I ka ʻike ʻana o kaʻu wahine e hānau ana kā māua keiki mua, ua liʻuliʻu ko māua koho ʻana i kahi inoa. Makemake ʻo ia i kahi mea kūʻokoʻa, ʻoiai makemake wau i kahi mea Baibala. ʻO ka mea paʻakikī wale nō ka inoa maʻamau a paʻakikī paha ke haʻi ʻana i nā inoa Baibala. Akā, ma ka manaʻo o kahi hoaaloha, ua hauʻoli mākou i ke kahuhipa. Akā, ua makemake mākou e kapa iā ia he Kahuhipa no kēia kumu nui loa: I kēlā me kēia manawa a mākou e ʻōlelo ai i kona inoa, hoʻomanaʻo ʻia mākou i ka makemake o ke Akua e mālama i kā mākou mau keiki no kona nani.
ʻO wau a me kaʻu wahine he mau Kalikiano Euanelio. Manaʻo mākou i ka ʻeuanelio a Iesu Kristo. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei mākou ʻo Iesū ke Keiki a ke Akua, ua make ma ke keʻa a ua hoʻāla ʻia mai ka make mai i kala ʻia ko mākou hewa a i loaʻa iā mākou ke ola mau loa me ia. A inā he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia nūhou maikaʻi, ʻaʻole anei e loaʻa nā hopena nui i kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao o kā mākou makua?
Ua ʻike wau ʻaʻole he papahana 12-step ka makua Karistiano e hānai i nā keiki kūpono. ʻO ka makua Karistiano ʻaʻole ia he mea liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka makua ma ka mālamalama o ke keʻa o Iesū Kristo. Ma kēia ʻatikala, makemake wau e kōkua i ke kau ʻana i ke kumu o ka mea holomua Kalikiano makua ʻo ia ka paipai ʻana i nā mākua he Kristiano e hoʻokokoke i ka makua ma ke ʻano o ka Baibala a me ke ʻano like me Kristo.
Eia naʻe ka ʻōlelo hōʻole: ʻAʻole wau i kākau i kēia ma ke ʻano he makua kūpono i ʻike ʻia e ka makua, a ʻaʻole wau e kākau nei ma ke ʻano he Karistiano kūpono i loaʻa i ke ola Kalikiano. E haʻi ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo wau a me kaʻu wahine i ke kau paʻakikī loa ma ke ʻano he mau mākua i kēia manawa. Hoʻihoʻi wale mai mākou i nā māhoe hānau hou i ka home, a ma muli o ko mākou lawe ʻana iā lākou i ka home (a no kekahi mau pule ma mua o ka hānau ʻana) ua paʻakikī kā mākou keiki 4 a me 2 makahiki i ka makua. Ua manaʻo lākou e hoʻohuli ʻia ko lākou mau honua i lalo (ʻo ia hoʻi), a hoʻomaka lākou e makemake hou iā mākou a hana i mea e ʻike ai i ko mākou manaʻo me ka nānā ʻole i ke kino hoʻōla o kaʻu wahine, ko mākou hiamoe ʻole, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe a pau. ʻO ke kaumaha e hiki mai ana me kahi keiki hānau hou (e waiho wale i ʻelua!).
No laila, e like me ka mea e pono ai ke haiolelo maikai, e kuhikuhi aku au ia oe i ka Palapala Hemolele mamua o na mea e pili ana ia'u. A e nana au i kekahi o na mokuna nui o ka Baibala (e pili ana i ka makua a me ke ano nui): Deuteronomy 6. Ma hope o ko'u auwana ana ma ka waonahele no na makahiki he kanaha, ua kokoke ka poe Iseraela e komo iloko o ka olelo i olelo mua ia. Land, a ke hāʻawi nei ʻo Mose i kāna haʻiʻōlelo aloha ma mua o kona make ʻana, a ma ʻaneʻi ʻo ia e hōʻike nei i ʻehā mau manaʻo nui e pili ana i ka makua pono a me ka Baibala.
1. He Baibala ka makua Kristiano (Deut. 6:1-2)
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Eia ke kauoha, na kanawai, a me na kanawai, a Iehova ko oukou Akua i kauoha mai ai ia'u e ao aku ia oukou, i hana oukou ia mau mea ma ka aina a oukou e hele aku nei e noho, i makau oukou ia Iehova ko oukou. E ke Akua, o oe, a me kau keiki, a me ke keiki a kau keiki, i ka malama ana i kana mau kanawai a me kana mau kauoha a'u e kauoha aku nei ia oe, i na la a pau o kou ola ana, a i loihi ai kou mau la.
Ma ka Deuteronomy, ua haʻi hou ʻo Mose i ke kānāwai (a i ʻole ka ʻAhlelo) i nā kānaka ma mua o ko lākou komo ʻana i ka ʻāina i hoʻohiki ʻia. No ka Haku mai keia kanawai, a o kana mau olelo i kona poe kanaka berita e wehewehe i ke ano o ko lakou noho ana ma ke ano o kona poe kanaka berita. Akā, e nānā i ke ʻano o ke kānāwai a pono e hāʻawi ʻia: mai ka Haku mai iā Mose; ʻO Mose i nā kānaka; na kanaka i ka lakou mau keiki; kela mau keiki i ka lakou mau keiki.
No laila, ʻo ka nui o ke kaua a me ka uʻu o ka makua Kristiano ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻōlelo a ke Akua. Ua manaʻo ke Akua e haʻi ʻia kāna ʻōlelo mai nā mākua i nā keiki, i ka wā kahiko a me ke Kauoha Hou. Naʻe pehē ʻe Paula ʻi he ʻEfesō 6:4, “ʻE ngaahi tamai, ʻoua naʻa fakaitaitaʻi ʻa hoʻomou fānaú, ka ʻo fakatupu ia ʻi he akonaki mo e akonaki ʻa e ʻEikí.”
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i ke kumu o ka makua Kristiano, ʻo ia ka Baibala. ʻO ia ke kumu ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻolapalapa wale i ka makua Karistiano i loko o nā ʻanuʻu maʻalahi a i ʻole nā loina. ʻO ka Baibala ʻaʻole ia he puke kānāwai ʻoki a maloʻo, akā he hōʻuluʻulu o nā puke 66 mai nā mea kākau like ʻole, nā au, a me nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole, akā me ka moʻolelo hoʻokahi e pili ana i ke kumumanaʻo o ke Akua e hoʻōla i nā kānaka hewa ma o Iesū Kristo. A, ma ke ano he mau makua, ua kauohaia makou e hanai i ka makou mau keiki e ike i ka olelo a ka Baibala; ʻaʻole wale e pili ana i ka pono akā e pili ana i ka hoʻōla ʻana a mākou e pono ai a loaʻa iā Kristo.
2. Hoʻomaka ka makua Karistiano me kou puʻuwai i mua o ka Haku (Deut. 6:4-6)
"E hoʻolohe, e ka ʻIseraʻela: ʻO Iēhova ko mākou Akua, ʻo Iēhova hoʻokahi. E aloha aku oe ia Iehova i kou Akua me kou naau a pau, a me kou uhane a pau, a me kou ikaika a pau. A ʻo kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻu e kauoha aku nei iā ʻoe i kēia lā, ma loko o kou naʻau.
Ma ka huaʻōlelo "mākua Kalikiano," pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ka huaʻōlelo "Christian" e wehewehe i ka makua ma mua o ka wehewehe ʻana i ke ʻano makua. Pono ka makua Kalikiano e lilo i karistiano: ʻo ka mea i haʻi a mihi i kā lākou hewa a loaʻa ka makana manuahi o ka lokomaikaʻi a me ke kala ʻana ma o ke ola, ka make, a me ke alahouana o ka Haku ʻo Iesū Kristo. Aloha lākou iā ia a hāʻawi aku i kona haku.
Pea ko e ʻEiki ko Sīsuú naʻá ne leaʻaki ʻa e Teutalonome 6:5 pea ui ia ko e “Ko e Tuʻutuʻuni Māʻolungá” (Mātiu 22:37). ʻAʻole e kahe ka makua Kristiano (kekahi mea o ke ola Kalikiano) mai ka hana wale ʻana x, y, a z, aka, mai na makua a me na makua e aloha ana i ka Haku me ko lakou naau, uhane, a me ka ikaika.
ʻO kēia paha ka mea paʻakikī loa, no ka mea, ʻaʻohe mea i aloha i ka Haku me kona naʻau a pau. Ua hewa mākou a pau a hāʻule i ke kūlana a ke Akua i kau ai no mākou (Roma 3:23). A, ma nā ʻano he nui, lawe mai kā mākou mau keiki i kā mākou hewa. Hoʻopuka lākou i ko mākou huhū, ko mākou manaʻo ponoʻī, ko mākou huhū, ko mākou koi no ka hoʻolohe pono. A i kēlā mau manawa e pono ai mākou e haʻi aku i kā mākou mau hewa, me ka ʻike ʻana he ʻoiaʻiʻo a he pololei ke Akua e kala mai iā mākou (1 John 1: 9), a ʻo ke aloha lokomaikaʻi e hoʻoneʻe iā mākou e aloha i ke Akua a aloha i kekahi (1 John 4 :19).
3. ʻO ka makua Karistiano ka manaʻo (Deut. 6: 7-9)
“E aʻo ikaika aku ʻoe ia mau mea i kāu mau keiki, a e kamaʻilio aku ia mau mea i kou noho ʻana ma kou hale, a i kou hele ʻana ma ke ala, a i kou moe ʻana i lalo, a i kou ala ʻana. E nakinaki oe ia mau mea i hoailona ma kou lima, a e lilo ia i hoailona mawaena o kou mau maka. E kakau oe ia mau mea ma na lapauila o kou hale, a ma kou mau ipuka.
Naʻe pehē ʻe ha tangata poto ʻi he taimi ʻe taha, “ʻOku ʻikai fakangataʻaʻi ʻa e tohi ʻo e ngaahi tohi lahi” (Koheleti 12:12), pea ko e moʻoni ia ʻo e ngaahi tohi fakatuʻí. ʻAʻole ia he ʻōlelo ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā lākou ko lākou wahi, akā ʻōlelo ʻo Mose ma ʻaneʻi, ʻo ka mālama ʻana i ka makua mālama pono ma ka haʻi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo a ke Akua ma nā hanana maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā - noho ma ka papaʻaina, holo i ke kaʻa, hele e hiamoe a ala. . Pono lākou e like me ko mākou ʻaʻahu a me ke kāhiko ma ko mākou mau paia (akā, ʻoi aku ka mea nui, ʻaʻahu ʻia ma ko mākou puʻuwai).
He mea nui ʻaʻole e loaʻa i kā mākou makua i ka "paralysis by analysis." Inā loaʻa iā mākou ka Baibala, ka mea i "hanu ʻia e ke Akua a he mea pono no ke aʻo ʻana, no ke aʻo ʻana, no ka hoʻoponopono ʻana, a no ke aʻo ʻana ma ka pono" (ʻo ia nā pahuhopu nui no ka makua, ʻaʻole anei?), a laila pono mākou e kamaʻilio. kēlā ʻōlelo mau a me ka manaʻo i kā mākou mau keiki.
ʻAʻole pono ia e hana maʻamau, e like me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e mālama i kāu mau keiki no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka Baibala hoʻokahi hola, akā ma ka hoʻokomo ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo Baibala i kēlā me kēia manawa. Ke nīnau kāu mau keiki noiʻi iā ʻoe i kahi nīnau a me ke ola a i ʻole ka honua, mai hoʻopau wale! Inā hiki iā ʻoe, e kuhikuhi iā lākou i ke Akua a i ʻole ka Baibala no ka pane.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻōlelo mai ʻo Mose iā mākou e hana pēlā.
4. Hoʻoikaika ka makua Karistiano i ka lokomaikaʻi a me ke aloha o ke Akua (Deut. 6: 20-25)
I ka wa e ninau mai ai kau keiki ia oe ma keia hope aku, He aha ke ano o na oihana, a me na kanawai, a me na kanawai a Iehova ko kakou Akua i kauoha mai ai ia oe? alaila e olelo aku oe i kau keiki, He poe kauwa makou na Parao ma Aigupita. A lawe mai la o Iehova ia kakou mai Aigupita mai me ka lima ikaika. A hoike mai la o Iehova i na hoailona, a me na mea kupanaha, he nui a he ino, ia Aigupita, a ia Parao, a me kona ohua a pau, imua o ko makou mau maka. A lawe mai ʻo ia iā mākou mai laila mai, i lawe mai ʻo ia iā mākou i loko, a e hāʻawi mai iā mākou i ka ʻāina āna i hoʻohiki ai e hāʻawi mai i ko mākou mau kūpuna. A kauoha mai la o Iehova ia makou e hana i keia mau kanawai a pau, e makau ia Iehova i ko makou Akua, i mea e pono mau ai makou, i malama mai ai oia ia makou i ke ola, e like me kakou i keia la. A e lilo ia i pono no kakou, ke malama kakou e hana i keia mau kauoha a pau imua o Iehova ko kakou Akua, e like me kana i kauoha mai ai ia kakou.
Nīnau kēia keiki hypothetical i kona makuakāne no ke aha lākou e hana ai i nā mea hoʻomana āpau a lākou e hana ai (a, inā heluhelu ʻoe i ka Deuteronomy a pau, he nui!). Ua hiki i ka makua kāne ke ʻōlelo, "ʻO ia wale nō kā mākou hana." "ʻAʻole au i ʻike, e nīnau i kou makuahine." "ʻAʻohe mea nui, e hana wale." Ua wehewehe ʻo ia i ke "kumu" i nā kikoʻī nani. "Ke hana nei mākou i kēia mau mea no ka mea ua hoʻopakele ʻo Iēhova iā mākou mai ka hoʻoluhi ʻana ma ʻAigupita, a ke hana nei mākou no kona nani a me ko mākou pono."
Ma ke ʻano he makua Karistiano, ʻo ka mea nui loa a mākou e kamaʻilio ai i kā mākou mau keiki, ʻo ia ka ʻeuanelio a Iesu Kristo, ʻo ia ʻo ia a me kāna hana ma ke keʻa. ʻO nā ʻōlelo aʻo a pau i hāʻawi ʻia iā mākou ʻo ka ʻeuanelio ke kumu. No laila, inā nīnau kāu keiki "No ke aha? No ke aha mākou e hele ai i ka hale pule i kēlā me kēia Sābati? No ke aha mākou e pule pū ai? No ke aha mākou e heluhelu ai i ka Baibala? (a i ʻole he nīnau i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka pane ʻana ma kahi ʻano politika a moʻomeheu e like me mākou i kēia lā), hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā lākou i ke kumu. "No ka mea, ua make ʻo Kristo ma ke keʻa e kala mai i kā mākou mau hewa a loaʻa ke ola mau me ia, a ua hōʻike mai ʻo ia iā mākou i ke ola e hoʻohanohano a hoʻonani iā ia iho i aliʻi a hiki i kona hoʻi ʻana mai a kāhea iā mākou i ka home."
E hoolohe i na haiolelo a Pastor Ricks ma Halepule Grace Fellowship.
ʻO Rick Leeman (M.Div., Southern Baptist Theological Seminary) he kahunapule no Grace Fellowship Church ma Marysville, Ohio. Ua male ʻo ia me kāna wahine ʻo Laura mai 2017 a he ʻehā keiki: Shepherd, Rachel, Patrick, a me Titus. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolohe i kāna mau haʻiʻōlelo ma gfcmarysville.com.
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