ʻOiai loaʻa nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i kēlā me kēia ʻohana, aia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e hōʻoiaʻiʻo e loaʻa i kou ʻohana ka hauʻoli nui. Eia kā mākou 10 mea huna no ka ʻohana hauʻoli. He aha kāu? E hoʻokomo iā lākou i nā manaʻo ma lalo nei.
1) Nanea pū i ka ʻakaʻaka
Table of Contents
ʻO ka ʻakaʻaka kekahi o nā mea e hoʻopili ai i nā ʻohana. ʻO ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā moʻolelo ʻakaʻaka a i ʻole ke nānā ʻana i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni ʻakaʻaka a i ʻole nā hōʻike televise he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hana ai i kahi pilina me kāu mau keiki. E ʻike ʻoe i ka nui o ka ʻakaʻaka e maʻalahi loa ka mālama ʻana i nā kūlana i hiki ke hana i loko o kou ʻohana.
2) E noʻonoʻo i kāu mea e mahalo ai
He nui nā manawa me he mea lā ua ʻoi aku ka manaʻo o ka poʻe i nā pilikia i loaʻa iā lākou i ke ola, ma mua o ka hauʻoli maoli i nā pōmaikaʻi he nui i loaʻa iā lākou. ʻO kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻonui ai i ka hauʻoli i loko o kou ʻohana, akā e aʻo pū i kāu mau keiki i ke akamai maikaʻi o ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao maikaʻi o nā mea, ʻo ia ka nānā ʻana i ka maikaʻi, ma mua o ka noho ʻana i ka maikaʻi ʻole.
3) Kaʻana like i kou hauʻoli me kāu mau keiki
ʻO kekahi o nā makana maikaʻi loa āu e hāʻawi ai i ke keiki, ʻo ia ka ʻike i ke aloha maoli o ko lākou mau mākua i kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole wale kēia e hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi manaʻo palekana, akā hāʻawi pū kekahi iā lākou i kahi ʻike hoʻohālike kūpono e hiki ai iā lākou ke nānā i hope a hoʻohālike i ka wā e ulu ai.
4) E hauʻoli me ka liʻiliʻi
ʻO nā manawa he nui nā hopohopo kālā a me nā hopohopo e hiki ke hoʻopau i ka hauʻoli mai kahi ʻohana. ʻOiai hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hūnā i kāu mau hopohopo mai kāu mau keiki, hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i nā pilikia. E ho'āʻo e mālama pono i kāu kālā, akā ʻo kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi loa e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana kālā i loko o kou ʻohana, ʻo ia ke aʻo pehea e mahalo ai i nā leʻaleʻa liʻiliʻi o ke ola. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale ma kahi hale ʻaina pipiʻi a me kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma hope ke hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa i ka pō spaghetti a me kahi DVD hoʻohenehene me kāu mau keiki ma ka home.
5) E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka lokomaikaʻi
I kekahi manawa, me he mea lā he mea nalo ka lokomaikaʻi maʻamau. E aʻo i kāu mau keiki e hāʻawi i ka hauʻoli i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi o ka mahalo a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kekahi i kekahi.
6) E hana i kou Home i wahi o nā ʻōlelo lokomaikaʻi
Hoʻomaka pinepine ka hakakā ʻana o nā kaikunāne ke ʻōlelo kekahi keiki i kekahi mea ʻino a hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha i kekahi keiki. Pane kēlā keiki me kekahi ʻōlelo hōʻino ʻē aʻe. Piʻi koke ka hakakā. No ka uhaki ʻana i kēia pōʻaiapuni, pono e loaʻa ke kānāwai ʻaʻohe kanaka e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kekahi lālā ʻē aʻe o ka ʻohana a pono e hoʻokō ʻia ke kānāwai, me nā keiki a me nā mākua.
7) Manaʻoʻiʻo i kekahi i kekahi
Hoʻokumu nā keiki i ka manaʻo ponoʻī a lākou e lawe ai i ke koena o ko lākou ola i ka manawa a lākou e noho ai me ko lākou mau mākua. Inā ʻoe e nīnau i ke kanaka me ka nui o nā mākau pehea i aʻo ai i kēia mau mea, ʻo ka pane ʻana i ka wā e ulu ana, manaʻoʻiʻo maoli ko lākou mau mākua iā lākou. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe hiki i kāu mau keiki ke hana i kekahi mea, lilo ia i wānana hoʻokō ponoʻī.
8) Hāʻawi i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ma kahi o ka hoʻohewa
ʻOiai he mea maʻalahi paha ka ʻimi hewa ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi a kāu mau keiki a me kāu kāne e hana ai i ka lā a pau, e hoʻomanaʻo e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ka hauʻoli nui me kahi huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi o ka hoʻomaikaʻi, akā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mana e hoʻopau i ka hauʻoli ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka hoʻohewa. E hoʻāʻo e ʻimi i kahi mea maikaʻi e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana i kēlā me kēia lā.
9) E emi iho ka hopohopo
Nui nā manawa i nele nā ʻohana i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli no ka mea paʻa loa lākou i ka hopohopo no nā mea. ʻO ia paha ka hana, ke kula, ke kālā, a i ʻole kekahi o nā mea ʻē aʻe o ke ola e hopohopo pinepine ai nā kānaka. E ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i ka hapa nui o nā pilikia e hoʻoponopono iā lākou iho, a ʻaʻohe mea ʻino e like me ka mea i ʻike ʻia i kekahi manawa. Inā ʻike ʻoe ua hopohopo nui kāu kāne a i ʻole kāu keiki no kekahi mea, e hoʻolālā i kahi lā pilikino me lākou a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka manawa e haʻi aku i ko lākou mau manaʻo. ʻO ka kamaʻilio pinepine ʻana e pili ana i ka pilikia hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻopau ʻana i ke kaumaha a me ka hopohopo, a hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i kekahi mau manaʻo a i ʻole nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ke kōkua ʻana iā lākou e hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia.
10) Kokua kekahi i kekahi
ʻO ka hope, a ʻo ka mea nui loa, e hoʻomanaʻo he hui kou ʻohana, a pono ʻoe e kākoʻo piha i kāu "mau hoa hui." Hoʻopili kēia i ke kōkua ʻana i kekahi i kekahi i nā hana inā pono, e hana i nā mea maikaʻi no kekahi i kekahi no kou ʻike ʻana he mea ia e makemake ai, a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka pepeiao a i ʻole ka lima kōkua i ka wā e pōʻino ai nā mea. ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi aʻe ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana aia iā ʻoe ke kākoʻo piha o nā ʻohana āpau ma hope ou.
11) Noho Hoʻoikaika pū
Mea huna bonus. He mea nui ka manawa ʻohana maikaʻi. ʻO ka ʻohana paha, ka manawa ma ka paka, a i ʻole ka hana pū ʻana i nā hana. ʻO ka ʻohana e hoʻomau nei i ka hana, a hana pū i nā mea hou aʻe e hana i nā pilina paʻa a ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli.
He aha kāu mea huna no ka ʻohana hauʻoli? E kaomi i lalo i lalo o kēia ʻaoʻao a kaʻana like i kāu mau manaʻo 🙂
ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā hoʻokahi wale nō mea huna. He ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki a me kēlā me kēia ʻohana. No laila, e hoʻopau wau me kahi moʻolelo pōkole. ʻO ia ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu keiki hiapo. He hana ʻeha lōʻihi ia no kaʻu wahine. Ua hānau ʻia kaʻu hiapo he 10 paona i kahaha nui i nā mea a pau. Ma hope pono o ka hānau ʻana, hāʻawi mai ka pale keiki iaʻu i kaʻu keiki no ka manawa mua. Ua haʻalulu koʻu mau lima, a me nā waimaka e kahe ana ma koʻu mau papalina. I koʻu paʻa ʻana i kaʻu keiki me ka ʻoluʻolu, nānā au i ka pale keiki me he mea lā e ʻōlelo ana 'he aha?' Ua pane wale ʻo ia "Aloha wale iā ia". ʻO "aloha" nā aʻa e hoʻopaʻa a hoʻopaʻa i ka ʻohana. Noʻu ka mea huna maoli i ka ʻohana hauʻoli. Mai laila mai e hiki ai, a e loaʻa i kēlā "Aloha" ka ʻohana i nā manawa maikaʻi a me nā wā ʻino.
ʻAʻole hiki ke kope a paʻi hou ʻia kekahi ʻāpana o kēia ʻatikala me ka ʻae ʻole o More4Kids Inc © a me nā kuleana āpau.
He ʻatikala maikaʻi loa!