Melissa and RylandA More4kids exclusive interview with Melissa Earnest. I hope everyone will enjoy this interview about a real important topic affecting many parents: Life with Autism

On October 2, 2013, Mississippi wife, mom and proud NRA member, Melissa Earnest was just that, a wife and mom. A noble full-time, over-time job, to be sure, but not many people knew her name. Then she posted a video on Facebook and suddenly the Earnest household was on the map and Melissa Earnest was a household word.

The now famous “Grabman Video” went viral with 86,000 shares on Facebook and more than 60,000 views on YouTube in just over three months. What has ensued over the course of those three months is the life of a young woman suddenly thrust into the limelight. Every aspect of her life is now scrutinized by people who don't even know her. But that hasn't stopped her from turning her new found fame into something good and as a way to help people. She hasn't been shy about sharing her thoughts on various causes and current events. But this transparency just seems to endear her more to her fans. She is the real deal and she has welcomed us all into her home and into her life.

It was during those first three months that she revealed something very personal. In those early months we learned that Melissa Earnest has an autistic son.

Sitting down and talking to Melissa Earnest is like chatting with an old friend. She talks about her 'Cinderella story' with still just a bit of shock. She admits to being scared with it first started. She said her first priorities have always been her faith and her roles as wife and mother. She originally started creating the videos on Facebook because she loves making people smile. The videos and interaction were a coping mechanism as she grieved over her grandmother and aunt being placed in separate nursing homes. She credits those two women with being her 'inspiration in life' and it hurt to see it happen.

When the 'grabman' video took off, she was blindsided. But good things have come out of it and parents have been able to see a doting mother who adores her children, a stay at home mom who is making it work. They are also seeing, through her son, that autism is indeed beautiful. This is her story.

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two upset pouting girls unable to resolve their problemsTeaching your child how to resolve conflicts is a necessary part of their emotional intellect, and critical decision making skills. Conflicts are a typical part of every life – whether simple or complicated. It is essential that we all are equipped with the knowledge of how to resolve conflicts. Conflict resolution should be taught to children at a very young age. While it is your responsibility to teach this very important lesson to your child, you are likely to find that it is quite challenging. This is why I elected to create this guide for teaching your child how to resolve conflicts.

1. The first thing that you should teach your child when it comes to resolving conflicts is that we are all different. We do not always think the same thoughts, believe in the same things, or act in the same ways. It is important that your child understands that these are the things that make us individuals and it is ok to have different thoughts, beliefs, and even act differently. We should teach them to appreciate the uniqueness in each person that we come in contact with. By teaching your child this, you are already taking the first step in conflict resolution before a problem even arises.

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happy child with a positive attitideIt is an almost universal desire of parents to want their children to grow up in a happy and healthy environment. Most will spend plenty of time addressing how to help their kids feel loved and appreciated every single day. However, life seems to get in the way of these plans so many times, and parents find themselves spending most of their waking hours in survival mode instead of nurturing that quality time with the kids.
If you are a parent that is concerned that positive parenting techniques have not spent enough time in your home, you will undoubtedly be relieved to know that positive parenting is easier and more natural than it looks. With a few tips and reminders, you will be ready to relate to your kids with an attitude that will radiate the positive parenting philosophies that you are striving for.READ More on Positive Parenting Techniques that Raise Positive Kids

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Finding an appropriate magazine for your child can be a daunting task. So many slick, engaging magazines that are on the market today will draw your child in only to give him or her messages that go against your family values. With so many kid's magazines out there it is almost impossible to review them all. How do you find the right one? Well, we are here to help. With kids, ours and yours, in mind, we have compiled a list of the top 10 children’s magazines that are family friendly and sure to meet your approval. Many of these have withstood the test of time, entertaining and educating children for decades. They are great for helping to improve reading and retention skills while being entertaining and educational. Go ahead! Take a look!

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10. National Geographic

National Geographic has long educated and entertained adults, now children ages 8 and up can also enjoy National Geographic on their own level. National Geographic Kids magazine is among the top of children’s magazines with games, scientific experiments, puzzles and engaging articles on the environment, nature, space and animals – all designed to both teach and entertain. This award winning magazine takes kids on exciting adventures all around the globe.

9. Ranger Rick

The Ranger Rick Magazine has been around for several decades and has a long list of awards to attest to its great writing, amazing articles and fun puzzles. Each subscription includes a Junior Membership to the National Wildlife Federation. Written specifically for children ages 7 and up, this children’s magazine will keeps your kid’s attention for hours with its amazing photos of all sorts of animals, crafts and tons of fun facts. Younger kids, ages 4 to 7 can also get in on the fun with Ranger Rick Jr.

8. Jack And Jill

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Jack and Jill Magazine is another publication that has withstood the test of time. It offers kids ages 6 to 12 tons of fun, exciting and informative stories, biographies, puzzles and news articles. All of the content, including the games and crafts, are designed to stimulate young minds while entertaining and educating. You may have even read Jack and Jill when YOU were a child. Remember the anticipation you experienced when your subscription arrived? Give that same excitement and joy to the child in your life. There is something new, exciting and fun in each and every issue!

7. M Magazine

Being a tweener can be a frustrating time. You are too young for the ‘big kid magazines’ but too young for the ‘baby magazines.’ Enter M Magazine, the kid’s magazine written just for tweens. It helps keep them in tune with their favorite celebrities, actors and actresses as well as their favorite bands. The free full color posters included in each issue are sure to please! The articles will keep your tween engaged, hanging on every juicy bit of information. What a great way to get your kids to read!

6. Boy's Life

Boys from age 7 to 17 will find great articles, short fiction and poetry within the pages of Boy’s Life. It offers not only educational material, but also inspirational stories that are relevant to the young men of today. There are well written, engaging articles on science, sports, hobbies and nature with something to speak to each young man who thumbs through its pages. This kids’ magazine will inspire that young man in your life while fostering a love for reading.

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by Kevin CEO of More4kids

Best Websites for Parents

good parenting - father and son laughing and simply enjoying time togetherParenting can be a tough job, and most of us parents are grateful for all the help and advice we can get. How lucky are we to have the internet as a parenting resource in addition to our friends, family, books, and other helps! But the internet can be a little overwhelming too. Google “parenting” and you get 76,600,000 hits. Which websites have the information you need? Below are links to some of the best parenting websites out there. Here are our top picks. As we find or hear about more great ones we will add it to the list, so stop back. Now here is the list: READ More on Top Parenting Websites

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happy-new-year-2014Happy New Years 2014!

Make 2014 the year that your family makes a difference. Try one or several of these ways to give back in 2014 and give New Year’s resolutions a new spin.

1. Donate Items to your Local Animal Shelter or a Rescue

Many animal shelters and animal rescue organizations need supplies and donations on an ongoing basis. There are many ways that you can make a difference in the life of an animal, from being a foster to donating supplies like newspaper, blankets, toys, animal food and dishes. Or you can have collect money and make a donation. Check with your local ASPCA (http://www.aspca.org/get-involved), the Humans Society (http://www.humanesociety.org/issues/animal_rescue/) or find a local rescue in your area to support (http://www.petfinder.com/animal-shelters-and-rescues/search?)

2. Start a Community Recycling Program

Starting a recycling program in your neighborhood, community or city can be a big undertaking, but the results are well worth it. You can start with your own family and branch out from there, inspiring others to follow suit. Earth 911 has some great tips for getting started at http://earth911.com/general/start-a-community-recycling-program/. The Environmental Protection Agency also provides a detailed outline for starting a recycling program in your area, although it is on a somewhat larger scale, at http://www.epa.gov/region04/rcra/mgtoolkit/starting.html. What is important is getting started and actually making a difference.

3. Make a Blanket for a Child

Project Linus (http://www.projectlinus.org/) is a nationwide organization that collects blankets and gives them to children “in hospitals, shelters, social service agencies or anywhere that a child might be in need of a big hug” (Project Linus website). Any blanket style is accepted, as long as the blankets are homemade, washable, doesn’t have any pins and comes from an environment that is smoke free. Blanket patterns are available on the Project Linus website. There are many different patterns available for your family to choose as a project, including a weighted blanket pattern for children with sensory processing disorder or children with autism.

4. Go Green

When you go green, everyone wins. Families learn the importance of protecting the planet and often save a few dollars in the process. But going green goes way beyond recycling. There are tons of fun, interesting ways that your family can go green in 2014. Check out this list of 40 ways to go greener at home http://theartofsimple.net/tips-to-go-green-at-home/. Better Homes and Gardens also has a good list of tips on their Daily Green page (http://www.thedailygreen.com/going-green/tips/).

5. Help Protect the Planet

The Nicodemus Wilderness Project (http://www.wildernessproject.org/projects.php) connects volunteers to public lands so that they can clean and beautify the area. There are several different projects from which you and your family can choose, including the Apprentice Ecologist Project (http://www.wildernessproject.org/volunteer_apprentice_ecologist.php). If you don’t live near any public lands why not schedule a giving back family vacation?

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family resolution - get in shape togetherWow, 2013 is almost over and 2014 is upon us. Now is the time for New Years resolutions. Now is the time to make resolutions that will help build a stronger, happier, and healthier family. For me there was so much I wanted to do with my family that I did not. However, it is not important to dwell about the past but look to 2008 with optimism and excitement. If you failed on resolutions in the past, make smaller ones that can be easily accomplished and build on those successes. Keep a list of your resolutions and small steps you will take to make them happen. Talk about your resolutions with your family, and have your spouse or kids help hold you accountable to those resolutions! In fact, everyone in the family should participate and hold each other accountable. For me there is nothing more powerful then my five year old looking at me in the eyes and reminding me what I had promised to do! Here are some resolutions for mom and dad to think about, and if your kids are old enough have them join in and come up with some New Years resolutions on their own.  READ More on New Years Resolutions for Dads and Moms

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