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Aʻole kūpono! - Nā Manaʻo Hoʻomaikaʻi no ka Pono a me ka Mahalo

Nā Manaʻo Mahalo no ka pono
Me ka hoʻokokoke ʻana mai o ka Hoʻomaikaʻi, ua pā wau i nā manaʻo o ka pono a me ka mahalo. I kēia kau Hoʻomaikaʻi, e hoʻokuʻu ana au i nā ʻōhumu "ʻAʻole kūpono" mai iaʻu a me nā keiki. No ke aha ʻoe ʻaʻole e hui pū me mākou i ko mākou nānā ʻana i kā mākou mau pōmaikaʻi a hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka mahalo?

na Stacey Schifferdecker

Me ka hoʻokokoke ʻana mai o ka Hoʻomaikaʻi, ua pā wau i nā manaʻo o ka pono a me ka mahalo. ʻAʻole loa wau i noʻonoʻo i ka pili ʻana o kēia mau manaʻo ʻelua, akā aia mākou i kēia manawa i ka manawa o "ʻAʻole kūpono kēlā!" ma ko'u hale. ʻŌlelo ʻo W, ke keiki kula waena, ʻaʻole kūpono ka loaʻa ʻana o kāna hoa B he kelepona hele a ʻaʻole. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo J, ke kaikamahine kula haʻahaʻa, ʻaʻole kūpono ke ʻai ʻo W i ka pizza ma ka hālāwai hui ʻōpio o ka hale pule a ʻoi aku ka moe o kēlā me kēia kanaka ma mua o kāna. A ʻaʻole manaʻo ʻo K he kūpono ka nui o kāna mau pilikia makemakika e hana i kēlā me kēia pō.

No laila, no ke aha i manaʻo ai kēia mau ʻōhumu ʻana iaʻu i ka mahalo? ʻAʻole wau mahalo i nā ʻano ʻino o nā keiki! ʻO ka mea pōʻino, pinepine ka leo o ka "ʻAʻole kūpono!" he hoailona ia o ka naau mahalo ole. No ka laʻana, pono e mahalo ʻo W no kona kiʻi ʻia ʻana mai ke kula ma mua o ka hele ʻana i ka home e like me B. He meaʻai ko J ma kahi liʻiliʻi e ʻai ai a me kahi moena mahana a palekana e moe ai.

Ke hoʻomanaʻo mai nei kēia mau mea a pau iaʻu i ka ʻōlelo nane o ka Baibala e like me ka paʻakikī o kaʻu papa kula Sabati. E like me kā Iesu haʻi ʻana i ka moʻolelo, hoʻouna kekahi kanaka i nā limahana i ka māla waina i ke kakahiaka, ma hope o kona ʻae ʻana e uku iā lākou i hoʻokahi denari no kā lākou hana o ka lā. He mau hola ma hope mai, ua hoʻouna hou ʻo ia i nā limahana hou e hui pū me lākou, a i kekahi mau hola ma hope mai, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā limahana. Ua hiki mai ka hopena o ka lā, a ua loaʻa i nā limahana a pau ka uku hoʻokahi, inā paha ua hana lākou i hoʻokahi hola a i ʻole ka lā holoʻokoʻa. Ua kūʻē ka poʻe hana ma laila i ka lā holoʻokoʻa me ka leo uē "ʻAʻole kūpono!" A me ka pane a ka haku? "Akā, ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kekahi o lākou, 'E ka hoaaloha, ʻaʻole au e hana hewa iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole anei ʻoe i ʻae e hana i kahi denari? E lawe i kāu uku a hele. Makemake au e hāʻawi i ke kanaka i hoʻolimalima hope ʻia e like me kaʻu i hāʻawi aku ai iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole anei iaʻu ke kuleana e hana i kaʻu mea e makemake ai me kaʻu kālā ponoʻī? A lili paha ʻoe no koʻu lokomaikaʻi?' No laila e lilo ka poʻe hope i mua, a ʻo ka mea mua e lilo i hope. ( Mataio 20:13-16 ).

I kēia manawa, ʻike wau he ʻōlelo nane kēia moʻolelo e pili ana i ke ola mau loa, a ʻaʻohe oʻu pilikia i ka paheʻe ʻana o kekahi i ka lani i ka minuke hope. Hiki iaʻu ke hauʻoli pū me nā ʻānela! Akā, e lawe i kēia paukū ma ke ʻano he nui, a aia wau ma laila me ka poʻe hoʻopiʻi e hoʻōho ana "ʻAʻole kūpono!" Inā ʻoi aku ka ikaika o kaʻu hana, makemake au i ka uku hou aʻe, a ke huhū nei au i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia e loaʻa i nā mea aloha ʻole. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole wau ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kaʻu mau keiki i ka wā e pili ana i koʻu mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka pono.

ʻO ka mea kaumaha, ʻo ka mea e haʻi mai iaʻu e pili ana iaʻu iho, ke hopohopo nui nei au i ka mea a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka nānā ʻana i nā makana he nui a ke Akua i hāʻawi mai iaʻu. Manaʻo wau e haʻi ana ke Akua iaʻu i ka mea like aʻu e haʻi aku ai i kaʻu mau keiki ke uē lākou, "ʻAʻole pono": E helu i kāu mau pōmaikaʻi. E mahalo i kāu mea i loaʻa. Mai hopohopo no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Manaʻo wau inā hoʻolei ke Akua i nā laina maʻamau i aloha ʻia e nā mākua i nā makahiki: “ʻAʻole pono ke ola. ʻAʻole ka manaʻo o ka kaulike.

I kēia kau Hoʻomaikaʻi, e hoʻokuʻu ana au i nā ʻōhumu "ʻAʻole kūpono" mai iaʻu a me nā keiki. No ke aha ʻoe ʻaʻole e hui pū me mākou i ko mākou nānā ʻana i kā mākou mau pōmaikaʻi a hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka mahalo?

Kawaihae
ʻO Stacey Schifferdecker ka makuahine hauʻoli akā hauʻoli o nā keiki kula ʻekolu—ʻelua keikikāne a me kahi kaikamahine. He mea kākau kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia, he Kuhina no nā keiki, he mea manawaleʻa PTA, a he alakaʻi Scout. Loaʻa iā Stacey kahi kēkelē laepua ma Communications a me Palani a me ke kēkelē laepua ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania. Ua kākau nui ʻo ia e pili ana i ka makua a me ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka ʻoihana, ʻenehana, huakaʻi, a me nā leʻaleʻa.

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