Parenting ʻO nā mea'ōpio

Kiʻi Kino a me kou Manaʻo Kau ʻOpio

Ke kiʻi kino a me ka manaʻo ponoʻī hele lima a lima no nā ʻōpio he nui. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu a nānā ʻole paha i ke kiʻi kino o kāu keiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā maikaʻi ʻole, ma ke ʻano he "phase" wale nō.
Kaikamahine opio e nana ana ma ka unahi
Kaikamahine opio e nana ana ma ka unahi

ʻO ke ʻano o ka ʻike ʻana a me ka nānā ʻana o kāu ʻōpio iā ia iho he mea hoʻohui i ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele a nānā ʻole paha i ke kiʻi kino o kāu keiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole ia, he "phase" wale nō. ʻOiai he ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo kēlā me kēia keiki e ʻike i nā manawa a lākou e manaʻo ai he momona nui lākou, wiwi, lōʻihi a pōkole paha, akā i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai e hoʻopilikia i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe o ko lākou ola, ʻo ia ka manawa e hana ai. Aia kahi laina maikaʻi a i kekahi manawa hiki ke paʻakikī ke ʻike i kahi kiʻi kino maikaʻi ʻole, akā inā ʻike ʻoe i kāu mea e ʻimi nei, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike a hopu iā ia ma mua o ka hemo ʻana o nā mea.

E ʻike i nā hōʻailona o ke kiʻi kino ʻino

Hoʻopili pinepine ʻia ke kiʻi kino maikaʻi ʻole i ke kaumaha, akā hiki iā ia ke ʻelua ala ʻokoʻa. ʻO ke kaumaha ka hopena o ke kiʻi kino kino, a i ʻole ke kumu. Akaka loa kekahi mau hōʻailona, ​​akā ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kekahi. Hiki ke hoʻopunipuni ka minoʻaka iā ʻoe no laila, mai hōʻemi i ka mea ʻakaʻaka i nā mea a pau. Hiki i ka hoʻohenehene ke lilo i mea kaua e hūnā i ka ʻeha maoli a me ka palekana. Hiki ke pilikia i ke kiʻi kino ke keiki e manaʻo mau ana i ka "momona" a i ʻole "ʻino". E hoʻolohe i ke keiki e hoʻomaopopo mau i kāna ʻōlelo a me ka hōʻike ʻana iā ʻoe.

Ke Kaikamahine Liilii Kaumaha

ʻOi aku ka pilikia o nā kaikamāhine i ke kiʻi kino ma mua o nā keikikāne a ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manaʻo o nā kaikamahine i ke kiʻi kino ma mua o nā keikikāne. Eia naʻe, hiki i ke kaikamahine me ke kiʻi kino kino ke hoʻopau i ka maʻi ʻai a i ʻole nā ​​hana ʻai maikaʻi ʻole e like me ka crash dieting a i ʻole ka hoʻokē ʻai. ʻO ke kaikamahine huʻihuʻi, ʻakaʻaka hiki ke pilikia loa i loko. E nānā i kona mau maka a hoʻolohe i kāna ʻōlelo. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻohi pinepine i nā hōʻailona maʻalahi i ke kaumaha a i ʻole ka hauʻoli i ke ʻano o kona ʻano. E heluhelu i kāna mau hana kākau ma ke kula a me nā mea āna i kākau ai ma ka home. Hiki ke hōʻike ʻia kēlā mau mea.

Manaʻo nā keikikāne

Hiki i nā keikikāne ke kino kino. Hiki i nā keikikāne ke hōʻike i nā hōʻailona e like me nā kaikamahine, akā ʻike paha ʻoe i ka haʻalele ʻana i ka nohona. E nānā i kāu keiki no nā hōʻailona e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻo ia i kona helehelena.

E hana i ka hana

Ua piha ka media i nā memo maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ke ʻano o nā kaikamahine a me nā kāne. Hoʻopiha ʻia nā pahu makasina ma ka hale kūʻai nui me nā kiʻi a me nā moʻolelo e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa ana i kēia mea hana keaka a i ʻole kēlā mea kaulana no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi cellulite liʻiliʻi a i ʻole no ka nānā pono ʻole ʻana i ka bikini. He mau ʻōlelo pōʻino kēia e loaʻa ana i kā mākou mau keiki, akā aia lākou ma waho a ʻike ʻia kā mākou mau keiki iā lākou i kēlā me kēia lā. Ma ke ʻano he makua, hiki iā ʻoe ke hakakā i kēlā mau ʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole ma ke aʻo ʻana i kāu keiki i nā ʻano meaʻai olakino, e paipai iā ia e hoʻoikaika kino i kēlā me kēia lā (ʻelua hana: mālama iā lākou a hoʻonui i ke ʻano) a kōkua iā lākou e hilinaʻi i ko lākou hiki a iā lākou iho. Akā, aia kekahi manawa i nui loa ka pilikia a pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ke kōkua ʻoihana no kāu keiki. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e hana ai, mai kānalua! E kiʻi i kāu keiki i ke kōkua e pono ai lākou. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea a pau, e aloha wale iā lākou me kou puʻuwai āpau a hōʻike iā lākou.

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