ʻO ke aʻo ʻana i ka Empathy he mākaukau makua e makemake nā mākua a pau e aʻo i kā lākou mau keiki. ʻIke ʻia nā keiki empathic me ka ʻike ʻole, ʻike a hoʻomaopopo paha i ka ʻeha a i ʻole ka pilikia o kekahi. Piʻi pinepine nā pēpē empathic i ka lohe ʻana i kahi pēpē ʻē aʻe e uē ana i loko o kahi kahu hānai. ʻO nā keiki liʻiliʻi e hoʻomaopopo pū ana me nā keiki ʻē aʻe e hoʻokō i kēlā huhū. Makemake nā ʻōpio Empathic e kōkua i ka poʻe nele a lanakila i ka underdog.
na Kauka Caron Goode
ʻIke ʻia nā keiki empathic me ka ʻike ʻole, ʻike a hoʻomaopopo paha i ka ʻeha a i ʻole ka pilikia o kekahi. Piʻi pinepine nā pēpē empathic i ka lohe ʻana i kahi pēpē ʻē aʻe e uē ana i loko o kahi kahu hānai. ʻO nā keiki liʻiliʻi e hoʻomaopopo pū ana me nā keiki ʻē aʻe e hoʻokō i kēlā huhū. Makemake nā ʻōpio Empathic e kōkua i ka poʻe nele a lanakila i ka underdog. E like me na makua o na keiki liilii, ke aʻo ʻana i nā keiki i ke aloha Pono e lilo i mea nui i ke kōkua ʻana i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi keiki i hoʻoponopono maikaʻi ʻia i ka naʻau.
He aha ke aloha? Ma nā ʻōlelo noʻonoʻo naʻau, ʻo ke akamai o ka empathizing ʻo ia ka mea
- ʻike i ka manaʻo o kekahi,
- hiki ke ʻike i ka manaʻo like inā ʻōpio i nā makahiki, a
- hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo e kapa ai i ka manaʻo i ka wā ʻelemakule.
Hoʻoikaika ʻia nā keiki empathic e kōkua i ka hōʻoluʻolu a hoʻomaha paha i ka pilikia. Me he mea lā e ulu ana nā keiki koʻikoʻi i ka manaʻo ma ke ʻano he ʻano o ko lākou ʻano pilikino aʻo nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e aʻo ʻia i nā mākau ma o ka pāʻani ʻana a i ʻole nā moʻolelo e makemake ai ke ʻano i ka ʻōpio heluhelu. Eia kekahi mau manaʻo pāʻani e kōkua i nā keiki e ʻike i ka manaʻo o ke aloha. ʻO ka hoʻohālikelike a me ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i nā manaʻo e kōkua i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka manaʻo.
Nā pāʻani aniani he ala leʻaleʻa e kōkua ai i nā keiki e ʻike i ke aloha. E koho i kahi kūlana i maʻalahi i kāu keiki e ʻoluʻolu ai, a hāʻawi iā ia iho i kekahi mau manaʻo. E kū i mua o ke aniani me kāu keiki a hoʻomaka i ka pāʻani ma ka hana ʻana i kahi helehelena ʻakaʻaka nona. A laila e ʻōlelo kākou e pāʻani hoʻohālike. Hoʻouna aku ʻo Grandma i kahi pūʻolo kāhāhā. Wehe ʻoe a i loko he pēpē pēpē nani. Pehea kou helehelena ke ʻike ʻoe i kou pīhoihoi? He aha ka ʻōlelo a kēlā nānā? He hauʻoli paha ʻoe? I kēia manawa, e hoʻohālike ua haki ka maka o ka pēpē pēpē nani. Pehea ka manaʻo o ka pēpē pēpē? Ua ʻeha ʻo ia? He mea kaumaha anei ia ia oe? He aha inā inā wau e ʻōlelo hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoponopono i ka pēpē i mea maikaʻi ʻo ia e like me ka mea hou? Pehea kou helehelena ia manawa? He helehelena hauʻoli kēlā?
Pāʻani Hana he ala ʻē aʻe e ʻike ai i nā manaʻo. Hoʻohui ia i nā mea o nā mea punahele ʻelua o ka wā kamaliʻi, hoʻohālike a ʻaʻahu. E hoʻokomo i kāu keiki i ka ʻaʻahu a e hana i kāna ʻano. A laila hiki iā ʻolua ke hana i kahi moʻolelo kahi e hōʻike ai kona ʻano i ke kūlana ola maoli e hoʻoulu ai i ka manaʻo a me ka hoʻoponopono pilikia i ke kōkua a i ʻole nā hana kūpono. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonui i ka moʻolelo ma o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā nīnau paipai e like me: He aha ke ʻano o ka deragona ma hope o kona kiʻi ʻana i ka pahu lanakila ma kāna pāʻani pōpeku? Pehea kona manao i kona haule ana i ka honua? Pehea kona ʻano i ka wā i ʻōlelo ai ka luna hoʻoponopono ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka pahuhopu? He aha kāna i hana ai i kona hoʻololi ʻana i kona manaʻo a lanakila kāna hui ma hope o nā mea a pau?
Kākalakala He hana ia e leʻaleʻa ai ka hapa nui o nā keiki, a he ala maikaʻi e kōkua iā lākou e ʻike i ke aloha. I ka heluhelu ʻana a i ʻole ka haʻi ʻana i kāu keiki i kahi moʻolelo, kū a nīnau i nā nīnau e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke kanaka. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kāu keiki i kona manaʻo inā ʻo ia kēlā kanaka. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau inā ʻokoʻa kāna hana ʻana i nā mea. Inā pēlā, pehea e loli ai nā manaʻo a me ka hopena?
ʻO ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka pāʻani kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e aʻo ai i nā keiki. Ke leʻaleʻa lākou, maʻalahi lākou e komo a mālama i ka ʻike. Ma ke aʻo ʻana i kāu mau keiki pehea e hōʻike ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo empathic, ke aʻo nei ʻoe iā lākou pehea e kamaʻilio ai me ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pane kūpono. Ke aʻo ʻia, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kēia mākaukau no nā keiki e hoʻopili maikaʻi me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Kawaihae
Loaʻa ka leʻaleʻa ʻoihana a Caron ma ka Academy for Coaching Parents International e hāʻawi ana i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me ka hōʻoia no nā haumāna e hana i nā ʻoihana Parent Coaching. Ma ke ʻano he makuahine a he makuahine hoʻi, ʻike mua ʻo Caron i ke koʻikoʻi o ka mākaukau makua a ʻo ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki me ka hauʻoli, ka noʻonoʻo maʻamau, a me ka pilina e waiwai a pōmaikaʻi i ka makua a me ke keiki. ʻO kāna puke hou loa
E kōkua i nā keiki e hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia a me ka Trauma. Ua hoʻolilo ʻo ia i kāna ʻike i mea loea media pinepine a ua ʻike ʻia kāna hana ma Colorado Parent, Convergence, The Joyful Child, Energy, Black Family Digest, and Better Homes and Gardens. Noho ʻo ia a me kāna kāne ʻo Tom Goode, ND, ma Ft. Pono Texas.
KE KULA
Post Doctoral Work: (1996-1998) Institute of Transpersonal Psychology; e nānā i ka Psychology Wahine a me ka Wellness
Ke Kauka Hoʻonaʻauao: (1979-1983) ʻO ke Kulanui ʻo George Washington, ʻO koʻu kēkelē aia ma ka Counseling Psychology, me ka mea nui, Human Development and Leadership a me kahi keiki liʻiliʻi ma ka Hoʻonaʻauao Kūikawā.
Masters of Communication: (1972-73) ʻO kā mākou Lede o ke Kulanui Lake, San Antonio TX. ʻO Major ka ʻōlelo a ʻo ka liʻiliʻi ke aʻo ʻana i ke kino kīnā.
Bachelor of Science: (1971) Oklahoma University of Liberal Arts, Major ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo lapaʻau a me ka hoʻonaʻauao kuli.
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