I koʻu mau makahiki mua ma ke ʻano he makua, ua ʻike maoli ka poʻe akamai i ka mālama ʻana i ka makaʻu i loko o koʻu puʻuwai. Me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a pau a lākou i ʻōlelo ai, ua hopohopo nui au: Ua haʻalele anei au i kekahi o kā lākou mau kauoha e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻolilo iaʻu i mea hemahema ma ke ʻano he makua a hoʻohuli i kaʻu keiki i hooligan palaualelo ʻaʻole hana a hiki ʻole ke hana i nā pilina maikaʻi i ke ola?
Me kaʻu mau pilikia olakino e hoʻokaumaha nei iaʻu, kahi ʻoihana paʻa i ka nānā ʻana, a me nā hana a pau o kēlā me kēia lā e pili ana i ka holo ʻana i ka hale, ua pōkole ka manawa a me ka ikaika i kekahi manawa ma koʻu hale. A ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo loea. Ua hoʻoholo hope wau ʻo ka mea hiki iaʻu ke hana i kaʻu hana maikaʻi loa, e hoʻokuʻu i ke koena, a me ka manaʻolana e lawa koʻu aloha ʻole a me ka nānā ʻana.
Eia kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo loea nui aʻu i haki ai a pehea i hana ai no mākou.
Ke kaupalena ana i ka manawa pale
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Inā hoʻokahi kānāwai aʻu i nānā ʻole ai, ʻo ia kēia. I koʻu wā e hana ai i kekahi hana a i ʻole nā hana o ka hale, hele mai ke kīwī i kekahi manawa. ʻO kekahi manawa, i ka pau ʻana o ka lā lōʻihi, ʻo kaʻu makemake wale nō e hoʻomaha a hoʻopaʻa i kaʻu mau pēpē ma luna o kahi moe, a ʻo ke ala maikaʻi loa e hōʻoia ai e noho mālie lākou, ʻo ia ke kau ʻana i kahi kiʻi kiʻi. ʻO ka hopena, ua nānā au i nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe o Caillou a me Peppa Pig ma mua o kaʻu e hoʻomanaʻo ai. I ko mākou nānā ʻana, kūkākūkā pinepine mākou i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ka poʻe a me ke ʻano o kā lākou hana ʻana i kekahi mau kūlana.
ʻAʻole ʻo ke kīwī wale nō manawa pale Ua hoʻokuʻu au iā lākou e ʻoluʻolu. Ua pāʻani kaʻu mau keiki i nā pāʻani kamepiula, i kekahi manawa no nā hola. Ua kaupalena au i ka hana ʻino i kā lākou mau pāʻani a ua hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i ka hana ʻana o kekahi o ka manawa pale, e like me nā haʻuki hula Wii a me nā haʻuki.
ʻO ka uhaki ʻana i kēia lula ʻaʻole i hōʻino i kaʻu mau keiki ma kekahi ʻano. He mau haumāna pololei A lāua, a haʻi mai nā kumu iaʻu i ko lāua ʻano maikaʻi a me ke ʻano. Akā naʻe, e ʻōlelo wau, ma kahi o ka ʻae ʻana iā lākou i ka manawa pale ʻole, ua koʻikoʻi au i ke koʻikoʻi o ka noho ʻana no ka mea ʻike wau he pilikia maoli ka momona o ka wā kamaliʻi. Mai ka manawa o kaʻu mau keiki he 5 a 6 mau makahiki, e pāʻani ana lākou i nā haʻuki i hoʻonohonoho ʻia. I kēia manawa, i ka makahiki hope o kaʻu keiki i ke kula kiʻekiʻe, aia ʻo ia ma ka ʻāina kea a me ka track. ʻO kaʻu kaikamahine, ʻo ia ke kula ʻelua, aia ma kāna kula keʻa ʻāina, volleyball, a me nā kime kinipopo. A manaʻo he aha? Ua ʻoi aku lākou ma mua o ka nui o ka manawa pale i ʻōlelo ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻO ka ʻae ʻana i ka nui o ka manawa pale i kōkua i kaʻu keiki e ʻike i kona ala i ke ola. I kēia hāʻule, e hele ana ʻo ia i ke kulanui ma ke ʻano he kumu ʻepekema kamepiula. Inā he palena koʻu manawa pale, ʻaʻole paha i hiki.
ʻAi pū ma ka pākaukau
Ma ke ʻano he ʻohana, ʻaʻole mākou i ʻai pū ma ka papaʻaina ma ka home. I kekahi pō i ka makahiki i hala, ua hana au i kahi ʻaina ahiahi, hoʻonohonoho i ka papaʻaina lumi ʻaina, a koi mākou e ʻai pū ma laila. Ua haʻi koke aku kaʻu mau keiki i ke ʻano ʻē, a ʻakaʻaka mākou i ke ʻano o ke ʻano a me ke ʻano ʻino.
Ke mākaukau ka ʻaina ahiahi, hopu mākou i kā mākou mau papa a hele i ka lumi hoʻokipa. E nānā pū mākou i kahi hōʻike kīwī pōkole i ka wā e ʻai ana mākou - ke nānā nei mākou i kēia manawa i nā Pāka a me nā Leʻaleʻa - a kamaʻilio i ka wā o ka hoʻolaha.
ʻIke wau i kekahi mau ʻohana e hoʻohana ana i kā lākou ʻai i manawa e hoʻopaʻa ai - a maikaʻi kēlā. Akā, hana mākou i kā mākou pilina ma nā ʻano ʻē aʻe. E hele wāwae pū mākou, e kaʻana like i kā mākou mau mele punahele, e pāʻani i nā pāʻani, a e kamaʻilio ma kahi o 20 a 30 mau minuke ke hoʻi mai kaʻu mau keiki mai ke kula i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hoa aloha no kaʻu keiki
E haʻi aku kēlā me kēia loea makua iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e lilo i hoaaloha no kāu keiki no ka mea e hoʻopōʻino i ka laina aʻo āu e pono ai ma ke ʻano he makua. Ua manaʻo wau he mea ʻakaʻaka kēia i koʻu mau makahiki mua ma ke ʻano he makua, a ke hana nei au. I koʻu manaʻo, ʻo ka lilo ʻana i hoaaloha no kāu keiki e kōkua iā ia e ʻike i ke ʻano o ka hoaaloha maoli. Pono nā hoaaloha e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe i ka wā e pono ai ʻoe e kamaʻilio, kākoʻo iā ʻoe i ka wā e pono ai ʻoe, a mai makaʻu e hoʻoponopono mālie iā ʻoe ke hele ʻoe i waho o ka laina.
Ua noho mau au a mau loa aku e hoaloha me ka'u mau keiki. I ka wā liʻiliʻi o kaʻu mau keiki, he hale lole kaʻu kaikamahine i loko o kona lumi moe i hana ʻia e like me ke kumu lāʻau, aʻu i kūʻai ai no ka mea ʻo kaʻu keiki kāne a me kaʻu kaikamahine he poʻe pā nui i nā puke Magic Treehouse. Ua hoʻokumu mākou me kaʻu mau keiki i kahi hui a mākou i kapa ai i ka Hui Hoa ʻEkolu, a piʻi mākou i kēlā hale lole a hui mākou i nā manawa a mākou e makemake ai. I ka wā o nā hālāwai, heluhelu au iā lākou i nā puke pōkole, a kūkākūkā mākou i nā mea āpau i ko mākou manaʻo.
ʻOiai he mau makahiki i hala mai ko mākou hui hope ʻana o ka Hui ʻEkolu Hoa a ua hāʻawi ʻia ka hale lole i ko lākou mau hoahānau, ke hoʻomanaʻo mau nei kaʻu mau keiki i kā mākou hui a ʻakaʻaka i nā hoʻomanaʻo a mākou i hana ai ma laila.
Ke huhū nā hoaaloha o kaʻu mau keiki i ko lākou mau mākua a hoʻopiʻi iā lākou, pīhoihoi kaʻu mau keiki no ka mea, manaʻo lākou he aloha a mahalo nā kānaka a pau i ko lākou mau mākua e like me lākou. Manaʻo wau he ʻāpana o ke kumu o kā mākou paʻa paʻa ʻana no ka mea ʻike a hoʻomaopopo wau iā lākou ma ke ʻano he hoaaloha, ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano he makua wale nō.
E hoʻolohe i nā manaʻo - ʻaʻole nā kānāwai
Inā he makua hou ʻoe e koʻikoʻi ana i nā lula a pau āu i ʻike ai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hahai, manaʻo wau e hele i ke ala aʻu i hana ai. ʻAʻole au i mālama i nā lula i manaʻo ʻole ʻia iaʻu, a ua nānā au i nā mea ʻehā: ʻo ka nui o nā kamaʻilio ʻana, e hōʻike ana i kāu mau keiki e aloha ʻoe iā lākou me ka ʻole, mahalo i ko lākou mau manaʻo, a me ka paipai ʻana iā lākou e loaʻa ke kaulike i nā mea āpau a lākou e hana ai.
He makuahine ʻo Shannon Serpette o ʻelua a he mea kākau moʻolelo lanakila a me ka manuahi e noho ana ma Illinois. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kona mau lā e kākau ai, e kau ana me kāna mau keiki a me kāna kāne, a me ka ʻimi ʻana i kāna leʻaleʻa punahele, ka ʻike metala, i kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ia. Hiki ke loaʻa iā Serpette ma writerslifeforme@gmail.com
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