana. ʻO ka mea huna ʻohana maʻamau ka moe kolohe, a hiki i ka wā e haʻihaʻi ai kekahi a kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ʻAnakala Jim a me kāna mea i hana ai, e hiki mai ana ka moe kolohe i nā hanauna e hiki mai ana. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻohana, ʻo ia ka hōʻike ʻana i nā mea huna a pau e nalowale ai ko lākou mana.
Ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe e pili ana i ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa e mālama ana i nā keiki, ʻike ʻoe he mau kumuwaiwai āu i ʻike ʻole ai iā ʻoe. Ke hoʻopau ʻia ʻoe e ka makua, hiki iā ʻoe ke huli i nā lālā ʻē aʻe o ka ʻōnaehana, a ʻike ʻoe i nā lālā kūpono e huli ai.
Inā ʻike ʻoe ua ulu ʻo Grandma ma kahi mamao me ka ʻole o nā hoaaloha, maopopo ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻo ia i anu; ʻaʻole akamai ʻo ia i ka pilina. ʻIke ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke huli iā ia no ke kōkua kūpono, akā ʻaʻole no ke kākoʻo inā pilikia ʻoe. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, i ka wā i ʻike ʻia ai ka mea huna a ʻAnakala Jim, ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole palekana ke waiho ʻana i nā keiki me ia.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka ʻohana ma ke ʻano he ʻōnaehana he mea waiwai no nā mākua. Kōkua ia iā lākou e ʻike i nā pilikia, ʻike i nā kumuwaiwai ʻohana a hoʻolilo i ko lākou ʻohana i mea maikaʻi.
Manaʻo hoʻoponopono: ʻO ka manaʻo koʻikoʻi ma kēia ʻatikala iaʻu, ʻo ia ka mea kūpono e lawe i ka manawa e hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o kou ʻohana, ʻoi aku ka manaʻo e hoʻohuli i kāu keiki i mea e pale aku ai i nā pilikia. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka ikaika o nā ʻohana like ʻole e kōkua a hoʻomaikaʻi i ka hana makua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Kevin
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